SPWF Encouragement Entourage

SPWF Encouragement Entourage

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A place where we can offer encouragement and support for anyone who is having a bad day, serious problems, breakdowns etc.

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    Deb
    Deb is now a member of SPWF Encouragement Entourage.
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    byondmycntrl
    byondmycntrl is now a member of SPWF Encouragement Entourage.
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    WonderWoman89 is now a member of SPWF Encouragement Entourage.
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    Brenda
    Brenda commented on the group SPWF Encouragement Entourage's wall:
    My fiance was incarcerated on July 18 2017 by false accusations that my sister had started that has crushed me and my household. As his preliminary hearing is approaching in 12 days I am doing nothing but praying for the best. I am praying the truth ...
    14 days ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Idk your story, but when it comes to family, that's so fucked up on all levels okay, and this is why you keep certain ppl out of your relationship/marriage bc ppl tend to be jealous of your happiness, and sadly ppl can become jealous of your or a struggle bc they don't want to know or understand what it took for you to get to where you are now. They're not willing to go through or
      13 days ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Put up with the things you had to, bc maybe at that time you had no choice, so it's your happiness no one else's and who's anybody to say who you should be happy with?? Hope some truth comes out it and in the meantime keep your distance from her okay, so sorry you are going through it and I'm here anytime you wanna talk okay, love ya girl, Tommie~~~.
      13 days ago
    • sweetheartjenna
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      sweetheartjenna Well I'm about to become much more active, my husband who has been out on bail plead out. 8 1/4 years 54 months post prison supervision on Oregons Mesure 11 charges. Sentencing is to come on October 6. And he will have to surve every last day. Got a long road ahead and I hate he has to indure this. But I love him and not planning on going anywhere!
      11 days ago
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    Brenda
    Brenda is now a member of SPWF Encouragement Entourage.
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    D
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    Admin JoJo Matthews
    Admin JoJo Matthews commented on the group SPWF Encouragement Entourage's wall:
    "Believe what your hear tells you, not what others say." Author unknown
    21 days ago
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    Talman2027
    Talman2027 is now a member of SPWF Encouragement Entourage.
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    Loobylou
    Loobylou is now a member of SPWF Encouragement Entourage.
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    Kienast Girl
    Maddie is now a member of SPWF Encouragement Entourage.
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    shortttie
    shortttie is now a member of SPWF Encouragement Entourage.
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    shortttie
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    Cheyenne
    Cheyenne commented on the group SPWF Encouragement Entourage's wall:
    There are 2 specific females that i consider friends but theyre always talkin abt oh i hope u waiting for him is worth it. Or always trying to get me to think hes messing up. Like i need them to just let me live my life. Hes been in since april 2015 ...
