BabyTorres

BabyTorres

36 years old
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My fiancé and I have been having some on going issues & it has escalated to us ending our relationship. Saying hurtful things to one another, down right rude/ugly. I’m so in love with him & feel lost without him. I’m sick with cancer & his lack of concer
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres My fiancé and I have been having some on going issues & it has escalated to us ending our relationship. Saying hurtful things to one another, down right rude/ugly. I’m so in love with him & feel lost without him. I’m sick with cancer & his lack of concern is troubling. I am very emotional right now & don’t feel support from his side. All he does is bring up the past two certain times that I wasn’t able to do what he asked. Now when we talk it feels different like there is love loss, & I’m so hurt & heartbroken. Sometimes I think the best thing to do is walk away. For the first time ever I saw a side of him I can’t stand, he puts up this front in front of his “boys” I miss him being sweet kind loving & gentle. I don’t know what to do anymore.
    2 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Gm Baby Torres, sometimes the person we love fails to love us back in return, "the right way' and what hurts even more to not show any support especially something as having cancer. The question I'd asked him would be, "what if it were you, wouldn't you want me to be at your side, if you were sick with cancer?" What if I were as selfish as you are to me, what then? The best thing to do and not saying you haven't tried is to communicate with him, and if nothing seems to work out, then you have to do what's best for you, I mean does he realize that cancer can spread to your other organs and shut down? What then, talk to him, make him listen, if he doesn't budge, then do what's best for you okay.. Love you girl, and get well soon. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      2 months ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres How does everyone deal with the negative comments from family and friends about loving someone who is locked up?
    5 months ago
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    • Jalynn
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      Jalynn I've learned to not speak about my relationship around people, plain and simple. This life can be difficult at times and we need support, nit negativity.
      5 months ago
    • Vogue20
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      Vogue20 Learn to ignore it and let them feel dumb at you not respond , people will have something to say either way . Funny thing is that if these men were millionaires it would be okay.
      5 months ago
    • KNB
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      KNB I have been lucky to not have to deal with too many negative comments from family or close friends. Acquaintances and people from work were a different story, I choose who I share things with now since I learnt how narrow minded some people can be. Most times I don’t mind people sharing their opinion on prison relationships in general I mean we are all entitled to an opinion right? and I will respect theirs so long as they respect mine in return. BUT if it starts getting to be a personal attack on my partner, myself or OUR relationship well now that is a whole lot different! But to your question If these are people you care about and value then explain to them that you have listened and heard all their thoughts and concerns about these relationships and though you appreciate their concern you have taken everything into consideration and know that you care deeply for this man and want to give this relationship a chance. Also that you would appreciate it that if they can’t find it in their heart to support your choice then it would be best if they could keep their opinions to themselves as your decision to be with this man is made. I wish you all the best this is difficult enough, support is so important. Take care and if you ever feel the need to talk or perhaps vent feel free to msg 
      5 months ago
    • Admin Megan
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      Admin Megan I just don't even talk about it with people that aren't on our side. It isn't their business. My normal response is that I don't give my opinion on their marriage so neither should they.
      5 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Do you boo, bc it's your happiness, not theirs, and once they realize you mean business and not give two fucks what they think, then hopefully they'll get the picture and move on, life is too short as it is and you have no room for negativity or their opinions okay.. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      5 months ago
    • Jalynn
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      Jalynn I've learned to not speak about my relationship around people, plain and simple. This life can be difficult at times and we need support, nit negativity.
      5 months ago
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    5 months ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres commented on BabyTorres's wall:
    Missing my love we had a fight after our first contact visit I felt a lack of affection from him. I know he’s not very affectionate PDA isn’t his thing but it makes me feel insecure
    5 months ago
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    5 months ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres Today we had our first contact visit, we kissed
    5 months ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres I am so excited this weekend we finally get a contact visit it has been 9 weeks and I miss him. To finally feel his touch is going to be amazing.
    5 months ago
    • SxyJune18Wife
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      SxyJune18Wife I know what you feel. I haven't touched mine in close to 3 months; it's been behind the glass visits. A few weeks left! I hope I can contain myself. LOL!!!!
      5 months ago
    • BabyTorres
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      BabyTorres I can’t wait, I hope you get to hug/kiss him soon, girl I feel like it’s the first time lol again
      5 months ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres Celebrating Thanksgiving with my kids today, my fiancé is in prison this is a hard Thanksgiving as my family has decided my choice in husband isn’t traditional. So they have banned my kids & I from the family day. I’m okay but I hurt for my children, I will make it the best day possible for them. Just feeling kinda down frustrated.
    6 months ago
    • sweetheartjenna
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      sweetheartjenna Many of us are there with you, I’ll be with my in laws and my daughter. Ours is not going to be a tridituanal thanksgiving. It’s also our first where he is gone. That said, we can all be thankfull for the fact that we would never take our loved ones for granted again
      6 months ago
    • BabyTorres
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      BabyTorres Very true, we had a great day ate watched movies played with the dogs. It’s in difficult times you see who is real and who is not. Hope y’all have a wonderful thanksgiving!
      6 months ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres commented on Mauricewifey2014's picture.
    Nice pics y’all look happy
    6 months ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres I finally got to see my love today, it’s been a rough two weeks, seeing his smile was worth it.
    6 months ago
    •  Admin Cate
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      Admin Cate Yay!! That's wonderful!!
      6 months ago
    • BabyTorres
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      BabyTorres It was great to see him, we kept complaining our cheeks hurt from smiling so much. Lol
      6 months ago

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I found love thru a pen pal & I couldn’t be happier we understand one another & I feel the love from him. Soon we will be married we will have a four kids together. Embarking on a new journey scared/excited!

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    by BabyTorres 5 months ago
    Missing my love we had a fight after our first contact visit I felt a lack of affection from him. I know he’s not very affectionate PDA isn’t his thing but it makes me feel insecure