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SPWF Encouragement Entourage

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A place where we can offer encouragement and support for anyone who is having a bad day, serious problems, breakdowns etc.

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  • Lynn
    by Lynn 12 days ago
    Bills are piling up and I have cut everything I can. When husband got into trouble he lost his job which was 2/3 of our income. Now with him gone I have cut down as much as I can but I'm still short on money. Now everyone keeps telling me to sell his stuff that I dont need/use to get extra cash. I just feel like it's getting rid of him from my life. The shut off notices and the cancellations and the collections keep coming. I've kept it together without having any massive depression for almost a year. We have 8 months of time left then 5 years parole but I'm not sure how to make it to next week. My little boy turns 2 this week and all I can think about it how far behind we are and how many meals i can skip to keep a roof over his head. I just feel like I'm drowning
  • Linus
    by Linus 2 months ago
    My anxiety is so high right now I can’t focus on any one thing and feel really restless. We have 20 months to go and my heart ache’s constantly for him. My days are spent thinking of him and how amazing it will be to have him home and my nights are sleepless. I toss and turn from the unsettling feeling and gnawing ache in the pit of my stomach from enduring this time we are apart. I wear his T-shirt to bed with some of his cologne on it to help me feel close to him and bring me comfort to ease my anxiety. The best part of my day is getting a phone call and hearing his voice. Dear Lord helps us through this!!
  • Barbie
    by Barbie 3 months ago
    Has anyone just woke up in the middle of the night crying your eyes out hurting so bad to the point that you are physically ill. Or dread going to bed at night because you know you will just lay there and be miserable because you can't get him out of your head longing to fell those strong arms around you my husband has always been my rock when my whole world is falling down around me I've always had him to lean on
  • Kienast Girl
    by Kienast Girl 3 months ago
    I haven't heard from my husband in 3 full days going on 4. No Email phone nothing my he hasn't even called his father which really scares me. I called the prison yesterday and they said that they were under lockdown and that he want involved in the big situation that happened on Monday 03/12 I am very scared I'm trying to think positive but it is very hard I have studied Criminal Justice and Corrections and I know what kind of garbage that can happen at the snap of a finger and I am very scared.
  • MrsPFJ
    by MrsPFJ 3 months ago
    My brand new husband was sentenced to 41months in federal. We were told to expect him to get 0-6months, and IF he got time, he would be able to self surrender....instead he was taken that day...and my heart broke. We were together for 1.5years and had been married for 2 weeks. How do you make the heartache subside? I feel like there is a hole so big and I can't breathe. How do I do this, how do I put it all aside and go on thru life without him!? This was supposed to be our honeymoon phase...
  • Brown Eyed Girl
    by Brown Eyed Girl 4 months ago
    This is my first "official" post to this site. I am really confused and the depression is becoming overwhelming. My boyfriend was sentenced in Nov 2017 and has 9 years. The earliest he can come home is after 8 years. We live in a city that is usually pretty lax in sentences and he had no prior offenses except for traffic violations and things of that nature. He was with someone who has a long history of violent offenses and I am devastated they gave my b.f. so much time just make an example. I understand that he was there with this other guy and therefore just as liable. But I see other offenses on the news that are much more serious but those people get 3, 4, maybe 5 years. To complicate matters, we were best friends for 20 years and just got together about 8 months before he left. We have had issues with letters getting lost, phones not working, broken JPay kiosks, you name it. And it's only been 3 months! I think of the 8 years we have left and worry constantly. I don't want to worry him with my mental state, but he knows me so well that he senses something is wrong. I don't know how to explain to him what I am feeling without him worrying. I don't know how to handle waiting 8 years. He was also just transferred over 2 hours away. Feel like the deck is stacked against us.
  • CG
    by CG 5 months ago
    I am feeling very worried, lonely, and depressed right now. My husband was extradited from Virginia and is in transit to Florida. I'm told, by the facility he is being transferred to, that extradition can take up to a month. It's been five days and I'm going crazy not hearing from him, reading his letters, etc. How do any of you handle this? When you don't hear from you hubby from days/weeks at a time, how do you cope? This is the longest, in five months, that we've gone without speaking. And it may be nearly a month before we talk. Keep busy, yadda yadda yadda. It's not enough to hear that. But maybe that's all you can do? Anyone else had to deal with this? I'm tempted to drown my anxieties/sorrows in a bottle of whiskey but KNOW that that isn't the proper thing to do. So what can I do? Advice/suggestions are very much appreciated.
  • Kienast Girl
    by Kienast Girl 6 months ago
    I seriously can't take it anymore I can't stand being away from him anymore seriously thinking about putting myself under a 72 hour watch I am tempted to do ANYTHING to take this pain away
  • sweetheartjenna
    by sweetheartjenna 7 months ago
    Hi all I hope maybe someone can help me out. I found out my husband is going to be away intel Feburary 6, 2026. Now everyone tells me the best thing I can do is not think about how much time they have left. I tend to keep realy busy, journaling, working two jobs and writing letters to my love. It is when o have down time that I find myself obsessing over that date. Does anyone have any suggestions on coping this. I know this is the absolute worst thing I can do. But still being new to this, I don’t yet have the skills to not.
  • sweetheartjenna
    by sweetheartjenna 8 months ago
    Has anyone ever had problems getting funds into JPay? I have been trying for days to no avail. My card quits declining for no reason I called both JPay and my bank and on both accounts they can’t see an issue. Curious how it got resolved.