    28 days ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hey Cheyenne- When ppl start feeding you doubts, it's time to let go and move on and glad you found this site where there's 0 tolerance for negativity, drama and bs, bc we've all and still walking the same shoes you're walking in, and I am one of those women, who's now husband did 4.5 yrs and yes it was worth the wait, bc we have came so far to be where we are now with each other, the struggle is real at times, but with love, prayer, perservance, and patience, you'll be glad you stayed with him and think about it, usually ppl like that aren't happy bc they're miserable themselves, so don't pay ppl like that any mind okay, Hope this helps some, and love ya, Tommie~~~.
      28 days ago
    • Cheyenne
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      Cheyenne Thanks so much for respnding. I think it just wears on me because its constant. But i know its worth it, he should be home in less than 2 years now.
      27 days ago
    • KNB
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      KNB Hi Cheyenne I can't add much more than Tommie has already said. If you're confident your relationship is a good one and he is worth the wait don't concern yourself too much with their negativity. Try and spend more time with people that will offer you more support and try and lift your spirits rather than wear at you. Less than 2 years you can do this no problem :)
      27 days ago
    • Cheyenne
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      Cheyenne Thanks to both of you for the encouragement. Not many people around me are happy for me. I mean our kids are happy but doesnt seem like anyone else. Just wearing on me, and i dont usually post but i appreciate both of you and this site soooo much
      27 days ago
    • Jidje's Girl
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      Jidje's Girl Cheyenne....You just keep doing you and come here when you are frustrated about others who do not understand. We do, and just to give you something nice to think about...My guy is in his 29th year of LWOP..we have a terrific relationship. 3-4 calls everyday, watch our shows at same time and discuss, trade music,and visit once a week. We are very happy and i don't listen to the negative from family and friends, no room for it, it is hard enough making the best of a difficult situation with my guy. You hang in there and just love your guy. We are here
      27 days ago
    • Cheyenne
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      Cheyenne thanks so much :) i think im gonna take the baby to see him this weekend so im sure that'll make things somewhat better too. he hasnt been able to call since May - he got himself into trouble and did some time in the box...he got outta the box 8/15 but still loss of privileges til the 27th
      26 days ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hey Cheyenne-- Well at least he's two days away from getting his privileges back again, two, you can't make your decisions based on ppl's opinions esp if they're negative, it's YOUR choice not theirs on who you love, bc if the tables were turned, wouldn't you want him to give you a chance?? Of course you would, so tune out the negative, distance yourself from ppl esp if that's all they give is negative, there's plenty of what you can do to and for yourself to keep yourself busy okay. Hope this helps some more, and feel free to talk to any of us okay, love ya girl, Tommie~~~.
      26 days ago
    • Jidje's Girl
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      Jidje's Girl That sounds like a great visit for all of you with the baby. Enjoy it....talk to you soon. Have a nice weekend!
      26 days ago
    • Jidje's Girl
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      Jidje's Girl I had my visit today. Had such a great day, so much laughing and talking. He really is my best friend! It was a wonderful Friday!
      26 days ago
    • Cheyenne
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      Cheyenne Our visit went really well today, reminds me exactly why im waiting for him. I appreciate all of your support. And your right about leaving all the negative people too
      24 days ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Yw Cheyenne, glad you two had a great visit, and hang in there, better days ahead!!
      23 days ago

