Kienast Girl

Kienast Girl

22 years old
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Fond du Lac
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Good Morning Ladies Happy Monday the time is 0921 Damn what a Monday so far at 0715 a fire broke out in the plant for 2 hours I had to sit outside in the snow and blowing wind I just got back inside I heated up my coffee and munching on some nuts I hope
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    Kienast Girl
    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies Happy Monday the time is 0921 Damn what a Monday so far at 0715 a fire broke out in the plant for 2 hours I had to sit outside in the snow and blowing wind I just got back inside I heated up my coffee and munching on some nuts I hope the rest of the day goes smoothly for everyone
    1 month ago
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    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies, Sorry for the late start the time is 0946 and it is a bright sunny day here is Wisconsin of course I'm in my office sipping my coffee I put my supervisors Keurig in my office since I was the only one using it so its a win win kinda thing. The oral argument date is set for 02/06/2018 so its coming up fast. So far I am not planning on going because it is in Chicago and as far as we are aware of Neil is not required to go but if he is required I will for sure be going. Not sure what happens during an oral argument but from what my understanding is the lawyers talk and the defendant doesn't talk. But from what my research is telling me since he is in prison he is not going. I hope everyone's days are going smoothly.
    1 month ago
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    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies, Well to start things out it is 0744 and thankfully my office has been quiet my Mother is currently texting me since it is my birthday and she is trying to start a fight. Every year for as long as I can remember her and I always without a doubt have a huge fight on my birthday. So this year she is trying to make today all about her and her family. I refuse to stoop to her level and give her what she wants so I am currently not responding to her. I just find this all very odd since it has been 3 weeks 1 day of her being silent. When I saw her text I right away felt whatever energy I had come right out of my butt. Thank God my coffee is giving me a little more pep in my step and my Hubby and I have date night tonight so that is something to look forward to
    2 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hey love, the best thing to do is to block her and anyone else who's not supportive of your decision of being with man of your dreams, it's your choice, your life and your decision, not her's or their's they have their life to live as much as you do and they need to go on and do it, and leave you alone, leave this yr and the negatives in the past right where they belong in the past and move on, if they can't do that, then aye that's their problem not yours, live your life and not worry about no one else okay. We and God love you and that's it and all you need to worry about. Hope this helps some, love always, Tommie~~.
      2 months ago
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    Kienast Girl
    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies, the time is 0710 (7:10AM) wow what a morning so far I have been at my desk for a whole 20 minutes and I have been on the go I got a call from security that an employee is having seizures in the plant so I had to call the Paramedics then the fire alarms started to go off because someone thought it was a good idea to smoke in the restroom. I am not currently sitting in my office with my orange juice and mountain of paperwork hoping today flies bye could seriously crawl back in bed with my cat and stay there for the rest of the day somehow got the cold my Father in Law had....oh well I shall survive I hope everyone's morning goes smoothly and I shall be checking in later this afternoon
    2 months ago
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    Kienast Girl Ladies I am in need of some help/advice I started talking to this guy on snap chat in the very beginning I made it very clear that I was married and he made it clear that he had a girlfriend so I was under the impression that him and I were just friends fast forward 30 days of talking on and off and he messages me yesterday very upset naturally asking what was wrong he said that he went to a part in Waupun and he met a bunch of guys down there and of course they were talking about girls so he took out his phone and showed them my picture and told them I was his girlfriend and one of the guys recognized me and told him that I had a boyfriend so after he is telling me this I got upset angry and all emotional I deleted 99% of my snap chat (kept what my husband and I exchanged) got rid of 1/2 my friends on facebook. I ran to my Father in Laws house after dance class last night and told him the story lets just say he had a few choice words/names for this dude. I am not a cheater I love my husband with all my being why the hell would I go hurt my husband like that ever???? I know deep down my husband and I love each other and we will make it through this easily because we are strong like that. I guess I just need a little reassurance that everything will be ok. Yes I do plan on telling Neil about this tonight when he calls
    2 months ago
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    • Tommie
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      Tommie Please, tell your husband what's going on, bc apparently this guy, his friend has no respect for what you all have none whatsoever, and sometimes ppl in and outside envy what you have, it's happened with us ya know on both sides and we're still strong as ever through our ups and downs and what gets me, us, ppl want so much to be in a relationship/married but don't want to put in the work to make it work, make sense? So hold on to your king, bc you know he'll be home to you sooner than you think, and lastly, block this other guy from contacting you okay, if you have to go as far as changing your number, do so, your love will understand okay.. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      2 months ago
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      Jalynn Oh good Lord! You poor thing! That's crazy! That guy just took it too far. I guess he thought you were lying abiut being married? Or he didn't care? I'm so sorry you got this mess to deal with.
