Kienast Girl

Kienast Girl

21 years old
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Fond du Lac
United States
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Hey Ladies going on day 4 of hearing nothing from my Mother. My Husband said to look at it as a blessing in disguise I'm over all ok with it. While I was leaving work yesterday I bumped into the security guard who has been texting my Mother and him and I
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    Kienast Girl
    Kienast Girl Hey Ladies going on day 4 of hearing nothing from my Mother. My Husband said to look at it as a blessing in disguise I'm over all ok with it. While I was leaving work yesterday I bumped into the security guard who has been texting my Mother and him and I shot the shit for over an hour and he texted her to try to get her opinion on my Husband and she refuses to acknowledge him as my Husband she calls him "him, it and he" which completely rubbed me the wrong way and got under my skin. My 22nd Birthday is in 21 days at this point I hope she doesn't call me or anyone for that matter if they do call I wont answer they have made it very clear that they don't like Neil as a person and they wont accept him and in my eyes they can stick that attitude where the sun don't shine. I will become Mrs. Neil Kienast and if they don't like they can show themselves out of my life Neil makes me happy and apparently my happiness is not good enough for them
    11 days ago
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    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh np love and you're most certainly welcome, anything we can do to help us "women' be and stay strong okay, good luck to you and gn.. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      10 days ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hello Mrs. soon to be Neil Kienast, guess what?? That's one of my husband's middle name Deryck Neil Carl Ross Sr. and I'm so sorry you're having to go through this, but, listen to me okay, if no one means you any good, block them out of your life and I believe I had mentioned this to you before, block ppl out of your life who sucks you dry, okay. Bc you don't need THAT type of behavior and negativity in your life, it's your life to live, and your happiness, not theirs, their opinions isn't gonna pay the bills, clothe you and your husband nor put food on the tables okay, see me I tell it like it is and if a mf don't like it, then aye, kick rocks, deuces yo fr fr smh.. Anyways, do you boo and don't let anyone or anything get in the way of that. My ex ( my abuser for 9 yrs 2002-11) and his toxic family gave me hell for marrying my now husband a yr ago November 29, 2016 and about 5.5 mos ago my ex called the cops on me and been doing it for yrs before and after I married Deryck bc he was "feeling some type of way" bc I've moved on and was much happier I've been in a long time and it sounds like your family, and maybe friends are envious, jealous of you of being in love, happy and there not, too bad too sad ya know. How would you know how to be just that if you had never gave him a chance or the time of day, you have to take this opportunity to know if this life is meant for you and from the looks of it, it is so go ahead and take that leap of faith and let God handle the rest. This life being a prison wife or a MWI isn't for everyone and everyone is and gonna have their own views and opinions on it, don't let it deter you from what you know and feel from the inside of your heart. If you two are meant for each other and love each other the way you do, go for it and lastly, CONGRATS to you both okay. Hope this helps some, gn and love always, Tommie~~.
      11 days ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl Thank You Tommie
      10 days ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl I paln on cutting them out of my life completely its just like you said I don't deserve the negitivity they throw at me constantly since I havent spoken to them I feel as tho a weight has been lifted off my chest
      10 days ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl I always appreciate your advice
      10 days ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh np love and you're most certainly welcome, anything we can do to help us "women' be and stay strong okay, good luck to you and gn.. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      10 days ago
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    Kienast Girl
    Kienast Girl Hey Ladies Well it is official my Mother found out about my engagement to Neil. To make a long story short I no longer have a Mother or anyone on that side of the family. My Dad was never in the picture so ya I have no parents anymore. My maid of honor and I are no longer speaking because she owes me $175.00 and she refuses to pay it and now she is avoiding me. So ya, I'm just grateful I have the relationship that I have with my Father-in-Law. His family has welcomed me with opened arms from the get go. Even before Neil and I got engaged I thought of them as family. I guess I have mixed emotions about the whole situation.
