Monty

Monty

27 years old
Female
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Las Vegas
United States
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Nights are always hard for me ... I miss him so much.
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    Admin Cat AKA MrsB1948
    Admin Cat AKA MrsB1948 has accepted Monty's friend request.
    8 months ago
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    Monty
    Monty Nights are always hard for me ... I miss him so much.
    8 months ago
    • ladyasecino
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      ladyasecino Nights are my struggle as well. Nothing prepares you for the lonliness. For a couple weeks I was okay. Now, I'm struggling. I feel like I have no one to talk to. He is my husband and best friend. The person I spent the majority of my time with.
      8 months ago
    • Monty
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      Monty I understand. Last nighy was the first time I think it really hit me. All of this hasn't felt real to me but this entire weekend has really been a struggle. The letters help i just ended up rereading them until i fell asleep. I hope tonight will be better.
      8 months ago
    • kkadam
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      kkadam when you have nights like this, write to him it is as if you are talking to him at the time. I am sure they are missing you ladies just as bad. Eventually it will get easier as time goes. Hang in there, it will get better, we are always here to talk and listen when you are ready.
      8 months ago
    • Monty
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      Monty Thank You so much i am going to try that
      8 months ago
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    Monty
    Monty I am so glad I found this site. Having the support of people who understand what im going through means the world to me. Each of you ladies are loved and appreciated by me if nothing else. Have a great day!
    8 months ago
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    Monty
    Monty Good morning everyone, Hope all is well with everyone. Blessed to see another day. Talked to my honey last night so that really made my day, I'm still happy from the phone call last night lol
    8 months ago
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    indzsh
    indzsh has accepted Monty's friend request.
    8 months ago
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    Monty
    Monty I hope everyone had a good day! Hopefully all our loved ones will be home soon. Stay Strong and Stay Encouraged GN Loves
    8 months ago
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    Monty
    Monty Its Almost Time for my phone call ... This is the first time we've talked in a month. Yea the letters are ok but nothing like hearing his voice and hearing him tell me he's ok. He's encouragement means just as much to me as mine does to him
    8 months ago
    • Tabby
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      Tabby Hope your phone call went well!
      8 months ago
    • Monty
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      Monty It was short but it was a good call :-)
      8 months ago
    • kkadam
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      kkadam Calls are improved and valuable glad you got yours
      8 months ago
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    Monty
    Monty has accepted Mrs Jones 's friend request.
    8 months ago
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    Monty
    Monty I am new here and. So grateful that my profile was approved. I am having an issue with my guy. In wondering if he understands what I go through on my end. The loneliness I feel, The anxiousness I feel. I can't wait for our first visit in September I have no idea what to expect.
    8 months ago
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    • Tommie
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      Tommie Yw Monty and as I said to you before, we've all had those days ya know, some days are better than others, you could feel like shit and tomorrow you'll be ready to take on the world or feel like you're on top of the world, so take it little by little and one day at a time, and use this time to work on you, use this time to be the woman he needs and wants in his life and that is a woman that is STRONG and can overcome anything that comes her way, and being on this site will and can help you do just that.. Love ya girl, Tommie~~~.
      8 months ago
    • indzsh
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      indzsh I'm in similar situation to yours. All I can say is be strong I'm sending you lots of love strength and patience. Meanwhile use this time alone to reflect on yourself and your live and work on yourself being the best version of yourself. Think about the person you wanna be , what areas in your life you need to work on, if you're religious submerge yourself in prayer and reading. Do things to keep busy, things you probably wouldn't be able to do if your man was out, but now you have the time, make sure you get out of bed the days you don't wanna leave the house. Let it be signal that you should get out and do something , use this time to become a stronger woman mentally , I pray God makes it easy for you.
      8 months ago
    • Monty
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      Monty Thank you so much i really needed that getring out of bed has been tough. Finding the energy to do things has been tough and hes in another state its just so mich i feel overwhelmed i have become a complete workaholic i found a church to go too and ive been trying to develop some hobbies. Its tough hut this group helps so much im glad i found you guys
      8 months ago
    • indzsh
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      indzsh You welcome :) and if you ever wanna talk more feel free to message. I only joined recently also and I find this is an encouraging place to be. And God will make it easy for you. I struggled in beginning also but I had to make decision , am I down 100 percent or am I leaving.. there's no in between coz I found myself suffering from missing him and missing out on things in general and experiencing stuff I was all over the place. But once you mentally just accept it and make that final decision then you know where you stand and you doing it for yourself coz you wanna be waiting for him and be there for him and love him, unconditionally.. other than that patience.. and taking it day by day. Learn how to love yourself from beginning, I know it sounds silly but be your own husband, in terms of treat yourself if you can, appreciate how amazing and beautiful and strong you are. Focus on positive things. Make new friends , people who would support you. I can only give this advice coz I went through hell myself , and good news is we can learn to cope in positive way, we are stronger than we think. Just hang in there and I send my love to u once again :)
      8 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hey Monty-- "Welcome' to the group and I was just like you at one point. I did 4.5 yrs with my love and like you and other women, the separation wasn't easy and like indzsh mentioned utilize your time alone wisely, take up your favorite hobby, volunteer at the school, college, university, hospital, local library, food banks, etc. And who knows doing so, may lead to a more permanent position esp b4 he gets out, and when you write him, he'll understand okay. What kept me strong? God for one, and second my family, and third, school which I'll be graduating close to a month now, and I had my days missing him too, the crying spells, roller coaster of emotions, the whole 9, so what you're going through and will continue to go through it's normal, natural and doesn't make you crazy, we've all been there and some are still going through it, okay. Yes my love has been home now since November 28th last yr and been gone since Jluly 25th, 2012 and that wasn't and hasn't always been easy to deal with. A wk ago this coming Sunday, we've just moved into a much bigger home and yes we love it. So if we can do it, so can you, it's okay to feel what you feel alright, but know that we all love you and praying to God to give you the strength to be strong okay love. Hope this helps you some, and if you ever wanna talk, feel free to msg me, find me on fb and IG alright. Love ya girl, and have a great weekend with all that it entails. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      8 months ago
    • Monty
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      Monty I love you guys so much thank you so much... Today i think it really just hit me like this is what im just going to have to do.its hard but i know we will get through it. Its hard for me keeping his spirits up and i try to kewp him encouraged keeping him and me going is alot i wish i would just cry already but the rears just wont fall
      8 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Yw Monty and as I said to you before, we've all had those days ya know, some days are better than others, you could feel like shit and tomorrow you'll be ready to take on the world or feel like you're on top of the world, so take it little by little and one day at a time, and use this time to work on you, use this time to be the woman he needs and wants in his life and that is a woman that is STRONG and can overcome anything that comes her way, and being on this site will and can help you do just that.. Love ya girl, Tommie~~~.
      8 months ago
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    • Lisa G
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      Lisa G Welcome
      8 months ago
    • Monty
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      Monty Thanks Lisa
      8 months ago
    • kkadam
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      kkadam Welcome
      8 months ago

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