mrs.soon to be arias

mrs.soon to be arias

26 years old
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good day to all! I'm in California And my love is in Oklahoma . we are 7 years to go, 94 months 3 days 13 hours and 12 minutes to go. I love my man so much and I love this website I love the support that is offered here and the main purpose. I live in so
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias good day to all! I'm in California And my love is in Oklahoma . we are 7 years to go, 94 months 3 days 13 hours and 12 minutes to go. I love my man so much and I love this website I love the support that is offered here and the main purpose. I live in social and we have been experiencing wildfires left to right. thankfully our home is safe and we are well. sending love and prayers to all who need it. I'm always here to talk to anyone who needs support ! we must stick together and survive with our invisible shakes on!love strong !
    2 days ago
    • MrsK17
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      MrsK17 I have to agree with you this site is awesome. My husband and I have 30 months to go before he sees the parole board again. We must stick together
      1 day ago
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    Ro ❤ CoFounder/President
    Ro ❤ CoFounder/President has accepted mrs.soon to be arias's friend request.
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias today has been a very very productive day . I am learning each day HOW TO CARE FOR MYSELF im so saddend without my love to be here by my side while I handle my responsibilities YET I have to be STRONG LOVE STRONG and stay STRONG with my INVISIBLE SHACKLES on. its been 10 months since he has been gone. Today I got information that I got approved for financial aid to be able to finish what I started 3 years ago, everything is making sense to me as time goes by, at the end of my day I went to visit a high school which my former middle school teacher runs an after school program that she asked me to come by and help facilitate a group. I'm so forever grateful for this opportunity because I have been praying for the LORD to help me with my life. at the end of my day I went to celebrate recovery and drank way too much coffee and felt very WEIRD. weird about everything . now I'm home and I am drinking a glass of wine and trying to wind down tomorrow I have a long day. good night my strong prison wives and families . im forever grateful for this site. my love is scheduled to come home in 2025. the last we spoke it wasn't positive but hey its all good. good night .
    9 days ago
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    • mrs.soon to be arias
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      mrs.soon to be arias thank you ladies !! self care is my ultimate priority besides my faith and relationship with god. I appreciate the kind, loving,positive, supportive words
      8 days ago
    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews Care for yourself is so important, good for you. Keep busy and finish whatever it was your started 3 years ago. 2025 seems far away now but soon it will be around the corner
      9 days ago
    • Jason's Baby girl
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      Jason's Baby girl You are my hero! I look to women like you to give me hope that I too can be strong and learn how to care for myself once again as well. :) Congratulations!!
      9 days ago
    • mrs.soon to be arias
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      mrs.soon to be arias thank you ladies !! self care is my ultimate priority besides my faith and relationship with god. I appreciate the kind, loving,positive, supportive words
      8 days ago
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias hi family! how are we all doing? I check in on the app more than I do on the website yet I am still here! my man and I are doing well, he struggles with trusting me which I don't want to get involved in too many details yet last night he really was being insecure and annoying and he hung up on me so I told him for every time you hang up on me I will hang up on you so I did. I'm going to stick to my words because I don't want a man who is going to disrespect me any longer. he must learn that I'm not playing around and there are consequences. his court date went really stressful and emotional yet everything we prayed for and hoped for we got granted, he got sentenced to 10 years due to the mandatory minimum, and he will be doing federal time. today his release date was posted to the BOP website and it is 8 years from now. I feel okay about it. I spent my first birthday with out him yesterday and had emotional day. I had to send my moms fiancé to the hospital on an ambulance because he is a stroke victim that keeps falling when he is home alone. struggling with that. today is a new day and I did my bible reading pslams and proverbs 15. my man and I agreed to read those every day as the day changes. I feel grateful and blessed. just missing my other half out here with me I'm trying to get adjusted to this lifestyle as much as possible and some days are harder then others. I will be okay today. I will wear my invisibleshackles and stay happy. peace out
    25 days ago
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias next week I will be in the same state and city as him! its been 8 months since last visit! Im so happy this time I am traveling with his mother and tia. I feel grateful
    1 month ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Bitter sweet as I know sentencing is then but that is super exciting to be able to see him especially after 8 months!! Safe travels, prayers up for leniency on his sentencing & enjoy the time with your hubby
      1 month ago
    •  Admin Cate
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      Admin Cate awe!! I am so excited for you!!
      1 month ago
    • mrs.soon to be arias
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      mrs.soon to be arias thank you soooooo much praise god !!!!
      1 month ago
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias commented on Admin Stephanie's picture.
    super cute and super happy!!
    1 month ago
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    Admin Cat AKA MrsB1948 has accepted mrs.soon to be arias's friend request.
    2 months ago
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias any suggestions and or advice for writing a character letter to the judge for my man??
    2 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Sent you a message about character letters few days ago. Hope you got it.
      2 months ago
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias Hiiii!! how is everyone doing today? Ive been not posting as much as I need to be. I have been taking the advice of some of the predecessors around here, must say I've enjoyed the experience and I'm learning new ways to cope with my fiancés incarceration. If I'm not mistaken today marks the 8th month (it feels like) of my fiancés incarceration. I love him dearly. and each day passing by builds me to a stronger prison wife. this life is a choice and I love my man. okay so I'm putting together a letter of character to the judge and all the people involved in my mans case and must be turned in ASAP and I need help please. this is for his pre sentencing report. this is a federal case. and I need ALL the suggestions and help and advice and feedback. my grammar is all that great or up to par, I know I need to learn lol. thank you for supporting my journey . god bless all.