    13 days ago
    • TagsGirl82
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      TagsGirl82 I know exactly how you feel. My parents knew about my engagement the whole time but had pretended to go along with it and then about 2 week ago I found out that they planned on waiting until we said our vows to ruin the wedding. It was a blessing that I found out now and when I confronted them they all said the most hateful things to me so I decided it was time to cut them off. It is sad because you feel like you are SUPPOSED to have your family in your life and if you don't then it makes you a bad person but that's not the truth at all. The truth is that you have every right to protect you peace and happiness. Just because someone is you family or your blood does not make it ok for them to treat you badly and ruin happy and exciting milestones in your life. At the end of the day you have to do what is best for you because no one else will live your life for you. I struggled with constantly trying to make my family happy and all it did was make me miserable. My fiance is an amazing man and has never once disrespected me the way they have. My family has been doing this to me for years and I've decided that it is my time to be happy. I literally lost my entire family in a matter of a few hours: my mom, my dad, my 2 sisters and my brother...including nieces and nephews. It is very sad to think about but I keep reminding myself that I had to make the best decision for me and my future. I deserve to live a happy life and it is ok to cut out toxic people no matter who they are. I wish you the best of luck. Stay strong and be true to you and your relationship. Things will all work out!
      13 days ago
    • Java
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      Java The first person to make happy is you. That is what matters. I stopped speaking to most of my family when Finn and I got together and I moved cross country too. What should of mattered is that I was happy. I understand they were worried about me but there has to be that trust. Like I said in my story I waited 11 years for him and we only had a short 4 years after that on the outside but i wouldn't change it for the world. I would do it over for an eternity if I had to. Finn was the most loving caring man I have ever met in my life. so what he was in prison. No one is perfect and life goes on. I wish you nothing but happiness.
      13 days ago
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    Kienast Girl
    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies the time is 0700. Couldn't sleep much last night my Husband called me and told me a little disturbing news. For those who don't know he struggles with addiction as well as I. His addiction was very different than mine, mine is drugs and alcohol; his is pornography. So ya very different I have been clean for a whole 7 years him on the other hand 10 months. I completely understand the struggles with addiction and the urges and everything that comes along with it but "his addiction is what got him in prison" I guess I am a little alarmed that he would be thinking of that while he is locked up because I do my very best to make sure his needs are met. We have Date Night once a week we have 2 personal visits a month where we talk about sex and all that, I'll send kinky pictures and I will even write kinky letters but I have a feeling that its not enough anymore. I don't want him to have the relapse I did which almost landed me in the hospital (came close to ODing) I understand they have to do what they have to do to keep their head on right but I am really concerned. Could I be over reacting? Or am I reacting the right amount???
    21 days ago
    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews You understand addiction so understand that just like you will have times where you will want to get high or have a drink people with porn have the same urges. I think the will need therapy if he isn’t getting it on the inside. I think it’s great he is being upfront and honest about it and not trying to hide it from you.
      21 days ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl He knows better than to try to hide it from me and I know it helps him to talk about it, currently he has no help on the inside when he was in jail they had classes that he took (parenting, coping, and self enhancers for recovering addicts) he loved going to I wish the system had classes like that I guess the whole thing had me a little scared had a good talk with his dad (father in law) about it last night and that did make me feel better because him and I share the same conerns and we both want to help him the best we can
      20 days ago
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    Kienast Girl
    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies the time is 1052 Life has been a little crazy but in a good way sorta. Got all the planning done for visitation for the month of November and part of December, get to go somewhat Christmas shopping for "ThanksMas" my Mother in Laws side of the family has every year on November 25th - no I'm not going have to work, been helping my Father in Law start the divorce process with my Mother in Law, got my grandparents house ready for winter (plastic on the windows, hostesses cut down, lawn cut, trees trimmed, 3 season porch sealed off and bird bath put away) So all the stuff Neil is going to be helping with when he comes home. I got my Christmas shopping list done so if I don't work Black Friday I'm spending the day in Appleton to get it all done in one setting hoping my best friend can come with me so we can divide and concur with both our lists. Attempting to figure out what truck to use so I can pick up a few pieces for furniture from her place she wants gone (queen box spring, queen bed frame with head board) I'm thinking either my Husbands Diesel or I'll ask my Father in Law for his spare work truck. Hoping I can take my Husbands truck but I would have to put insurance on it and I want to avoid that because it's $200 a month with both vehicles and renters and I don't want to put insurance on it just to use it the one time and diesel is major cha ching right now.
