Tabby

Tabby

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Thank you to the ones who reassured me about the short letter thing and him just getting adjusted to his new home. After stressing it for a minute, I got another letter today, and it was a very good one! My baby love is back and so is the smile that man
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    Tabby has accepted Ms independent's friend request.
    7 months ago
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    Tabby
    Tabby Thank you to the ones who reassured me about the short letter thing and him just getting adjusted to his new home. After stressing it for a minute, I got another letter today, and it was a very good one! My baby love is back and so is the smile that man puts on my face! ❤
    7 months ago
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    Tabby has accepted cjag's friend request.
    7 months ago
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    Tabby
    Tabby Finally got my first letter since him being moved to prison! However, it was real short and kinda impersonal, no I love you or anything and that is SO not like him at all! Hes one who usually pours it on thick! He did say he'll never not be mine though, so maybe I'm just over thinking it. Its so hard when I can't actually see or hear how he is though so I worry constantly!
    7 months ago
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    • Sharon
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      Sharon Hey Tabby, definitely give him time to adjust. He clearly loves you and wants to be with you, he said so in that letter. I would give him a few weeks to adjust into his new schedule, feel out his new unit, the rest of the guys in his unit, etc.. While it's hard for us, believe us, we understand, he's trying to figure out his new temporary home. Go visit him the first chance you get.
      7 months ago
    • Juke
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      Juke hey soo don't worry let him adjust to his new life
      7 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hey Tabby-- I agree with Juke, give him time to process things and let him come around when he's ready. And maybe reality is finally kicking in, in full swing, ya know. Everyone goes through life, adjusts and grieves differently from others okay, so give it time and focus on you, okay, not saying you're leaving him nor will I suggest that so hang in there bc it seems like you're all he's got while others aren't as fortunate to have someone as special and as strong as you are okay. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      7 months ago
    • Sharon
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      Sharon Hey Tabby, definitely give him time to adjust. He clearly loves you and wants to be with you, he said so in that letter. I would give him a few weeks to adjust into his new schedule, feel out his new unit, the rest of the guys in his unit, etc.. While it's hard for us, believe us, we understand, he's trying to figure out his new temporary home. Go visit him the first chance you get.
      7 months ago
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    Tabby
    Tabby Does anyone know if they allow the inmates to send out letters during the intake/diagnostic process at TDC? I know they don't allow calls or visits..
    7 months ago
    • Admin LaSann
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      Admin LaSann My understanding is they can send letters... Of they have paper and stamps.
      7 months ago
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    Tabby
    Tabby I was thinking today that it had felt like it has been about a month and a half since he got transferred to diagnostics so I should be hearing from him soon.. No, turns out it has only been 2 weeks! Omg..This is going to be the longest 5 years ever!!
    7 months ago
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    • Tabby
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      Tabby Thank you all so much! I'm definitely trying to stay busy because its the only thing that helps! Tommie-Thanks so much for sharing your story! That gives me a lot of hope and I'm so happy things are going well for you and yours!
      7 months ago
    • Sam
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      Sam You got this! One day at a time
      7 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hey Tabby, not unless you keep yourself busy, occupied, distracted and that's about how long of a sentence I had to do with my now husband Deryck, he was gone July 25, 2012 and got last yr November 28, and we married the morning after and now been in our new home (big, beautiful spacious home) for almost 3 wks this coming Sunday. You have to stay busy, inside you're gonna miss him, grieve and have your emotions all over the place, but in reality you're gonna be okay. My story feel free to read at anytime on my profile and msg me if you'd like to, I'm here okay, love ya girl have a great weekend and look forward to hearing more from you real soon..Love always, Tommie~~~
      7 months ago
    • Admin LaSann
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      Admin LaSann Tommie is right on it! Keep yourself busy. Join in the conversations and you'll get to the point that you'll be able to help others. My love has been gone almost 2 yrs and 3 more to go. I have my days.. But between work/volunteering/church.. I keep pretty busy. You'll find your grove. Hold strong
      7 months ago
    • Tabby
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      Tabby Thank you all so much! I'm definitely trying to stay busy because its the only thing that helps! Tommie-Thanks so much for sharing your story! That gives me a lot of hope and I'm so happy things are going well for you and yours!
      7 months ago
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    Tabby
    Tabby Waiting for the intake and diagnostics process to end so I can hear from him is such torture! On a better note, the weather was absolutely gorgeous today and helped put me in much better spirits! How has everybody elses day been? Hope all is well!
    8 months ago
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    Tabby
    Tabby Waiting for the intake and diagnostics process to end so I can hear from him is such torture!
    8 months ago
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    Tabby
    Tabby Just wrote my first prison letter (I've wrote many jail letters and only for several months).. Just so hard to believe this is going to be our next 5 years! I know it could be so much worse so I'm not complaining. The realization is just a little overwhelming.
    8 months ago
    • Admin LaSann
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      Admin LaSann We were given 60 months also .. And he's now almost 24 months in. Sooooo.. Hold on! Your going to do great!
      8 months ago
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    Tabby
    Tabby Just wrote my first prison letter (I've wrote many jail letters and only for several months).. Just so hard to believe this is going to be our next 5 years!
    8 months ago
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    Tabby
    Tabby Good morning everyone! Finally found out where they sent my guy yesterday! Anyone know anything about Garza West/TDC? I've read they only stay there for a few months in intake. Anyway, hope you all have a wonderful day!! Much love sent to you all! May not be under the best of circumstances, but glad to be a part of such a strong group! ☺
    8 months ago
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    • kkadam
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      kkadam welcome to the family, my guy is in TDC my daughter works for them here in amarillo texas. good luck to you. once he finishes intake he maybe able to write to you, they usually find out the night before they leave what unit they are going to,
      7 months ago
    • Lisa G
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      Lisa G Welcome
      8 months ago
    • Tabby
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      Tabby Thank you!
      8 months ago
    • kkadam
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      kkadam welcome to the family, my guy is in TDC my daughter works for them here in amarillo texas. good luck to you. once he finishes intake he maybe able to write to you, they usually find out the night before they leave what unit they are going to,
      7 months ago

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