kat

kat

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Well, ladies.. I come here for some support and courage tonight. Thursday is sentencing for my guy.the outcome is spread so wide I can't walk I there with any sense of expectations. I am very nerve wrecked,,,, ow do you get through this??? I do not know.
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    kat
    kat Well, ladies.. I come here for some support and courage tonight. Thursday is sentencing for my guy.the outcome is spread so wide I can't walk I there with any sense of expectations. I am very nerve wrecked,,,, ow do you get through this??? I do not know. i just want to throw up. ....advice ladies??
    2 months ago
    • KNB
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      KNB Sorry :( i have no advice i can share with you but I hope all goes well for you guys. Head up hun you've been strong enough to make it this far you've got this too! :))
      2 months ago
    • Linda
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      Linda My heart goes out to you.. the worst part of all of this is the waiting and not knowing. Pray and talk to God.. that's the best advice I can give you. Keep your head up.
      2 months ago
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    kat Does anyone know if prisons allow a family member if someone gets baptized in prison??
    4 months ago
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    Mama bear
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    4 months ago
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    kat
    kat How did everyone deal with sentencing? it's coming up in 1 1/2 months & Idk how this will go...
    4 months ago
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    • Mama bear
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      Mama bear So sorry to hear that. Just do your best to hold your head up. I cried when they said the sentence. It just under 4 years, so it's not that bad, but I couldn't help but cry. March will be a year that he been locked up and it really went by kind of fast.
      4 months ago
    • Mama bear
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      Mama bear It was so nerve racking for me. I had our daughter who is 23, and a couple others with me for support.
      4 months ago
    • kat
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      kat I dread this.... I dont think this will be over anytime soon and that day will just support that and i will not do well. I don't have a lot of support. my son lives out of state and my daughter isn't too happy with her dad so I may be there alone. stress to come.. 44 years of marriage and this is my life.
      4 months ago
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      Mama bear So sorry to hear that. Just do your best to hold your head up. I cried when they said the sentence. It just under 4 years, so it's not that bad, but I couldn't help but cry. March will be a year that he been locked up and it really went by kind of fast.
      4 months ago
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    kat Looking for info on Englewood Prison in Colorado. Anyone know about this one?
    7 months ago
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    kat Any wives in Wa. state?
    8 months ago
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    kat Share something with Strong Prison Wives & Families
    8 months ago
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    kat Hi, evereyone.... Well, check out my new picture! I dyed my hair today! Compared to the grey hair... I am thrilled with the new look! I am going to see my man tomorrow and he does not know about the new hair colour! :) I can't wait to walk in and see the look on his face. :) I have lost 50 lbs and went from massively grey hair to this in less than a year. I am working on liking my (new normal) because this has changed us a lot and tho I am working on this relationship when he gets home, I have to work on being happy NOW also. When I am missing him, that gets harder... when I am missing him I get mad that this is our lives now. the weight loose and new hairdo is awesome and I am happy about it.it is nice to feel some joy. I can't wait to see him tomorrow, hug him and just sit and talk... it has been a long time.
    8 months ago
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    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Hi kat, read your comment on where they send SO for treatment. AS far as I know there are only 9 in the states, my husband was sent to Colorado.
      7 months ago
    • KNB
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      KNB I agree the new hairdo looks great, and very flattering to you. Your partner is going to love it you look like a new woman, enjoy that visit.
      8 months ago
    • Funsize
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      Funsize The new hairdo does look great!! It gives ya a little fire. Hope you enjoyed your visit!! Treasure those hugs!! My SO & I aren't able to have contact visits
      8 months ago
    • kat
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      kat thanks ladies.. it is nice to have some upbeat comments. today i have been anxious, angry and sad. somedays are just that way. i am happy I came here today and reminded myself that this too shall pass. Good days and mot so good days. i think i will get out of the house tomorrow. i seem to be down a lot more when i am bored. so off to do something tomorrow. :) Thanks Fiusize & KNB . :)
      8 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Hi kat, read your comment on where they send SO for treatment. AS far as I know there are only 9 in the states, my husband was sent to Colorado.
      7 months ago
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    8 months ago
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    kat Needing a little support tomorrow. I am visiting my man for the 1st time. I am very anxious about this. I don't know what to expect and reading the regulations just does not help me. I will feel better after the 1 st but right now I am a mess!!!.
    9 months ago
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      kat Thank you ladies.... I tell you I was so nervous and so was he! I got the best hug!! :) He said no kissing so that was ok. I didn't get to stay long because I got there later than i had planned and my time line didn't let me stay long. I am so happy I saw him. I have already planned my next visit and now at least the nerves of not knowing what i am doing will be gone. The offices were really nice. Hubby was a bit down so I hated seeing him so low. seeing me was nerve racking for the fist time after he was taken and i found out everything. I did not take a extra outfit Bee... I lucked out that what I wore was fine. I wanted to wear my LulaRoe dress but I wear leggings under it and I saw leggins were on the not approved list so i didn't take that chance. they seemed to be nice. no one get turned away. the lady behind me in line helped me know what to do. where to get my paper to fill out and the locker set up . I look forward to my next longer visit.... my daughter even filled out a visit form today too :)