    1 month ago
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    Kienast Girl Ladies I need some help My family moved away (1800 miles) just under a month ago they don't know I am getting married to be frank they hate my Fiancé because he's locked up they are constantly trying to talk me out of being with him it's that bad. I finally broke down and told my favorite Aunt when she was doing my tattoo and she was over the moon super excited the only thing is SHE'S NOT MY BIOLOGICAL AUNT I told my Fiancés family maybe 3 weeks ago and they are super excited and welcomed me with open arms but no one on my Mothers side knows (THEY HATE HIM) so I put off telling them well since they have been away for a while I feel SAFE enough telling them I seriously felt like I were to have told them right away when we got engaged I would have wound up in a crap load of trouble and heavily disciplined. But since they live so far away and I can protect myself from physical harm its the verbal harm I'm concerned about. Personally I'm sick of they're abuse and can't mentally take it anymore. A little part of me doesn't even want to tell them because they would make the wedding all about them and what they want even though my Fiancé and I have a lot already planned out they are a very controlling manipulative group of people. DO I TELL THEM OR NOT EVEN BOTHER??????
    1 month ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie I'm so sorry you're having to go through this and that's not even fair from your mother's side of the family, and if they're not gonna be positive, loving and supportive, don't tell them, fuck em, ya know you have your life to live just as well as they do, distance yourself from them and if they ask and wonder why, then tell them tactfully and maybe they'll understand and maybe they won't. This is your life not theirs is what they fail to realize and to understand and that you're in adult not a child and needs to be treated as such. Not everyone is cut from the same cloth including family, and believe me this time last yr in Nov the am of my husband's release, we got married at the local courthouse and I made a huge announcement on fb and my ex's family (who's also my abuser of 9 yrs) they were opposed at me for getting married to a man who's nothing like my ex, so I asked my ex's mom, "Why what's the problem, sounds like you're not happy for me?" so later on I went on ahead and blocked them all on Fb and on IG idgaf shidd it's my life too, I do whatever I fucking please, ya hear me? So Kienast go on and be happy and give him a chance and see what happens, and continue to be blessed okay, hope this helps some, Love always, Tommie~~~>
      1 month ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl Thank You Tommie I really appreciate the advice
      1 month ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh np love, glad I could help, and that's what we're here for to help others be "strong".
      1 month ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl Told my grandparents on my Dads Dad's side even showed them then ring they loved the ring and are super excited about the eventual wedding
      1 month ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh and that's what's up, and what I've learned is this, it takes time for ppl to come around, you know bc when you truly love someone it shouldn't matter bc their past is their past they don't live there anymore nor should anyone define the outcome of their future, so just bc your fiance has an unfavorable past, doesn't mean he can't change UNLESS he wants to, and it sounds like he have, he knows what and who he wants in his life and that's you, as long as you're there to show him all the love and support, the rest shouldn't matter, good luck and congrats to you both. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      1 month ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl Thank You Tommie
      1 month ago
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    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies The time is 0800. My best friend came over last night for a girls night and we ended up taking some "special" pictures for my Husband only took us 5 hours to get 12 pictures but we had a ball. Finally got my forever office now all that is left to do is decorate it not a big Halloween fan so I wont be decorating a lot until Christmas / Hanukah in December. Going to ask special permission to decorate the Lobby of my office just a little bit. I know I can't touch any military stuff they have but I can work around it for the most part. I hope everyone's week is going smooth and slick.
    1 month ago
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      Hope I love the idea of sending hehe "special" pics to my fiancé as a surprise but i always get nervous wen I go to hit send and end up never doing it maybe for Christmas or his brirthday
      1 month ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl Don't let the embarrassment get to you think of it this way he needs a visual aid to remind him of what he has waiting back home or even think of it this way give him a reason to masturbate
      1 month ago
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    1 month ago
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    Kienast Girl Good Morning Ladies I finally got the picture of my Fiance in the mail YAY Seriously made me cry a little but I found a way to blow it up so I now have an 8X10 all framed up in my kitchen area I get to sneak down to Pekin on Sunday for our anniversary. I also went a little crazy with my best friend and bought an engagement ring I'll be sure to post a picture soon. Got my heater under my desk on high today. My office is freezing and unfortunately will stay freezing until spring again. It is finally starting to feel like fall weather here in Wisconsin 3 days ago it was almost 90 today high of 70. A little part of me wished I would have know I was going to be in my office all day and not patrolling I could have worn comfortable clothes currently all suited up in my tack gear including my belt, boots and vest so needless to say I will be sore tonight. Dropped all my classes starting fresh in the spring.
