BabyTorres

BabyTorres

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How does everyone deal with the negative comments from family and friends about loving someone who is locked up?
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres How does everyone deal with the negative comments from family and friends about loving someone who is locked up?
    7 days ago
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    • Jalynn
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      Jalynn I've learned to not speak about my relationship around people, plain and simple. This life can be difficult at times and we need support, nit negativity.
      5 days ago
    • Vogue20
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      Vogue20 Learn to ignore it and let them feel dumb at you not respond , people will have something to say either way . Funny thing is that if these men were millionaires it would be okay.
      7 days ago
    • KNB
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      KNB I have been lucky to not have to deal with too many negative comments from family or close friends. Acquaintances and people from work were a different story, I choose who I share things with now since I learnt how narrow minded some people can be. Most times I don’t mind people sharing their opinion on prison relationships in general I mean we are all entitled to an opinion right? and I will respect theirs so long as they respect mine in return. BUT if it starts getting to be a personal attack on my partner, myself or OUR relationship well now that is a whole lot different! But to your question If these are people you care about and value then explain to them that you have listened and heard all their thoughts and concerns about these relationships and though you appreciate their concern you have taken everything into consideration and know that you care deeply for this man and want to give this relationship a chance. Also that you would appreciate it that if they can’t find it in their heart to support your choice then it would be best if they could keep their opinions to themselves as your decision to be with this man is made. I wish you all the best this is difficult enough, support is so important. Take care and if you ever feel the need to talk or perhaps vent feel free to msg 
      7 days ago
    • Admin Megan
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      Admin Megan I just don't even talk about it with people that aren't on our side. It isn't their business. My normal response is that I don't give my opinion on their marriage so neither should they.
      7 days ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Do you boo, bc it's your happiness, not theirs, and once they realize you mean business and not give two fucks what they think, then hopefully they'll get the picture and move on, life is too short as it is and you have no room for negativity or their opinions okay.. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      7 days ago
    • Jalynn
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      Jalynn I've learned to not speak about my relationship around people, plain and simple. This life can be difficult at times and we need support, nit negativity.
      5 days ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres commented on BabyTorres's wall:
    Missing my love we had a fight after our first contact visit I felt a lack of affection from him. I know he’s not very affectionate PDA isn’t his thing but it makes me feel insecure
    9 days ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres Today we had our first contact visit, we kissed
    9 days ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres I am so excited this weekend we finally get a contact visit it has been 9 weeks and I miss him. To finally feel his touch is going to be amazing.
    12 days ago
    • SxyJune18Wife
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      SxyJune18Wife I know what you feel. I haven't touched mine in close to 3 months; it's been behind the glass visits. A few weeks left! I hope I can contain myself. LOL!!!!
      12 days ago
    • BabyTorres
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      BabyTorres I can’t wait, I hope you get to hug/kiss him soon, girl I feel like it’s the first time lol again
      11 days ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres Celebrating Thanksgiving with my kids today, my fiancé is in prison this is a hard Thanksgiving as my family has decided my choice in husband isn’t traditional. So they have banned my kids & I from the family day. I’m okay but I hurt for my children, I will make it the best day possible for them. Just feeling kinda down frustrated.
    22 days ago
    • sweetheartjenna
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      sweetheartjenna Many of us are there with you, I’ll be with my in laws and my daughter. Ours is not going to be a tridituanal thanksgiving. It’s also our first where he is gone. That said, we can all be thankfull for the fact that we would never take our loved ones for granted again
      22 days ago
    • BabyTorres
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      BabyTorres Very true, we had a great day ate watched movies played with the dogs. It’s in difficult times you see who is real and who is not. Hope y’all have a wonderful thanksgiving!
      21 days ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres commented on Mauricewifey2014's picture.
    Nice pics y’all look happy
    23 days ago
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    BabyTorres
    BabyTorres I finally got to see my love today, it’s been a rough two weeks, seeing his smile was worth it.
    23 days ago
    •  Admin Cate
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      Admin Cate Yay!! That's wonderful!!
      23 days ago
    • BabyTorres
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      BabyTorres It was great to see him, we kept complaining our cheeks hurt from smiling so much. Lol
      22 days ago

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I found love thru a pen pal & I couldn’t be happier we understand one another & I feel the love from him. Soon we will be married we will have a four kids together. Embarking on a new journey scared/excited!

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    by BabyTorres 9 days ago
    Missing my love we had a fight after our first contact visit I felt a lack of affection from him. I know he’s not very affectionate PDA isn’t his thing but it makes me feel insecure