      9 months ago
    • Jade
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      Jade congrats! it'll be good just dress accordingly and it's always nerve wrecking! :)
      9 months ago
    • Bee
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      Bee OMGGG how exciting. Just stay calm and move with the motions. Did you pack extra outfits? It's going to be awesome!
      9 months ago
    • kruppwife2014
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      kruppwife2014 yea I hope ur visit was wonderful
      9 months ago
    • kat
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      kat Thank you ladies.... I tell you I was so nervous and so was he! I got the best hug!! :) He said no kissing so that was ok. I didn't get to stay long because I got there later than i had planned and my time line didn't let me stay long. I am so happy I saw him. I have already planned my next visit and now at least the nerves of not knowing what i am doing will be gone. The offices were really nice. Hubby was a bit down so I hated seeing him so low. seeing me was nerve racking for the fist time after he was taken and i found out everything. I did not take a extra outfit Bee... I lucked out that what I wore was fine. I wanted to wear my LulaRoe dress but I wear leggings under it and I saw leggins were on the not approved list so i didn't take that chance. they seemed to be nice. no one get turned away. the lady behind me in line helped me know what to do. where to get my paper to fill out and the locker set up . I look forward to my next longer visit.... my daughter even filled out a visit form today too :)
      9 months ago
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    kat Hi, everyone.... I can't believe how long time has passed, really. At first, it was a slow process due mostly I think to my anxiety of what happened. time passes a bit faster now but it has times where my anxiety still kicks in and things get tough again. my weight loss is steady now. :) I am down to 169 from 215 in December last year. At first, I was dropping way too fast because of my anxiety and I could not eat. I was happy about the loss of the weight but I wanted to fix the stomach issue so when I got to a healthier weight, I could stop losing it. :) I have been pretty steady at losing a little each month instead of a fast drop now. I am happy about that. I make sure to play kick ball with my 10 yr old grandson so I can firm what I am losing. :) I wish it would drop off as I lose it but no... I have to work at that.:) One more thing to do to keep m mind off my situation with the Mr. in my life. I am happy that I am not gaining it back now that it has been 8 months. my stomach still hurts when I forget to take my medicine. lol... don't do that. I didn't get my call on Saturday due to e ran out of $ and I can't add any until Tuesday. he is out of stamps too... so he will call on Wednesday as planned.... how do you ladies handle worrying about your man? I try and keep my mind off where he is and what he is coping with. He never tells me anything about things there. He would not worry me like that. I am going to go see him in about 2 weeks... I have not seen him yet for a few reasons... to be honest, I was so heartbroken, pissed and lost..it took me this long to be able to go. we agreed to phone calls and letter up to now. but we are ready for visits now. :) I don't know how we will end up but for now, we are happy staying in touch. stay in touch ladies... Kat
    9 months ago
    • Jade
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      Jade that sounds like a good thing about your weight loss. im trying to loose weight myself we are in our count down time 10 months. im doing insanity whooo hoo! maaan let me tell you. sometimes i get all crazy in my thoughts and emotions. but i promise you that insanity balances me out! the guy is insane. golly! im telling you it has helped me sooo much to cope with the lock downs. i havent spoken to him in a month. we just write letters. it is so hard sometimes to not hear from him. but this is only making me stronger. i am also taking PROBIOTICS for my metabolism. you should look into it since your having troubles with your belly. i understand, when my man got locked i lost it. but we are in the count down now 10 months left. thank the lord baby Jesus.
      9 months ago
    • kat
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      kat Probiotics are a great idea. thank you. :) i know about the crazy thoughts and emotions to. Right now is one of my down times. i wlll get over this..
      9 months ago
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    kat
    kat Hi, everyone. Thank all of you for your support when I first joined! I think I was in shock for like.. 6 months after this happened...... I have settled down and come to a better place now. I remember thinking when I first joined, "NEVER did I EVER think I would be in this kind of support group!" This group was so supportive of my feelings and I want to Thank you! My world literally imploded the day this happened and I was a wreck for a long time... my daughter and grandsons' live with me so they were here when my husband was arrested... my oldest grandson is on the Autism spectrum and that was very difficult!! I remember when I first joined this group, I thought, "why isn't anyone else as pissed at their loved one as I am"? I saw the stand by your man strength that you ladies have and I did NOT have that strength! I am not as angry and hurt now as I was but that changes from day to day most days. I am on one side of the fence now and in 10 mins, I am on the other side. Life is settling down. The $ is managing so we will be OK. not wealthy by no means but I manage to keep my home and pay most of the bills. I do thank everyone that talked me out of that bad place I was in back then. I am still losing weight but I am seeing my Dr so I am on top of that issue. in 9 months I went from 215-169. I am hoping to stop losing and just maintain a healthier weight now but my stomach hurt, a lot when I would eat so I didn't eat. now that is a little better but I am making sure my Dr knows what is going on. I feel like... I do not need any more problems!!! My grandson has calmed down since all the scary stuff and he even said last night. I can't wait to see Papa! :) Maybe my heart is softening a little now too... :) Thank you, everyone!!! It was scary but 9 months later, We are ok.
    10 months ago

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I got a job. That will help me on og so many ways! Now I wan just waiing for the orientation day. :) I am 62 yrs old & needing to restart my career path due to all of this happening.. I am excited tho. I hope I love my job. I don't want to sit around the house & miss him all day. I need to be busy. Maybe time will faster this way.

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    by kat 1 year ago
    Happy Easter everyone..... Today I got dressed up and am just to enjoy the day with my Daughter and grand kids. Have a good day everyone!! I think I am finally learning how to enjoy a day here and there and not be moody all the time. :) Kat