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    Sheal
    Sheal Good afternoon. Does anyone have loved ones in a Federal Correctional Facility? My husband is scheduled to get out in July. However, there are some questions on whether the Halfway House programs will be still available. Has anyone heard anything about half way houses closing and will no longer be available for prisoners to have an easy transition?
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    Bail
    Bails Does anyone have any good tips for coping with not being able to talk to your loved one for a long period of time? And different activities or things to keep them busy while they are in solitary?
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    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews I usually spend extra time with friends and family or extra time working. For him I will print off bible verses, quotes, poetry, cross word puzzles, word searches, articles he may find interesting. I keep him flooded with mail.
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    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews There is a workbooks called separated by Prison United by conviction, you could purchase that and write him questions from there you both have to answer.
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    • Sheal
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      Sheal I do a lot of coloring with glitter gel pens. Using the adult coloring books. This was suggested to me by my therapist. It's really soothing. Also I write long letters and o also write short stories for my husband to read. He enjoys my short stories.
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      Bail Thank you both so much. This really helped
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    HoneyBee
    HoneyBee This is new to me. I see that you can have either paid or free membership. Can someone please explain the difference?
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    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews With the paid version you get access to a lot of videos you wouldn’t normally have access to. The video are usually made by our co founder Ro where she gives advice and tips on a variety of different things. There are also other small things that go on throughout the year that only paid members have access to.
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    Admin JoJo Matthews
    Admin JoJo Matthews wrote a new blog: "Difficult decisions ".
    Don’t worry this isn’t a blog where I say I am leaving my loved one ok maybe I’m leaving him but not breaking up with him.  Some things have happened in my life over the past couple of years that have really made the life is short saying ...
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    Deb
    Deb My fiancee comes up for parole in February 2018 and can someone please help me on writing a letter to the parole board?
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    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews I don’t have experience but I think you can google it. Hoping someone responds here and can give you some pointers.
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    • Deb
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      Deb Thank you
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    • SReyes
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      SReyes Yes if you google it there will be lots of example letters.
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    SReyes
    SReyes Finally set a wedding date! September 19, 2019!! I know it's kinda far away but it still makes me happy. I just pray my love makes his next parole so it possible for us to get married on that date :(
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    • TagsGirl82
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      TagsGirl82 That's so exciting! Congratulations! Stay positive and I will pray for you both!
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    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews Woohoooo, lots of prayers up
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    Kienast Girl
    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies the time is 0700. Couldn't sleep much last night my Husband called me and told me a little disturbing news. For those who don't know he struggles with addiction as well as I. His addiction was very different than mine, mine is drugs and alcohol; his is pornography. So ya very different I have been clean for a whole 7 years him on the other hand 10 months. I completely understand the struggles with addiction and the urges and everything that comes along with it but "his addiction is what got him in prison" I guess I am a little alarmed that he would be thinking of that while he is locked up because I do my very best to make sure his needs are met. We have Date Night once a week we have 2 personal visits a month where we talk about sex and all that, I'll send kinky pictures and I will even write kinky letters but I have a feeling that its not enough anymore. I don't want him to have the relapse I did which almost landed me in the hospital (came close to ODing) I understand they have to do what they have to do to keep their head on right but I am really concerned. Could I be over reacting? Or am I reacting the right amount???
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    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews You understand addiction so understand that just like you will have times where you will want to get high or have a drink people with porn have the same urges. I think the will need therapy if he isn’t getting it on the inside. I think it’s great he is being upfront and honest about it and not trying to hide it from you.
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      Kienast Girl He knows better than to try to hide it from me and I know it helps him to talk about it, currently he has no help on the inside when he was in jail they had classes that he took (parenting, coping, and self enhancers for recovering addicts) he loved going to I wish the system had classes like that I guess the whole thing had me a little scared had a good talk with his dad (father in law) about it last night and that did make me feel better because him and I share the same conerns and we both want to help him the best we can
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