Snoopy

Snoopy

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Any news on votes for reforming good time credit? Sure would be nice if we could shave some of that time off, especially since it was supposed to be more anyway, clerical error!!
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    Snoopy
    Snoopy Any news on votes for reforming good time credit? Sure would be nice if we could shave some of that time off, especially since it was supposed to be more anyway, clerical error!!
    1 month ago
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    Snoopy
    Snoopy Been sick this whole week, really since we got back home! Sinus, kidney infection :( makes me miss him even more, nobody to lean on, to get a glass of water or just a hug! Hate it
    1 month ago
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    • Linda
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      Linda Yes I understand completely, it's really hard for me to get out of bed some days
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    • Linda
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      Linda Hang in there girl, I'm praying for you
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    • Linda
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      Linda I have chronic kidney problems, I understand completely what your going through
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    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Hope you feel better! I've been going through some medical issues myself and it makes me miss my husband even more
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    •  Admin Cate
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      Admin Cate Oh no, hope you are on the mend asap!
      1 month ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Thank you all! I got to meds, taking them but not feeling better yet! I think part of the reason it draggs now is loneliness, missing him....just no reason to get moving u know
      1 month ago
    • Linda
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      Linda Yes I understand completely, it's really hard for me to get out of bed some days
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    Snoopy Tomorrow at this time I will be sitting with my love!!! I can't believe I will get to hug him hold his and and spend more then a 10 min call in conversation!! I am so nervous, its been a year!!! I hope it all goes well, not wrinkles getting there, it is a ways!! Wish me luck ladies!!
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      Snoopy Thank u island girl 😊 yes it was wonderful, was so nervous! I worried I'd do something wrong, got there late, wore wrong clothes but....nope all Good! It was pretty relaxed, could be nicer but I got to hold his hand, talk for hours instead of minutes, all worth it
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    •  Admin Cate
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      Admin Cate Awe!! How exciting, I remember my first contact visit after almost a year of only having phone call and video visits!
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    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl So exciting!!! I feel like you had just posted about planning this visit & the day is tomorrow already! Enjoy your visit!!
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    • wonderwoman
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      wonderwoman Enjoy your visit!!
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      kat I was terrified my first visit. it still is not where i would like to see him but the hug is nice. it is a start to see what is next for us.
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    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Yes it was not easy but oh lord did I need to see him! Just to see him, look at his face again, hold his hand!! It was heaven! the boys got to see him the next day, see that Dad is still dad so that was awesome! There were tears of course all around but it was good to spend time! Had to leave early SAT, I got super sick, ended up in ER! Not fun.... I plan to go see him every 3 months or so, hate that he is so far when there where not one but 2 facilities in TX he could've been! We requested them in court, judge and probation agreed, not sure how that went so wrong but.... it is what it is! We will survive!
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      Island Girl That is so awesome that you all got to see him!! Not so much with having to go to the ER:( Hope you are feeling better! I hope they transfer him closer to home so you can see him more often!
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      Snoopy Thank u island girl 😊 yes it was wonderful, was so nervous! I worried I'd do something wrong, got there late, wore wrong clothes but....nope all Good! It was pretty relaxed, could be nicer but I got to hold his hand, talk for hours instead of minutes, all worth it
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    Snoopy Having a bad day! In tears mostly..... saw a bunch of riders today heading to Big Bend, we where there just a year ago! How did my life go the hell this fast, this badly?! Kids not listening, feel alone and overwhelmed but know I got to keep it together because .... well I have too don't I! How am I goona survive 10 years!!!!
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      Snoopy Thank you wonderwoman....ill ck on that! That was hubby area, I'm not from the US so all that is new to me! It is super frustrating to try and do it all....sucks
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      wonderwoman Stay strong and remember that the bad days aren't going to last forever, it's hard but you can do it. I tell myself that all I have to do is get through the day and hopefully the next day will be better.
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      Snoopy Thank you wonderwoman, I try to tell myself the same thing, one day, one hour at a time but....gets rough at times!
      1 month ago
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      wonderwoman Yes it is such a rollercoaster of emotions, some days I'm crying, some I just feel numb, and there's days that I get angry
      1 month ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Yes, same here! I got mad that he was so stupid, so careless, walked out the door that day and walked out of our lives! Had I had known, any inkling I would've stopped him from leaving but....then I feel bad for being mad because I know he didn't mean this pain, this loss and would do anything to undo it! Next minute I'm in tears as our youngest is getting his leather man jacket from High school and he is not here to see it, tease him! He is applying to colleges and I know nothing of that stuff The other two had our help, including financial but I can not help our little one! I told him he will have to get scholarships,loans! He went to his room, I know he ended up crying and it breaks my heart because there is nothing I can do!!!! He needs his Dad to help guide him, I do too but....can't even talk on the phone for more the 15min!!! I hate this!!! Read yesterday that 80% of marriages end in divorce when mate is in prison, that scares me!!
