Hilarya93

Hilarya93

40 years old
September 03, 1977
Female
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United States
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Well, I crossed the 6 month mark since I have seen Jon and some days are easier than others. It's going to be hard for the holidays because his selfish family doesn't do anything for him or visit him, so it breaks my heart that he won't have any visits.
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    Hilarya93 Well, I crossed the 6 month mark since I have seen Jon and some days are easier than others. It's going to be hard for the holidays because his selfish family doesn't do anything for him or visit him, so it breaks my heart that he won't have any visits. His birthday is at the end of December and no visits then either. He says he's used to it so it doesn't bother him, but I know it does. It breaks my heart because he doesn't deserve it; he isn't locked up for anything he did to them, he actually committed a robbery to get money for his family because his mom was struggling with 4 kids at home. He has a heart of gold and puts other people before himself, which is partly why I love him like I do. I told him don't worry about his family, Imma continue to take care of him and hold him down like I have been.
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    Hilarya93 It's been almost 6 months since I have seen Jons face and it's so hard!! But I have to stay positive and think that I am 25% of the way through my two year wait before I can see him and hug him and kiss him; something I have never been able to do before! I have the countdown calendar in my phone, and it's 570 more days to go! Some days/weeks are easier than others, but damn I miss him so bad!!!
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    Hilarya93 Tomorrow will be 5 months since I've seen my loves face in person. We have a LONG 19 more months to wait and it is devastating to us both. But the love we have is unstoppable, so come May 2019, we will be setting off fireworks in that visitation room!
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      Snoopy I totally understand, going on a year ourselves! Its been so difficult to suddenly be without the person I've been with daily for 24 years! I hope to go see him mid October!
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    Hilarya93 I just had my visitation application denied because I was terminated from the prison for fraternization (no charges because it was just phone calls and emails), but VA DOC rules is that it is a minimum two year wait before I can be approved. It absolutely breaks my heart that I have to wait so long. It pisses me off that we have to wait so long when there were no criminal charges; God forbid two people meet and fall in love under these circumstances.
    4 months ago
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      Hilarya93 But thankfully they have a "picture project" and can take pics to mail out, so I am waiting on a couple of those now.
      4 months ago

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My story is a little different than most of yalls. I met my love while incarcerated while I was an employee (a nurse) at the prison. He came on to me my very first day there, and knowing if I started talking to him by email or on the phone, I could lose my job. Well, he was persistent and I couldn't resist. After 2 1/2 months, we were "discovered" and I was walked out. Do I regret it? NOT ONE BIT! I miss seeing him the 4 days a week I worked, but it was hard having to hide our true feelings. DOC policy is that a former employee has to wait 90 days to visit any inmate at any facility. Thankfully prior to us getting caught, he was approved for a transfer to a lower level facility due to good behavior, so we won't have to deal with the chit chat and stares from other inmates and the staff I used to work with.

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    by Ms.LWOP 3 months ago
    Happy birthday, girl!!!! I hope you had a beautiful day :)