      2 months ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl I told my Husband about it last night needless to say he wasnt very happy about it but then he started laughing when I asked him why the hell was he laughing he told me "see I told you; youre a trophey wife" which made me laugh
      2 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Please, tell your husband what's going on, bc apparently this guy, his friend has no respect for what you all have none whatsoever, and sometimes ppl in and outside envy what you have, it's happened with us ya know on both sides and we're still strong as ever through our ups and downs and what gets me, us, ppl want so much to be in a relationship/married but don't want to put in the work to make it work, make sense? So hold on to your king, bc you know he'll be home to you sooner than you think, and lastly, block this other guy from contacting you okay, if you have to go as far as changing your number, do so, your love will understand okay.. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      2 months ago
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    2 months ago
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    Kienast Girl Hey Ladies going on day 4 of hearing nothing from my Mother. My Husband said to look at it as a blessing in disguise I'm over all ok with it. While I was leaving work yesterday I bumped into the security guard who has been texting my Mother and him and I shot the shit for over an hour and he texted her to try to get her opinion on my Husband and she refuses to acknowledge him as my Husband she calls him "him, it and he" which completely rubbed me the wrong way and got under my skin. My 22nd Birthday is in 21 days at this point I hope she doesn't call me or anyone for that matter if they do call I wont answer they have made it very clear that they don't like Neil as a person and they wont accept him and in my eyes they can stick that attitude where the sun don't shine. I will become Mrs. Neil Kienast and if they don't like they can show themselves out of my life Neil makes me happy and apparently my happiness is not good enough for them
    2 months ago
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    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh np love and you're most certainly welcome, anything we can do to help us "women' be and stay strong okay, good luck to you and gn.. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      2 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hello Mrs. soon to be Neil Kienast, guess what?? That's one of my husband's middle name Deryck Neil Carl Ross Sr. and I'm so sorry you're having to go through this, but, listen to me okay, if no one means you any good, block them out of your life and I believe I had mentioned this to you before, block ppl out of your life who sucks you dry, okay. Bc you don't need THAT type of behavior and negativity in your life, it's your life to live, and your happiness, not theirs, their opinions isn't gonna pay the bills, clothe you and your husband nor put food on the tables okay, see me I tell it like it is and if a mf don't like it, then aye, kick rocks, deuces yo fr fr smh.. Anyways, do you boo and don't let anyone or anything get in the way of that. My ex ( my abuser for 9 yrs 2002-11) and his toxic family gave me hell for marrying my now husband a yr ago November 29, 2016 and about 5.5 mos ago my ex called the cops on me and been doing it for yrs before and after I married Deryck bc he was "feeling some type of way" bc I've moved on and was much happier I've been in a long time and it sounds like your family, and maybe friends are envious, jealous of you of being in love, happy and there not, too bad too sad ya know. How would you know how to be just that if you had never gave him a chance or the time of day, you have to take this opportunity to know if this life is meant for you and from the looks of it, it is so go ahead and take that leap of faith and let God handle the rest. This life being a prison wife or a MWI isn't for everyone and everyone is and gonna have their own views and opinions on it, don't let it deter you from what you know and feel from the inside of your heart. If you two are meant for each other and love each other the way you do, go for it and lastly, CONGRATS to you both okay. Hope this helps some, gn and love always, Tommie~~.
      2 months ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl Thank You Tommie
      2 months ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl I paln on cutting them out of my life completely its just like you said I don't deserve the negitivity they throw at me constantly since I havent spoken to them I feel as tho a weight has been lifted off my chest
      2 months ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl I always appreciate your advice
      2 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh np love and you're most certainly welcome, anything we can do to help us "women' be and stay strong okay, good luck to you and gn.. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      2 months ago
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    Kienast Girl
    Kienast Girl Hey Ladies Well it is official my Mother found out about my engagement to Neil. To make a long story short I no longer have a Mother or anyone on that side of the family. My Dad was never in the picture so ya I have no parents anymore. My maid of honor and I are no longer speaking because she owes me $175.00 and she refuses to pay it and now she is avoiding me. So ya, I'm just grateful I have the relationship that I have with my Father-in-Law. His family has welcomed me with opened arms from the get go. Even before Neil and I got engaged I thought of them as family. I guess I have mixed emotions about the whole situation.