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      wonderwoman The jail bs is so aggravating, they have no control and neither do we and that is so frusterating. Can your youngest go to his guidance counsler for help with his college applications, they know all about the scholarships and loans he would qualify for, anything to make it easier
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      Snoopy Thank you wonderwoman....ill ck on that! That was hubby area, I'm not from the US so all that is new to me! It is super frustrating to try and do it all....sucks
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    Snoopy oh, he told me I had to send all his identification...birth certificate, drivers license, social sec and so on, is that normal? The prison wants them
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      Snoopy I have it all but his Birth certificate! Its is from Mexico and all I have is a copie so.... guess I will send that, hope its good enough
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    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl My hubby is in federal & they asked for the same thing. I had to send the originals.
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    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Really? Its so upsetting to send away his whole identity! I don't see why they want that and have read that sometimes you don't get it back!
      2 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Unfortunately yes. From what I understood they will need those when they're released. I couldn't find my husband's social security card so his counselor ordered a replacement & has it with the other origanls that I sent in his file.
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    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy I have it all but his Birth certificate! Its is from Mexico and all I have is a copie so.... guess I will send that, hope its good enough
      1 month ago
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    Snoopy Bought tickets, going up to see my love on the 27th!!! I'm so ready to give him a hug, its been a year!! The boys are going as well, they miss their Dad terribly too! Now, what to wear, what not to wear....any info? This is a federal facility, don't know if that makes a difference
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      Tommie Call the facility to find out, every city, state, county is different from others, good luck to ya love..
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    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl I agree with tommie about calling the facility. Also check online. Every federal prison has a specific website & their "policies & procedures" are on it. You will get a lot of information about the facility there. And as Yommie said, call the facility. They will be able to give you updated info that may have not reached the website yet. Always bring extra clothes (full sets down to extra shoes) & stick to sports bras to avoid any issues with the metal detector.
      2 months ago
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      Snoopy Thank you ladies! I plan to call Monday to get more info!
      2 months ago
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    Snoopy Weird day today, weekends are rough! Those were our days, lazy days or ridding days. I miss riding our bike so much!! Now that the weather is turning cooler, perfect! We'd be out there for sure, instead bike sits in garage under tarp :( I just miss him today, bad!! Those 10min on the phone just don't cut it!
    2 months ago
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    Snoopy New to this, never thought I'd find myself here... sorry I'm sure none of us did! Its been a nightmare, hell, don't know how I get through most days, not to mention nights! Not slept alone in 24 years... he's been moved so no daily call for a week now, feel like I'm losing it now! Missed 5 of his calls today but number is said so fast I can't catch it :( I'm a driver so on the road, bad signal, can't hear right with all the road noise... argh... today has sucked sooooo bad!!!! I wish he'd try again now, I'm home now!!!
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    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Hey, did your hubby make it home yet? What a great gift that would be, home for the holidays!!
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    • JW Warrior
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      JW Warrior If only there was a way to let him know. I always ask JW to call on his last break which is usually shower time. Although it's like 10:30 when he calls. I pray you guys find a system that will work with his new placement!
      2 months ago
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      Island Girl Aww Snoopy:( So sorry it's been one of those days! Just in case you haven't thought of it, maybe searching online to get his info so you can put money on his books. I know federal vs state is different so I am not sure what online info is available for your man. He will call again but until then try your best to keep your mind busy so you don't stress yourself out anymore than you already are. Hoping he calls sooner than later;) XO
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      Snoopy Thank you JW Warrior... I finally heard from him today! I put money in his commissary account, seems that was I all I needed , who knew! He sounded sad, confused and far away! I hate that he was sent out of state and don't understand it, will make visits so difficult and expensive and impossible for his elderly, ill mom! She will no be around when he gets out, we know this so its especially heartbreaking! I also hate the 300 min limit, when he was in state we could call as much as he wanted, 15 min at a time and you paid for it, not cheap but at least we could when needed! This is all so new and I'm sure we will adjust, have to! Our kids feel really lost and removed form him because of this, we never expected him to go so far away :(
      2 months ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Thank you Island Girl... I knew he would but this was hard, took a xanax last night! Hate this so much and 11 years!!! Lord give me strength !