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  • Brenda
    by Brenda 14 days ago
    My fiance was incarcerated on July 18 2017 by false accusations that my sister had started that has crushed me and my household. As his preliminary hearing is approaching in 12 days I am doing nothing but praying for the best. I am praying the truth will be revealed and he will be set free. I know nothing is to big for my God. I am doing all I possibly can and it's so hard. I'm getting all the evidence up and communicating with his lawyer, supporting him in all the ways I can, and homeschooling my son and now the bills and everything is on me. But most of all even though its been almost 2 months since hes been in jail, I just can't get past the fact that he's not here. Words can't express how this has made me feel and how this has ripped apart my family. Please pray for me, my kids and my fiance and I will pray for yall. thanks and God Bless!
  • Admin JoJo Matthews
    by Admin JoJo Matthews 21 days ago
    "Believe what your hear tells you, not what others say."

    Author unknown
  • Cheyenne
    by Cheyenne 28 days ago
    There are 2 specific females that i consider friends but theyre always talkin abt oh i hope u waiting for him is worth it. Or always trying to get me to think hes messing up. Like i need them to just let me live my life. Hes been in since april 2015 the month before our son was born, and ive been nothing but faithful and loyal to him. Like why dont they want me to be happy!
  • Mikesgirl
    by Mikesgirl 1 month ago
    Just need to vent. So I dated my l.o 25 years ago and a year and a half ago we reconnected. We were talking every day for 6 months before he went in. Since he has been on the inside we have started dating and I'm happier than I ever could be. The only thing is my closest friends keep telling me that they don't think he will call me anymore once he gets out. He is up for parole in Oct 2017. I went for a visit (which was a 22 hour drive to see him for 5 hours) two weeks ago and I loved the time we spent together. I love my friends but then telling me things like he won't wanna talk to me when he gets out, how do I know he will be loyal to me ( we live in different provinces)just makes me over think. What can I say to my friends to get them to stop saying this stuff and making me over think.
  • Yani
    by Yani 1 month ago
    Hi , how will I encourage my fiance who's depressed upon knowing his sentence..
  • Cali's Girl
    by Cali's Girl 1 month ago
    August 2nd-2017 will be year that my hubby got locked up... I'm beyond lost don't know what to do or where to go. He's doing an 18 yr sentence!!! For stealing a weed eater and guitar and pawning it... U'd think that he's been in ALOT of trouble to of gotten all that time. Nope!! In fact he'd only been in trouble once before. I just want him back so bad it physically hurts...
  • Jemmy
    by Jemmy 1 month ago
    Having a tough day, my bf is facing yrs in jail bc someone lied in their statement to avoid arrest. He is depressed and I am too, it seems so unfair that his life is ruined bc of someone else's bs. I am trying to be strong but today I just want to cry, I love n miss him so much and just want to hold him. We fought last wk bc the lawyer is a jerk and I didnt want to be the messenger anymore. This is so stressful and sad I have never gone thru this before and I'm not sure what I can do to make him feel better :( I havent been in love in a very long time and dont want to be with anyone but him. I tried leaving him and we werent together for abt a month when he got arrested, when he called I was so happy and scared bc I didnt know how I felt abt him-but when I visited him I got butterflies and felt like a teenager it was crazy! People warn me about jail talk and he is an addict so the stigma of an addict in jail makes everyone I talk to make me feel like crap for wanting to be there for him. I may be played like a fool, he cld die from his addiction, or we could work through this together and I am trying to prepare myself for every possible outcome. But I know that I have to follow my heart because there is something about him worth fighting for, I have kicked men to the curb for much less than he has put me through. I think he wld be an amazing father and husband, I want to spend the rest of my life loving him and building a happy life and family. I get scared I am delusional and have been hurt so much in the past I realize I have alot of work to do on myself as well. We are both messed up in our own way but it results in a level of understanding and forgiveness I have never experienced. I am in a PhD program and told him before his arrest that I would be ok with focusing on school while he does his time. I have been single for many years and am used to being alone, he is worth waiting for and doesnt believe me that I want to wait for him but I guess time will tell. I just wish I could do something for him and feel so helpless :( my life has been difficult and I am sick of struggling and misery-sometimes I feel cursed bc this all happened not long after we first started dating. I have known him since high school and he has always been sweet and I have had a crush on him for 20 yrs. after his warrant he started using and turned into a diff person, I think thats why I got butterflies when I saw him bc it was the man I fell in love with. This is torture, and I know its worse for him. What adds insult to injury is everyones judgemental and rude comments! Why do girls like bad boys? Hes just using you! He only cares about drugs! They don't know him and are making snap judgements, he is incredibly sweet, caring and has a huge heart. Basically just making it much worse for me, when i need love and support. Many of these ppl I have been there for no matter what and it hurts that it is not reciprocal. Love isnt easy to come by and logically this doesnt make sense but I have to at least try </3
  • wonderwoman
    by wonderwoman 2 months ago
    This week has been the hardest since my husband went to prison. He's been so angry and depressed and Tuesday night he told that he was refusing his insulin. Wednesday I tried to talk him into taking his insulin, and he said he'll think about it. I haven't heard anything from him since then and I'm really scared that now he's in a diabetic coma or worse. So upset and scared and feel so utterly helpless, and I feel like I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown. I love him so much and don't want anything bad to happen to him.
  • wonderwoman
    by wonderwoman 2 months ago
    Today has been super hard, my husband is mad at me because of something my brother said to him, and he says that I'm not on his side, I tried telling him that I am on his side. He pretty much hung up on me and feel so sad, lonely, and depressed. I don't know what to do.
  • Broken butterfly
    by Broken butterfly 2 months ago
    I haven't heard from my husband today which makes me worried, angry, sad. Hard to function at work. He has two cases ( this time) plus violation of parole. Not yet sentenced. Just waiting game. I'm tired lonely and lost faith he can live straight life style. But I love him with all I am and we have a son together. Wish I could crawl in bed and not face the world today.