    2 months ago
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      TagsGirl82 I know exactly how you feel. My parents knew about my engagement the whole time but had pretended to go along with it and then about 2 week ago I found out that they planned on waiting until we said our vows to ruin the wedding. It was a blessing that I found out now and when I confronted them they all said the most hateful things to me so I decided it was time to cut them off. It is sad because you feel like you are SUPPOSED to have your family in your life and if you don't then it makes you a bad person but that's not the truth at all. The truth is that you have every right to protect you peace and happiness. Just because someone is you family or your blood does not make it ok for them to treat you badly and ruin happy and exciting milestones in your life. At the end of the day you have to do what is best for you because no one else will live your life for you. I struggled with constantly trying to make my family happy and all it did was make me miserable. My fiance is an amazing man and has never once disrespected me the way they have. My family has been doing this to me for years and I've decided that it is my time to be happy. I literally lost my entire family in a matter of a few hours: my mom, my dad, my 2 sisters and my brother...including nieces and nephews. It is very sad to think about but I keep reminding myself that I had to make the best decision for me and my future. I deserve to live a happy life and it is ok to cut out toxic people no matter who they are. I wish you the best of luck. Stay strong and be true to you and your relationship. Things will all work out!
      2 months ago
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      Java The first person to make happy is you. That is what matters. I stopped speaking to most of my family when Finn and I got together and I moved cross country too. What should of mattered is that I was happy. I understand they were worried about me but there has to be that trust. Like I said in my story I waited 11 years for him and we only had a short 4 years after that on the outside but i wouldn't change it for the world. I would do it over for an eternity if I had to. Finn was the most loving caring man I have ever met in my life. so what he was in prison. No one is perfect and life goes on. I wish you nothing but happiness.
      2 months ago
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    Kienast Girl
    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies the time is 0700. Couldn't sleep much last night my Husband called me and told me a little disturbing news. For those who don't know he struggles with addiction as well as I. His addiction was very different than mine, mine is drugs and alcohol; his is pornography. So ya very different I have been clean for a whole 7 years him on the other hand 10 months. I completely understand the struggles with addiction and the urges and everything that comes along with it but "his addiction is what got him in prison" I guess I am a little alarmed that he would be thinking of that while he is locked up because I do my very best to make sure his needs are met. We have Date Night once a week we have 2 personal visits a month where we talk about sex and all that, I'll send kinky pictures and I will even write kinky letters but I have a feeling that its not enough anymore. I don't want him to have the relapse I did which almost landed me in the hospital (came close to ODing) I understand they have to do what they have to do to keep their head on right but I am really concerned. Could I be over reacting? Or am I reacting the right amount???
    3 months ago
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      Admin JoJo Matthews You understand addiction so understand that just like you will have times where you will want to get high or have a drink people with porn have the same urges. I think the will need therapy if he isn’t getting it on the inside. I think it’s great he is being upfront and honest about it and not trying to hide it from you.
      3 months ago
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      Kienast Girl He knows better than to try to hide it from me and I know it helps him to talk about it, currently he has no help on the inside when he was in jail they had classes that he took (parenting, coping, and self enhancers for recovering addicts) he loved going to I wish the system had classes like that I guess the whole thing had me a little scared had a good talk with his dad (father in law) about it last night and that did make me feel better because him and I share the same conerns and we both want to help him the best we can
      3 months ago
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    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies the time is 1052 Life has been a little crazy but in a good way sorta. Got all the planning done for visitation for the month of November and part of December, get to go somewhat Christmas shopping for "ThanksMas" my Mother in Laws side of the family has every year on November 25th - no I'm not going have to work, been helping my Father in Law start the divorce process with my Mother in Law, got my grandparents house ready for winter (plastic on the windows, hostesses cut down, lawn cut, trees trimmed, 3 season porch sealed off and bird bath put away) So all the stuff Neil is going to be helping with when he comes home. I got my Christmas shopping list done so if I don't work Black Friday I'm spending the day in Appleton to get it all done in one setting hoping my best friend can come with me so we can divide and concur with both our lists. Attempting to figure out what truck to use so I can pick up a few pieces for furniture from her place she wants gone (queen box spring, queen bed frame with head board) I'm thinking either my Husbands Diesel or I'll ask my Father in Law for his spare work truck. Hoping I can take my Husbands truck but I would have to put insurance on it and I want to avoid that because it's $200 a month with both vehicles and renters and I don't want to put insurance on it just to use it the one time and diesel is major cha ching right now.
