Snoopy

Snoopy

51 years old
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well, I've been up to see him again and we decided that for sure he would try to transfer closer to home! It's so expensive to up there and our daughter has not been able to go at all :( The boys went once but that's it! There is a facility 4 hrs from us
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    Snoopy
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    Snoopy well, I've been up to see him again and we decided that for sure he would try to transfer closer to home! It's so expensive to up there and our daughter has not been able to go at all :( The boys went once but that's it! There is a facility 4 hrs from us that can take him but.... we've heard that once you request transfer and there is no room where you wish to go,they will move you anywhere else, but they will move you! Like... ok, you don't want to stay here,fine....of you go! We don't want that :( Any advise? Is this true? Seems to me they would just keep you there but.... that would make sense so ....
    2 months ago
    • Mislee22
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      Mislee22 What facility he's in?
      2 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Englewood Mislee22
      1 month ago
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    Hope
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    5 months ago
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    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Hi hope....yes, I'm like you, miss him before i even leave! We had a good visit, our youngest came along, they played cards, had a few laughs, talked....it was good! Its his last year in school so he misses,dad a lot! I cant even begin to think of graduation without him 😢 but...we will rise! We will get through. Like u i can't imagine life, love, home without him in it! My heart is his, always has been, will be! Yes, it will never be the same, our future, so well planned out, has changed forever! I hope it will be brighter than we ever even dreamed it would be!! Different doesn't have to mean....not as good! I hold to that and to the knowledge that once he is back home....nothing else really matters! Hope you are doing well and avoiding the flu.....not me, i invited it in 😷🤒
      4 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Hi, I hope your hanging in there! Its so difficult this time of year... joy all over and I just want to hide and be left alone! I had put out some decor and a week later put it all away..... weird? It was too much, made me sad! I'm driving up to see him tomorrow, it will be good to hold him, even if it is in the ugly visiting room, I'll take it! I will have to deal with this for 8 long years but.... he has been my life for 24 years so.... I will hang in there! I'm not on often, mostly because I work a lot!!! I'm all I have now so.... that plus I'm still somewhat lost on this site! I always have to search for my own messages! Anyway.... you are not alone... lives sucks right now, no fault of our own but ...one day, one night at a time!!
      5 months ago
    • Hope
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      Hope Thank you, it has been 26 yrs 4 me. So I know how the love calls you, even though in your heart. U wish u could share just one moment, hour away with him anywhere but there. But on the same note, u wouldn't want to be anywhere else or with anyone else. My love for my baby runs thru my soul, my blood, my toes. So I understand, I wish u a safe journey & a amazing time, if ur like me. I miss him, 10 mins into the visit. For me, it may go on in this life time & the next? We shall see, but I'm a Happy for all of us. Keep in touch:)
      5 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Hi hope....yes, I'm like you, miss him before i even leave! We had a good visit, our youngest came along, they played cards, had a few laughs, talked....it was good! Its his last year in school so he misses,dad a lot! I cant even begin to think of graduation without him 😢 but...we will rise! We will get through. Like u i can't imagine life, love, home without him in it! My heart is his, always has been, will be! Yes, it will never be the same, our future, so well planned out, has changed forever! I hope it will be brighter than we ever even dreamed it would be!! Different doesn't have to mean....not as good! I hold to that and to the knowledge that once he is back home....nothing else really matters! Hope you are doing well and avoiding the flu.....not me, i invited it in 😷🤒
      4 months ago
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    Snoopy Heading up to Colorado tonight, well early Friday morning really.... 3 AM!! To see my love! Long trip but have to spend at least part of xmas together! Sad enough as it is! Hopefully I won't get sick this time and can really enjoy our visit! Hope all you ladies have the Best Xmas possible under the circumstances.......
    5 months ago
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    6 months ago
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    6 months ago
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    6 months ago
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    Snoopy Any news on votes for reforming good time credit? Sure would be nice if we could shave some of that time off, especially since it was supposed to be more anyway, clerical error!!
    6 months ago
    • Admin Megan
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      Admin Megan This depends on the state.
      6 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Texas!
      6 months ago
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    Snoopy Been sick this whole week, really since we got back home! Sinus, kidney infection :( makes me miss him even more, nobody to lean on, to get a glass of water or just a hug! Hate it
    6 months ago
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    • Linda
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      Linda Yes I understand completely, it's really hard for me to get out of bed some days
      6 months ago
    • Linda
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      Linda Hang in there girl, I'm praying for you
      6 months ago
    • Linda
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      Linda I have chronic kidney problems, I understand completely what your going through
      6 months ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Hope you feel better! I've been going through some medical issues myself and it makes me miss my husband even more
      6 months ago
    •  Admin Cate
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      Admin Cate Oh no, hope you are on the mend asap!
      6 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Thank you all! I got to meds, taking them but not feeling better yet! I think part of the reason it draggs now is loneliness, missing him....just no reason to get moving u know
      6 months ago
    • Linda
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      Linda Yes I understand completely, it's really hard for me to get out of bed some days
      6 months ago
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    kat
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    6 months ago
