Deb

Deb

41 years old
Female
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MOUNT VERNON
United States
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So excited I go see my love tommarow evening.
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    Fromage
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    Deb So excited I go see my love tommarow evening.
    4 months ago
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    Deb My fiancée took a 5 yr plea last week and he's been locked up since June and I worry and miss him so much I have lost close to 30 pd and I can't eat or sleep, I have never been through this and I need help dealing with this.
    4 months ago
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      Admin JoJo Matthews Well first thing first you need to take care of yourself you won't be any good to him broke down. Next we take this one day at a time some days will be harder than others but know you aren't alone. Letters, phone calls and visits will help both of you stay connected. Communication is key in this situation, you have to be willing to talk about everything bad, good and the little stuff in between. Also set boundaries as well. This journey will be hard for both of you don't break yourself financially talk to each other and set up some boundaries about how much money will go on the phone, his books and towards visits. At first you may think whatever he needs I've got him but you will burn out quickly. Lastly patience is key. The system doesn't rush for anyone. Know that if he doesn't call it's because he can't not because he doesn't want to. Patience is key to everything and ya'll will have little control over anything. Once tho know what facility he is at if you don't already then research will be key to learning the dress code for visits and what is allowed for mail. If he's in state the state will have a website for the DOC just google it, same goes for federal. Lastly you can do this, there are many that are doing it now and there are success stories.........just breathe and one step at a time.
      4 months ago
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      Deb Thank you so much. He's still in county jail now but waiting sentencing in that county then I don't really know what will happen then.
      4 months ago
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    Deb joined Strong Prison Wives & Families
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