    2 months ago
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    Kienast Girl Hey ya'll i guess you could say I got some news. Neil and I have decided that if he is not home by February 8th 2018 we are going to sign the paperwork and getting hitched. True I would rather have a wedding but we can no longer stand being not married to each other. If we sign the paperwork the plan is to have a "vow renewal" when he gets out. I really wish Pekin FCI would let me spend the wedding night with him but i highly doubt it. Roughly have an hour and fifteen minuted left in my shift. Neil calls me later today which I'm stoked about but since my strict disapproving family is around I know I will be getting a chewing for talking to him but oh fricken well they will just have to get over it. Been having a lot of depression swings lately but I know it will pass it always does. Betting dollars to doughnuts I get the picture of him on Saturday my fingers are crossed so tight I got white knuckles. He is also cutting back on how many times he is calling me during the week he wants to call his friends (who annoy the crap out of me) more often. Since he has been locked up (8 months) they sent him 1 letter that the drug sniffing dog targeted and marked it as a hit, which really got under my skin, they never call him, they rub their freedom in his face, they don't show any support what so ever. All and all they annoy the crap out of me. He knows when he gets out I am putting my foot down and them being over at the house. I refuse to lose my job not to mention my husband because his friends brought weed to the house or they blamed him on something they did (yes they have done that before) the only reason why they are still friends is because my husband has resources (tools, land, shops, garages ect..) My husband wont charge them for taking up one of the garages to store a vehicle they have or are working on, my husband gives them money when ever they ask for it (hes given them $200 before) I honestly don't know what to do with them anymore I have done my best to be nice and welcoming but they have pushed me too far especially because they want to visit him in October and they still haven't turned in their visitation papers and since I am the dumb one and gave the papers to them I will get blamed when they CO tells them they can't see him because the paperwork isn't done processing or not even turned in. Like I said I have tried and tried and I can't and won't try anymore to get along with them I have held my tongue for almost 3 years about them and I know Neil knows how I feel too. They have lets say voice their opinion to Neil about me too from what Neil told me they don't like me but I'm tolerable. WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN???!!!!?? I have never told Neil they couldn't come over (EVEN ON OUR 1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY) I never kept Neil from them, I cooked and cleaned form them when they were over THEY NEVER HAD TO LIFT A FINGER I guess I just don't understand anything anymore.
    2 months ago
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    Kienast Girl Hey Ladies Feeling frustrated this morning I got an email from the college I attend and apparently I will not be graduating in December like I planned apparently they want me taking all these extra credits seriously thinking about quitting school it has taken me almost 4 years to get my 2 year degree I'm seriously thinking it's not worth it
    2 months ago
    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews Hey girl, I know it's frustrating but can you talk to someone and find out why all of a sudden they want you to take all these extra credits. You've come so far already it would suck for it to be all for nothing and a waste of money.
      2 months ago
    • Kienast Girl
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      Kienast Girl I'm going to school for criminal justice and the state can change the requirement of credits in order to graduate at any time
      2 months ago
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    Kienast Girl Goood Morning Ladies Yesterdays visit went overall pretty good he got very emotional and upset through out the visit and I'll be honest with y'all that really hurt to sit on the other side of that table and not get up to hold him other than that the visit went really good got a lot of wedding planning done he even got talking about when he wanted to start our little family the 6 hour drive home sucked but its worth it to see him
    2 months ago
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    Kienast Girl Hey y'all in 5 hours I leave for Pekin once again this time I'm gonna be smart and get a hotel working till 4pm today so I have an hour to scrub my house from top to bottom at least I packed last night Neil called me last night it was really nice to talk to him tomorrows visit he wants to talk about wedding plans so this should be good the last time we talked about wedding planning he told me he wanted to go out mudding for the reception which of course made me laugh cause I love to go mudding but not for a wedding so ya this should be good I'll be sure to post something tomorrow night and tell y'all what he all said but I'm super excited to see him again
    2 months ago
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My full name is Madeline I'm 21 years old.
My Fiances name is Neil and we have been together for 2 1/2 years but it feels like forever. I currently work full time at a military company and I moved into my first house June 5th of this year and I recently adopted my little 3 legged cat Dusty Marie. I love my Fiance more than I could ever know. He is currently housed 5 1/2 hours away in Pekin FCI in Pekin Illinois.

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