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    Snoopy Tomorrow at this time I will be sitting with my love!!! I can't believe I will get to hug him hold his and and spend more then a 10 min call in conversation!! I am so nervous, its been a year!!! I hope it all goes well, not wrinkles getting there, it is a ways!! Wish me luck ladies!!
    7 months ago
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      Snoopy Thank u island girl 😊 yes it was wonderful, was so nervous! I worried I'd do something wrong, got there late, wore wrong clothes but....nope all Good! It was pretty relaxed, could be nicer but I got to hold his hand, talk for hours instead of minutes, all worth it
      6 months ago
    •  Admin Cate
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      Admin Cate Awe!! How exciting, I remember my first contact visit after almost a year of only having phone call and video visits!
      7 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl So exciting!!! I feel like you had just posted about planning this visit & the day is tomorrow already! Enjoy your visit!!
      7 months ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Enjoy your visit!!
      7 months ago
    • kat
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      kat I was terrified my first visit. it still is not where i would like to see him but the hug is nice. it is a start to see what is next for us.
      6 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Yes it was not easy but oh lord did I need to see him! Just to see him, look at his face again, hold his hand!! It was heaven! the boys got to see him the next day, see that Dad is still dad so that was awesome! There were tears of course all around but it was good to spend time! Had to leave early SAT, I got super sick, ended up in ER! Not fun.... I plan to go see him every 3 months or so, hate that he is so far when there where not one but 2 facilities in TX he could've been! We requested them in court, judge and probation agreed, not sure how that went so wrong but.... it is what it is! We will survive!
      6 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl That is so awesome that you all got to see him!! Not so much with having to go to the ER:( Hope you are feeling better! I hope they transfer him closer to home so you can see him more often!
      6 months ago
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      Snoopy Thank u island girl 😊 yes it was wonderful, was so nervous! I worried I'd do something wrong, got there late, wore wrong clothes but....nope all Good! It was pretty relaxed, could be nicer but I got to hold his hand, talk for hours instead of minutes, all worth it
      6 months ago
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    wonderwoman
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    7 months ago
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    Snoopy Having a bad day! In tears mostly..... saw a bunch of riders today heading to Big Bend, we where there just a year ago! How did my life go the hell this fast, this badly?! Kids not listening, feel alone and overwhelmed but know I got to keep it together because .... well I have too don't I! How am I goona survive 10 years!!!!
    7 months ago
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    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Thank you wonderwoman....ill ck on that! That was hubby area, I'm not from the US so all that is new to me! It is super frustrating to try and do it all....sucks
      6 months ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Stay strong and remember that the bad days aren't going to last forever, it's hard but you can do it. I tell myself that all I have to do is get through the day and hopefully the next day will be better.
      7 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Thank you wonderwoman, I try to tell myself the same thing, one day, one hour at a time but....gets rough at times!
      7 months ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Yes it is such a rollercoaster of emotions, some days I'm crying, some I just feel numb, and there's days that I get angry
      7 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Yes, same here! I got mad that he was so stupid, so careless, walked out the door that day and walked out of our lives! Had I had known, any inkling I would've stopped him from leaving but....then I feel bad for being mad because I know he didn't mean this pain, this loss and would do anything to undo it! Next minute I'm in tears as our youngest is getting his leather man jacket from High school and he is not here to see it, tease him! He is applying to colleges and I know nothing of that stuff The other two had our help, including financial but I can not help our little one! I told him he will have to get scholarships,loans! He went to his room, I know he ended up crying and it breaks my heart because there is nothing I can do!!!! He needs his Dad to help guide him, I do too but....can't even talk on the phone for more the 15min!!! I hate this!!! Read yesterday that 80% of marriages end in divorce when mate is in prison, that scares me!!
      7 months ago
    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman The jail bs is so aggravating, they have no control and neither do we and that is so frusterating. Can your youngest go to his guidance counsler for help with his college applications, they know all about the scholarships and loans he would qualify for, anything to make it easier
      7 months ago
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      Snoopy Thank you wonderwoman....ill ck on that! That was hubby area, I'm not from the US so all that is new to me! It is super frustrating to try and do it all....sucks
      6 months ago
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    Snoopy oh, he told me I had to send all his identification...birth certificate, drivers license, social sec and so on, is that normal? The prison wants them
    7 months ago
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    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy I have it all but his Birth certificate! Its is from Mexico and all I have is a copie so.... guess I will send that, hope its good enough
      7 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl My hubby is in federal & they asked for the same thing. I had to send the originals.
      7 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Really? Its so upsetting to send away his whole identity! I don't see why they want that and have read that sometimes you don't get it back!
      7 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Unfortunately yes. From what I understood they will need those when they're released. I couldn't find my husband's social security card so his counselor ordered a replacement & has it with the other origanls that I sent in his file.
      7 months ago
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      Snoopy I have it all but his Birth certificate! Its is from Mexico and all I have is a copie so.... guess I will send that, hope its good enough
      7 months ago

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Hi, I'm a wife of a newly federal inmate :(
We've been married 24 years, raised 3 wonderful smart, sweet, good kids and lived a normal live! Never ever had trouble with the law, in fact were part of the law so this hit very very hard! I will stand by him, I plan to anyway, he is the love of my life!

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