wonderwoman

wonderwoman

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Why did it have to snow on my weekend to visit my husband, ugh!
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman Why did it have to snow on my weekend to visit my husband, ugh!
    13 hours ago
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman GM ladies, I need some advice. My husband is a type 1 diabetic and he has diabetic neuropathy. They stopped giving him his medication for it. I tried to call medical and talk to them about why they stopped it and I got no where they wouldn't talk to me saying about HIPPA, which working in the medical field I know all about it. My husband gave permission for me to talk to them about his medical issues and they still won't talk to me. In a day or two, he's going to be in pain from not having his medication. Has anyone else had to deal with a situation like this?
    24 days ago
    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews Contact the warden, find out if there is an ombudsman for your state. Does he have a case manager at all? Contact these people if you can and let them know what is going on.
      22 days ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Thank you. He talked to a nurse when he went for his insulin and told her about it and she went to the medical director and now they started giving him his medication again.
      22 days ago
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    Shedevilgoth
    Shedevilgoth has accepted wonderwoman's friend request.
    26 days ago
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman Today is my birthday and I went to visit my husband today and we had a great visit. He said he would call me today to see how my birthday went but he didn't. Now I'm spending the last few hours of this already hard day crying.
    28 days ago
    • Admin Cat AKA MrsB1948
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      Admin Cat AKA MrsB1948 Happy birthday!
      28 days ago
    •  Admin Cate
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      Admin Cate Awe, hugs! Happy Birthday!!
      28 days ago
    • Carma
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      Carma Happy birthday! I'm glad you had such a great visit. :) It's a high that's hard to come down from. Please keep in mind that if he doesn't call you, it may be because he isn't able to. Maybe there was an emergency count or are locked down a little longer. Maybe the phones were busy. Maybe he fell asleep and just forgot (happens to my hubby after a visit because he's more relaxed and can actually sleep.) Tomorrow will be a better day because you are one day closer and one birthday closer to him being home.
      27 days ago
    • mrs.soon to be arias
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      mrs.soon to be arias happy birthday
      27 days ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Thank you so much!
      27 days ago
    • Shedevilgoth
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      Shedevilgoth Happy birthday x
      27 days ago
    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews Happy birthday. I hope you hear from him soon.
      27 days ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Happy (belated) Birthday:) That's awesome that you got to see him on your birthday! I hope you hear from him sooner than later
      27 days ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Thank you. There was a lockdown, I'm just glad that the lockdown happened after our visit.
      26 days ago
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    Linda
    Linda has accepted wonderwoman's friend request.
    29 days ago
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman Today is rough day, not feeling well and really depressed. Everything is just going wrong, and I've been crying. Trying to stay strong but right now its hard.
    1 month ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Gm wonderwoman-- I'm sorry you're having a bad day today, trust me I've had those in the 4.5 yrs my love has been locked up and I tell ya it wasn't easy to deal with at times, it'll get better as time goes on okay, you're not alone in this, everyone struggles and grieves differently from others, and the best thing I could tell you is to stay busy, strong and positive bc at the end of the day, the wait will be so well worth it okay. Pour you a cup of coffee, have some b'fast, take a nice hot shower, relax, and write to him, bc I'm sure he's feeling the same if not worse than or like you are right now. Hope this helps some, have a good weekend, get well soon, Love always, Tommie~~~.
      1 month ago
    • Linda
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      Linda So sorry today it's a tough day. My heart goes out to you wonder woman.. Tommie your advice is always amazing and so beautifully put.. I'm going to take this advice today myself. God bless you ladies.
      1 month ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Thank you so much for the support!
      29 days ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Awwww, lol yw ladies, anytime
      26 days ago
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman Last night I was on the phone with my husband and they called a lockdown, ugh I hate that so much!
    1 month ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Ugh:( When that has happened to me I just tell myself that I am grateful that I was on the phone & knew a lockdown was happening. There have been countless times that lockdowns are going on & I did not know which of course causes worry! Hope they are off it sooner than later'
      1 month ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman There was a fire in another cell block, someone left their hot plate on all day and it started an electrical fire. I'm just glad that it wasn't worse.
      1 month ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Oh my goodness! I am glad to hear that it was not worse than that! Have a great day:)
      1 month ago
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman My said he was going to call me today and he didn't. I can't sit still, feel like I want to jump out of my skin. With all the medical stuff going on with him and not hearing from him, my mind is racing with worry.
    1 month ago
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    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman We're waiting for the full pathology report report, it could take up to 3-4 weeks before he gets the results. I'm trying not to worry about it but it's so hard not to.
      1 month ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl So sorry it's been one of those days for you. I know it's easier said than done but keep yourself busy. Worrying will only make you feel worse & you have to take care of yourself. We have very little control over things most especially the circumstances are loved ones face while in there. Take it 1 second minute hour & day at a time. Keep the Faith & busy busy busy! I hope you hear from him sooner than later
      1 month ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Thank you for the support, don't know what I'd do without the support and care from this site
      1 month ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie I totally agree with Island Girl...
      1 month ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Any news from him? Updates on his health?
      1 month ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman We're waiting for the full pathology report report, it could take up to 3-4 weeks before he gets the results. I'm trying not to worry about it but it's so hard not to.
      1 month ago
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    wonderwoman
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    1 month ago
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman My husband called me last night, he had his biopsy and it's cancer. I'm so upset and worried because I know that he's going to get minimum care in that hell hole prison. I just want him home.
