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In this stage of the process there are so many new feelings going on. We're scared, learning to be alone, learning the judicial system, terrified as to what the future holds for us and our significant others.

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  • Melissa
    by Melissa 4 days ago
    Hi, My name is Melissa and my fiance is sitting a local jail for driving on a suspended license.He has a very large record and they originally offered him 180 days but because I got a dr note that im pregnant and some other letters now there offereing him 90 days.He seems to think continuning to call the states attorney with character witness will cut his plea bargain.Do you agree?
  • Britty1007
    by Britty1007 18 days ago
    I am really going through it mentally. I don't know if I'm ready for October to get here or not. What could have been mere months is going to be years. An F5 refail with 5 years parole left. What the heck was he thinking? I know....he wasn't. I pray the judge sticks with the plea of 2 to 4 and doesn't give him a worse sentence. But then there's the fear of what the parole board is gonna do to him and he's already violated parole before. I mean, he says he never had a reason to change until he met me and I pray he's sincere about that. I will be devoted and faithful throughout all of this. But I will not allow myself to be put through it again once this is all done and over with. I love him, but this is his one screw up. I'm so scared of what's going to happen in October. Prayers and mercy for the morning of October 2nd. Oh, and I haven't heard his voice or seen his face since June 4th. What a nightmare.
  • Cupcake
    by Cupcake 18 days ago
    I'm scared. I'm so damn scared. It's day 61 since he got arrested for an OUI. (He was actually pulled over for an expired inspection sticker) I'm months behind on the rent, we had only been married 2 weeks when all this happened. He now says that the outcome could be worse than we anticipated. (2 1/2-5 years rather than the 6mos-1yr we were praying for)
    He's my soul. I waited almost 40 years to finally meet my other half, WHY? Just WHY?
  • Tmbz11
    by Tmbz11 22 days ago
    Dont even know where to start with my story. Bad situation just got worse when someone decided to try and get my husbamd in trouble and it worked. He was arrested yesterday. He was the "bread winner" I stay home with our twin toddlers. I dont know what i will do, how i will get by. No other support system for me and the kids. Scared out of my mind right now.
  • CaityBaby
    by CaityBaby 2 months ago
    My fiancé was arrested just a couple days ago, days that feel like years. He was already facing his original charge and then they put out some garbage warrant for him and took him in claiming he was running. He wasn't. We were actually planning one of our last camping trips before his sentencing date when they came into our house and took him away from me. We've kept in steady contact but he keeps asking me to call all the these people, and I am more than happy to. Anything to help him. I'm just so overwhelmed because I have no idea what I'm doing. He wants me to try and find him a new lawyer and I said ok. But I don't know the first step to take in even doing so. I'm doing everything I can to stay calm, cool, and collected but I'm constantly on the verge of losing it.
  • sweetheartjenna
    by sweetheartjenna 3 months ago
    My Boyfriend called this morning, after not hearing from him for 3 days this time around. The first thing he asked me was "Are you picking me up Monday?" in witch I had to reply no to. I live in Oregon witch is one of the four states that does not have a Bail bonds system so we have to come up with the money ourselves. Tomorrow will be 60 days in and we are close to having the money but still have a couple more hoops to jump through. So in his frustration he lashed out at me, and started telling me how he is loosing his mind, and how he is starting to feel like he will never get out. He calmed down towards the end of your short 8 minute phone call but he was definitely upset, I told him all I could do is Pray as I always do. and that ended our phone call with a few I love you's after that I went into service and during worship I balled my eyes out and all I could do was pray. I did not even know what to pray for. This road were on is so long and so tiring I just pray for continued streghth
  • TeenaCeeCee
    by TeenaCeeCee 3 months ago
    Waiting for sentencing. Feeling anxious All the time. Up until this point, I have been hopeful & hearing the guilty verdicts changed that - FAST. Although, he's been in jail since 2015, only now am I REALLY feeling the sadness. Reality is setting in.....
  • Britty1007
    by Britty1007 4 months ago
    LONG story short, my fiance was arrested on the 25th of January after a high speed chase due to him not wanting to go back to prison. He had a warrant He was too afraid to tell me about for not going to a halfway house upon leaving prison the last time. He has/had 5 years parole time left and he got a plea of 2 to 4 for a felony of feeing and eluding. He's wanting to fight the felony (others were dropped) but I'm afraid of the consequences if he tries to fight and things go terribly wrong. I don't know where to go from here. I think I can handle the 2 to 4 if he takes that plea. What I cant handle is not knowing what parole is going to do to him. That 2 to 4 could turn into 7 to 9. Im petrified. Ive never been more in love and this man has been ripped from my life. Any advice or suggestions would be appreciated. I even thought about writing to the ACLU because I feel what they did to him was entrapment. The police knew where he was since they pulled right into our alley with lights flashing. I spoke with an attorney who said that the chase never should have happened to begin with. There was no reason for them not to try and come back later. I believe someone on my end told them where he was. I'm so naive to all of this, I didn't know anything about PO/HOUSING approval. If he had just been honest with me from the start.
  • mady
    by mady 4 months ago
    My husband was taken into custody yesterday. He turned himself in after he found out there was a warrant. It's been so traumatizing. I was able to speak to him today and hes doing ok, scared, lonely, and stressed but ok. I guess I'm feeling the same way just more all over the place. One minute I'm good the next I'm angry and the next I'm just a total basket case. I have to admit I'm not a joiner but I feel very lost at the moment and an not sure what to do for him or me. I'm not much of a crier either but that seems to be a new feature of my personality. I want to be strong and supportive for him, myself, our family and friends and I can put on the strong show when I need to but I sure don't feel it deep down.
  • Huskermom
    by Huskermom 5 months ago
    My fiance was taken into custody on Jan 28th!! My heart feels like its been torn from my chest!! I cry all the time, even tho he calls me twice a day...will this get easier?? He says Im scared I am gonna leave him like his past gfs have, and I refuse to leave him because I know deep in my heart I know hes a good man!
    This waiting for his court proceedings to begin are making me nervous..I just hope to have him home soon..