    3 months ago
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    Kienast Girl Ladies I need some help My family moved away (1800 miles) just under a month ago they don't know I am getting married to be frank they hate my Fiancé because he's locked up they are constantly trying to talk me out of being with him it's that bad. I finally broke down and told my favorite Aunt when she was doing my tattoo and she was over the moon super excited the only thing is SHE'S NOT MY BIOLOGICAL AUNT I told my Fiancés family maybe 3 weeks ago and they are super excited and welcomed me with open arms but no one on my Mothers side knows (THEY HATE HIM) so I put off telling them well since they have been away for a while I feel SAFE enough telling them I seriously felt like I were to have told them right away when we got engaged I would have wound up in a crap load of trouble and heavily disciplined. But since they live so far away and I can protect myself from physical harm its the verbal harm I'm concerned about. Personally I'm sick of they're abuse and can't mentally take it anymore. A little part of me doesn't even want to tell them because they would make the wedding all about them and what they want even though my Fiancé and I have a lot already planned out they are a very controlling manipulative group of people. DO I TELL THEM OR NOT EVEN BOTHER??????
    3 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie I'm so sorry you're having to go through this and that's not even fair from your mother's side of the family, and if they're not gonna be positive, loving and supportive, don't tell them, fuck em, ya know you have your life to live just as well as they do, distance yourself from them and if they ask and wonder why, then tell them tactfully and maybe they'll understand and maybe they won't. This is your life not theirs is what they fail to realize and to understand and that you're in adult not a child and needs to be treated as such. Not everyone is cut from the same cloth including family, and believe me this time last yr in Nov the am of my husband's release, we got married at the local courthouse and I made a huge announcement on fb and my ex's family (who's also my abuser of 9 yrs) they were opposed at me for getting married to a man who's nothing like my ex, so I asked my ex's mom, "Why what's the problem, sounds like you're not happy for me?" so later on I went on ahead and blocked them all on Fb and on IG idgaf shidd it's my life too, I do whatever I fucking please, ya hear me? So Kienast go on and be happy and give him a chance and see what happens, and continue to be blessed okay, hope this helps some, Love always, Tommie~~~>
      3 months ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl Thank You Tommie I really appreciate the advice
      3 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh np love, glad I could help, and that's what we're here for to help others be "strong".
      3 months ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl Told my grandparents on my Dads Dad's side even showed them then ring they loved the ring and are super excited about the eventual wedding
      3 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh and that's what's up, and what I've learned is this, it takes time for ppl to come around, you know bc when you truly love someone it shouldn't matter bc their past is their past they don't live there anymore nor should anyone define the outcome of their future, so just bc your fiance has an unfavorable past, doesn't mean he can't change UNLESS he wants to, and it sounds like he have, he knows what and who he wants in his life and that's you, as long as you're there to show him all the love and support, the rest shouldn't matter, good luck and congrats to you both. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      3 months ago
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      Kienast Girl Thank You Tommie
      3 months ago
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    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies The time is 0800. My best friend came over last night for a girls night and we ended up taking some "special" pictures for my Husband only took us 5 hours to get 12 pictures but we had a ball. Finally got my forever office now all that is left to do is decorate it not a big Halloween fan so I wont be decorating a lot until Christmas / Hanukah in December. Going to ask special permission to decorate the Lobby of my office just a little bit. I know I can't touch any military stuff they have but I can work around it for the most part. I hope everyone's week is going smooth and slick.
    4 months ago
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      Hope I love the idea of sending hehe "special" pics to my fiancé as a surprise but i always get nervous wen I go to hit send and end up never doing it maybe for Christmas or his brirthday
      4 months ago
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      Kienast Girl Don't let the embarrassment get to you think of it this way he needs a visual aid to remind him of what he has waiting back home or even think of it this way give him a reason to masturbate
      3 months ago
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My full name is Madeline I'm 21 years old.
My Fiances name is Neil and we have been together for 2 1/2 years but it feels like forever. I currently work full time at a military company and I moved into my first house June 5th of this year and I recently adopted my little 3 legged cat Dusty Marie. I love my Fiance more than I could ever know. He is currently housed 5 1/2 hours away in Pekin FCI in Pekin Illinois.

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