      2 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl I have had my fair share of xanax nights to calm my nerves, shut my brain off & sleep! I am happy you got to speak to him:) take it one second, minute, hour & day at time! You will settle into your "temporary new norm" as the days pass. You got this & Lord's got you;) XO
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      Snoopy Thank you Island Girl! I plan to, have too! Its been hard, he was our sole provider, I worked here and there but was mostly Mom! His career made that possible so now.... its all Mom! We lost our insurance, our home, our income and most of all of course... Him! We miss him desperately but we will be strong, we will get through this but.... there are those days!! So glad I found this place, I think it will help to have people that know, that get it to speak to!
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    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Even though I was not the sole provider, losing his income has definitely taken a huge toll on our finances. I am sure it is much bigger of a task for you since he was the sole provider. Needless to say, this temporary storm is just difficult all around! I constantly remind myself that it is just temporary & when he is back home we can begin to piece everything back to some normalcy. In the meantime we shall hold the fort in their absence! This site is great & has definintely helped me tremendously on those not so easy days! Keep the faith, stay positive & keep busy! XO
      2 months ago
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      Snoopy Thank you Island Girl.... yes, fiances have taken a HUGE hit but we are adjusting, slowly! Every month gets a little better, always praying nothing breaks as there is no savings left! Yes, I told him just yesterday, this is temporary!!! It will never be the same, we can't go back but we an make it better! He will be better, healthier, committed to us! My worry is really after, not the separation, that we can handle, I think. But probation, the abilities to find work, our freedom being so restricted! That, more then anything keeps me up at night! He will be home, glory but we loved to travel, be spontaneous none of that will be possible! He had 2 years to retirement, lost his pension so we will have to work, no choice but who will hire him? I'm getting old, I have a chronic disease, I can't work much so.... ya, that worries me! Have a son left that dreamed of college, medical school now..... not sure we can make that happen...it all just worries me! he says not to worry, he will take care of everything once he is home, that we will be fine but.....we had our future all worked out, planned out, worked so hard for it and now.....argh,,,, just sucks!
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    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl It does suck:( but more times than not we are reminded that as much as we plan, nothing is guaranteed. So the best we can do is handle things we're dealt with great positivity & great Faith! All of the things you speak of are all fixable. I know easier said than done to just say "no biggie" & not stress but the best thing we can do for ourselves & for our loved ones is to "go with the flow" & find the silver lining in every situation. You're son if he truly wants to go to college will go to college & when probation is over you'll be back to taking those spontaneuous trips as if they never stopped & probably enjoying them more than ever before because you'll remember what it was like to not for these years & truly enjoy every second to it's fullest! Remember this is just temporary, it could have been worse but it's not so hang on & enjoy the ride as best you can until your hubby is home & you 2 are back at this thing we call life, side by side - hand in hand
      1 month ago
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      Island Girl My kids & I were supposed to pickup my husband from prison & being him to the halfway house close to home yesterday. On Sunday just 48 hours prior, we found out that it was postponed. Devasted is an understatement, but I, we as a family, have to make the best of this situation just as we have been for the last 22 months. I truly believe that there's a better plan in the horizon & until the Lord reveals that to us, we will continue to stay hopeful & pray that we each get through these temporary days apart healthy & safe. Anything could have happened had we picked him up yesterday until the day he finally got to come home & I have to just trust that God is protecting us & preparing us for something greater whether we ever know what he protected us from or not, I just have to believe & have faith that this is what was best. Every day is another day closer:)
      1 month ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Yes, that's,what I believe to! I can't imagine your disappointment, I would've been crushed! Any idea why the delay? I hold tight to the believe that we will be better, stronger, more solid then ever after this! Failure is not a option!
      1 month ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Apparently the Trump administration has been "quietly" severing contracts with halfway houses nationwide as a result of budget cuts to the DOJ. Halfway house program taking a hit from that budget cut:( My understanding is that the max given for halfway house time is now 120 days. We are taking it in stride & know there's a better plan!
      1 month ago
    • Snoopy
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      Snoopy Hey, did your hubby make it home yet? What a great gift that would be, home for the holidays!!
      1 day ago
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Hi, I'm a wife of a newly federal inmate :(
We've been married 24 years, raised 3 wonderful smart, sweet, good kids and lived a normal live! Never ever had trouble with the law, in fact were part of the law so this hit very very hard! I will stand by him, I plan to anyway, he is the love of my life!

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