    1 month ago
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    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Oh no! I am so sorry, I can't imagine what how you must feel! I pray he gets what he needs and is well taken care of
      1 month ago
    • JazzJ
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      JazzJ omg..i am so sorry to hear that, i bet you are!! :(...if he doesn't get the medical care he is suppose to get, COMPLAIN!!!
      1 month ago
    • twinkle
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      twinkle I'm so sorry to hear this :( I hope he gets the care that he needs.
      1 month ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Whe he told me, I felt like I got punched in the stomach
      1 month ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl So sorry:( Prayers up for you & for him
      1 month ago
    • TagsGirl82
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      TagsGirl82 Prayers being sent your way!!
      1 month ago
    • Kitty
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      Kitty Prayers up to you both
      1 month ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Oh no! I am so sorry, I can't imagine what how you must feel! I pray he gets what he needs and is well taken care of
      1 month ago
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman It's been such a long miserable week with no phone call from my husband. I can't stand not knowing if he's ok, if he's been taking his insulin, and his biopsy. I've been writing him letters but I haven't gotten any from him. Times like this make a hard situation even harder.
    1 month ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Totally get it! Went through that for 6 weeks, thought I was going to lose mt mind!! He finally got moved and I got a letter at last just yesterday!! Plus daily 10 min calls so....it does pass, somehow it passes.... has too, have 10 years to go! Sending you hugs....
      1 month ago
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman My husband hasn't called me just like, this week there's supposed to be a lockdown. Not hearing his voice is agony and I'm so worried about his biopsy. It's just stress on top of even more stress.
    2 months ago
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    Hilarya93
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    2 months ago
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman Well so my husband told me that they're sending to the hospital for his biopsy but he doesn't know when. He's been in a really bad mood all week and it doesn't even have to do with this biopsy, he called one of his friends and he said some things to him that really pissed him off. Last night he started to get nasty to me on the phone and he said that he's not calling me for awhile, he said he's too angry and doesn't want to waste the money on the phone complaining or take it out on me. I know I should be understanding about this but I can't, he even said happy birthday to me and my birthday is a month away. I started crying on the phone and he said that I could blame his friend for this. I asked him to at least let me know how his biopsy goes, he could write me and tell me but he said no. I'm devastated and feel like all that we've been through with this has been for nothing.
    2 months ago
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    • Hilarya93
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      Hilarya93 Trust me, I know ALL ABOUT prison medical staff, because I was one! That's how I met Jon; I was a nurse in the prison is he was housed at at the time. I was almost ashamed to work for such a screwed up "medical department". The more stink someone causes, the more attention they get, even though they aren't as critical as others. I worked at 3 different facilities during my time in corrections and every one I worked at, the offenders would ask me to do something for them because they knew I actually cared and did what needed to be done. Guards would get mad at me if I had to go back to the buildings if I forgot a med or a diabetic was at school and I went back to the building to check their blood sugar. It seemed as a lot of them worked there for a paycheck and not because they love doing what they do. I became a nurse to take care of my patients, inmate or not, they still deserve adequate medical care!
      2 months ago
    • Hilarya93
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      Hilarya93 I know it's tough, but it could be that he's worried about the biopsy, but doesn't want to admit he's worried. He will come around, in the meantime, we're all here for you....
      2 months ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Thank you, if it wasn't for this site, I don't know how I would get through this
      2 months ago
    • Hilarya93
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      Hilarya93 My honey is going thru the same thing. After months of bs medical visits, they finally sent him out for an endoscopy, found a bleeding stomach ulcer and a hiatal hernia. Now they're saying he needs a colonoscopy to make sure there's nothing else going on, and they keep.putting it off, even though he passed out a month ago and the ER labs showed his hemoglobin is extremely low from the bleeding ulcer. It's so frustrating to keep waiting!
      2 months ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman I can't stand how they're treated with medical issues in prison. One time when my husband went to medical for his insulin, the nurse gave him an attitude because his blood sugar was low, like he choose to be a diabetic.
      2 months ago
    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews Prayers for you, hopefully he just needs some time to cool off. I'm sure he's stressed out and whatever was said between him and his friend made it worse.
      2 months ago
    • Hilarya93
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      Hilarya93 Trust me, I know ALL ABOUT prison medical staff, because I was one! That's how I met Jon; I was a nurse in the prison is he was housed at at the time. I was almost ashamed to work for such a screwed up "medical department". The more stink someone causes, the more attention they get, even though they aren't as critical as others. I worked at 3 different facilities during my time in corrections and every one I worked at, the offenders would ask me to do something for them because they knew I actually cared and did what needed to be done. Guards would get mad at me if I had to go back to the buildings if I forgot a med or a diabetic was at school and I went back to the building to check their blood sugar. It seemed as a lot of them worked there for a paycheck and not because they love doing what they do. I became a nurse to take care of my patients, inmate or not, they still deserve adequate medical care!
      2 months ago
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    wonderwoman
    wonderwoman It always seem to be one thing after another. Yesterday my husband went to medical for blood work for his diabetes and now he has to have a biopsy done next week because the doctor said he might have cancer. It's been one medical thing after another since he's been in jail. I feel like all I'm in is a constant state of stress and anxiety. There's suppose to be a lockdown next week so no phone calls so I won't know how his biopsy went. I cried myself to sleep last night.
    2 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh wow!!!! Definitely sending lots of hugs and prayers your way, hope it all goes with his doctor visit, in the meantime, stay positive, focused and strong even though it's gonna be hard doing so. I know if it were me, I'd be feeling the exact same way. Hope this helps some, love always, Tommie~~~~.
      2 months ago

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