    2 months ago
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias what is the process of marrying my man while he is in federal prison?
    3 months ago
    • TagsGirl82
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      TagsGirl82 I believe it is different for every facility. I would call up to get the correct information. good luck! = )
      3 months ago
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias hey ladies and everyone else! how are we all doing ? I'm so blessed and I havent checked in a LONGwhile! my man signed for 10 years for federal prison time. I need support please! we aren't married yet and we plan on to be soon hopefully. God bless you all and take care!
    3 months ago
    • Cody
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      Cody Hey remain strong, these are the times where they need us the most. I can relate because my love is doing 10 in the Feds also. If you need to vent or someone to talk to you can always message me if you like.
      3 months ago
    • mrs.soon to be arias
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      mrs.soon to be arias thank you so much! how long has your man have left?
      3 months ago
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias my baby signed for a plea deal a few weeks ago, time is becoming more real in this moment it feels such as he is all I think about while I move forward with time slowly, Gotta stay strong ladies gotta keep going the invisibleshackles hashtag is so amazing thank you again Ro for your selfless love, care and understanding.
    4 months ago
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    Island Girl
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    6 months ago
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias my babes court date got approved for the 60 day continuance now its set for 8/14. prayers up please sis, my babes attorney is advocating for him and I pray for every ones loved ones as well. take care fam
    6 months ago
    • Sam
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      Sam Praying for you and your love!
      6 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Prayers up for you & for us all to have the strength, wisdom & understanding to get through these days as best as we can
      6 months ago
    • CBwifey
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      CBwifey Thoughts and prayrs your way.
      6 months ago
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      kkadam prayer coming your way
      6 months ago
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    mrs.soon to be arias
    mrs.soon to be arias Hey family, so trust has always been an issue with my relationship and I understand that if there isn't any there isn't a relationship. Im working on it too I'm working on giving him my 100%. My man asks me questions about the men I have been with in the past years that we weren't together. how does every one feel about this? I understand I have the power to control the outcome of this situation, well sort of.........ive prayed about it, I've cried about it and prayed some more. It hurts me to hurt him while he is locked down. yet I am learning accountability. I need help with this one family.
    6 months ago
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    • mrs.soon to be arias
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      mrs.soon to be arias thank you ladies :) it makes me so happy and makes me feel so supported ladies, so basically my fiancé and I have been on and off for the past 6 years and he likes to know who I been with and I always reassure him that he is my one and only and I am being faithful and loyal and he has nothing to worry about and we discussed this the other day and we discussed our trust and our relationship. my father has always told me to not bring up past relations and I agree and concur. thank you ladies
      6 months ago
    • Kelly
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      Kelly My husband told.me a few times he thinks about me with other men and it depresses him but I just keep reassuring him that my past relationships are in my past and he is my present and future
      6 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl What is he asking you specifically & why does it hurt him? Sorry if my questions sound silly but I want to understand so I can answer your question as best I can.
      6 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl I am sure that is a fear of most incarcerated ones. The only thing you can do is what you are already doing by reassuring him that he is your 1 & only. Trust is a huge factor in a relationship, without it we are destine for a tumultuous relationship. There are times trust is broken & times that it never existed b/c of one's past experiences. Either way, it's not an easy road to repair but definitely not impossible! Keep communication open & talk about what each of you need from each other to feel "safe" in the relationship & work on them together.
      6 months ago
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      kkadam I am with Island Girl why is he asking, the past is just that the past. what does it matter? Do you ask him about his past relationships? i think when you get to asking and talking about past bf/gf it just stirs up trouble that dont need to be there.your relationship is going to be tested other ways just because of where he is, dont borrow more. in a nice way let him know you dont want to talk about past that he is the present and future that is all that is important. is you two here and now.
      6 months ago
    • mrs.soon to be arias
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      mrs.soon to be arias thank you ladies :) it makes me so happy and makes me feel so supported ladies, so basically my fiancé and I have been on and off for the past 6 years and he likes to know who I been with and I always reassure him that he is my one and only and I am being faithful and loyal and he has nothing to worry about and we discussed this the other day and we discussed our trust and our relationship. my father has always told me to not bring up past relations and I agree and concur. thank you ladies
      6 months ago

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Hi family! My name is Stephanie and my love is currently incarserated in New Mexico which is two States away from my I'm in Southern California. He has been in since January 26 of this year. we've been on and off for the past 6 years and I am falling in love with him more and more each day we talk, yet every day is not sunshine and roses its more like tears and prayers and laughters. Im learning how to cope with this new lifestyle with the help of the members on this sit and for that I am forever grateful.

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