Mrs Many Furs

Mrs Many Furs

51 years old
Female
Location
crestline
United States
Current Status
Been with my man 3.5 years and I have red flags go in off in my head now. Recent visit I watched him get into a verbal vomit with a CO. Week 2 I left my cell phone on the counter of a cat part store and therefore missed his call. We went nuts on the phon
Information
  • How did you hear about us?
    google seasrch

Location

Events

0 Events...

Tags

Music

Videos

No videos yet...

Latest Activity

  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs Been with my man 3.5 years and I have red flags go in off in my head now. Recent visit I watched him get into a verbal vomit with a CO. Week 2 I left my cell phone on the counter of a cat part store and therefore missed his call. We went nuts on the phone that night and was very angry that I didn't act like missing one call was the end of the end of the world. I know nothing of prison culture and there was a time he asks me several times I I would call or text another inmates girl and ask her to put money on so and so books. These women were obviously not answering their phone. I never called these women and told him how uncomfortable I was with him ask in me to do this. Recently I read a blog and found out that this is a prison hustle among inmates. You ask your girl to ask my girl to put money on my books and I'm exchange your guy make X amount of money for getting you to call some dudes woman. Same goes for prison rides to visit. I am bothered by the fact that my man involved me in a hustle and didn't even bother to be forthcoming about it with me. Though I would never ever call a woman and pressure her to put money on someones books, when it comes to rides, why couldn't my guy just be honest and say...."babe can you give so and so mother a rod to visit and that dude will give me 10 bucks?" Im bothered by the half truth telling crap. Am I being over sensitive?
    14 days ago
    • View all 6 Comments
    • Island Girl
      ×
      Island Girl I think Jalynn covered that possible scenario in its entirety. I have heard that there are gambling/drug debts that are paid that way as well but I think for now you should not be so upset about or put much thought into it until you are able to have a face to face conversation on the subject.
      13 days ago
    • Island Girl
      ×
      Island Girl I am definitely not condoning that behavior but often times they are not able to say those things. Everything is monitored (mail, calls, emails..) so the only time he could really tell you without being "heard" by the CO's is at visit & sometimes that's if-ey. Hope that makes sense.
      13 days ago
    • Jason's Baby girl
      ×
      Jason's Baby girl I am new on here and i am definetly new to the spouse of a man that is locked up. Me and Jason just spent our 6mo. Anniversary together on 11/19. But I have already done this type of exchange. Its just another way to exchange favors done for one another. And i find it a good way to meet other women in the same position as well.
      13 days ago
    • Jalynn
      ×
      Jalynn I can understand your feelings pertaining to this. You're using the word hustle, like he's hustling people out of money or something of that sort.....like it's a very bad thing and that may not necessarily be the case. I don't know him, I don't know the situation so I can't say for sure that's not what he's doing. But I can say that in some cases, if he's asking you to contact someone's girl/mother/whoever to have them put money on their books or to put money on the books for somebody else then he is probably getting some sort of payment for having you do this. So for instance if he has you contact someone's girl he may be getting you know 4 soup from commissary or something like that in exchange for you doing this. Now if he's asking you to put money on somebody else's books for him, then that also could be a case where he's not able to make it to commissary so this guy's going to commissary this week and the guys going to pick stuff up for him. I also know that I have been in my relationship for almost 4 years and on a few occasions I've been asked to send money to someone's brother. And the brother was going to pay a bill here in the outside world for his locked up brother. And the locked up brother was going to buy whatever my man needed for commissary in exchange for this. I know you're upset about him not being so forthcoming, but phone calls and mail are monitored. It is against the rules for you to be putting money on the books of somebody else who's locked up with your man, in exchange for whatever their agreement is. It's against the rules for say your man to go to commissary and buy a pack of cookies to give to somebody else in there as well. If a CO wants to be a hard ass they can get written up/a ticket/ whatever your facility calls it if they get caught doing this. So they have to be very careful about what they say and what they do, how they do things. So I'm just saying maybe don't be so angry and upset about it right at this moment, try and keep a more open mind about it and just tuck it into the back of your mind because he may be coming from a good place so to speak.
      13 days ago
    • Jalynn
      ×
      Jalynn I do think for right now you may be being a little over sensitive. He may not have told you too because he's a man trying to do his thing, you know still fend for himself as much as he can.
      13 days ago
    • Tommie
      ×
      Tommie My husband used to have me do that, off and on for 4.5 yrs and for some it worked out, but he got paid for it ya know, and he knew who to deal with as far as trust is concerned bc nothing in these streets is free, not even a 10 min call, so use discernment wisely and next visit or letter, ask him why he couldn't be honest with you from the get go? Hope this and other responses helps you out some okay, GL to you okay, tc and keep us posted, love always, Tommie~~~.
      13 days ago
    • Island Girl
      ×
      Island Girl I think Jalynn covered that possible scenario in its entirety. I have heard that there are gambling/drug debts that are paid that way as well but I think for now you should not be so upset about or put much thought into it until you are able to have a face to face conversation on the subject.
      13 days ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs have you ever dreamed he was home with you and the dream felt so real that when you woke up you were heart broken because you realized it was only a dream? Sometimes I just want to stay asleep
    1 year ago
    • View all 5 Comments
    • Samie
      ×
      Samie Very Often......MY Husband talks in his sleep and the guys around him always kid about its all about you Wife :)
      1 year ago
    • Kim
      ×
      Kim All the time. 😔😔
      1 year ago
    • Carma
      ×
      Carma Yup
      1 year ago
    • Shygirl4joker13Forever
      ×
      Shygirl4joker13Forever Yes I have , it broke my heart when I woke up and realized it was a dream/fantasy and he wasnt hime yet
      1 year ago
    • billie1980
      ×
      billie1980 Me too i fantasy about seeing him.
      1 year ago
    • Samie
      ×
      Samie Very Often......MY Husband talks in his sleep and the guys around him always kid about its all about you Wife :)
      1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs Just got home from a Saturday and Sunday visit. It was great!
    1 year ago
    • Jen
      ×
      Jen Glad you had a great weekend!
      1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs Wishing you all a wonderful Valentine's weekend. I know this weekend is especially hard. Stay strong and positive and know you are loved.
    1 year ago
    • Jen
      ×
      Jen Happy Valentine's Day!
      1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs My husband called me 8x today so far and will be calling again in about an hour. I'm so happy right now! Sundays the C/O on duty just lets them call whenever and however much. We look forward all week to our Sundays and call them "all day sundays." Its great talking to him back to back. We get to really connect and talk about a variety of topics. Happy, happy, happy wife. Hope your day is a blessed one
    1 year ago
    • Jen
      ×
      Jen Wow, I love my before bed calls, but I can't imagine having the time to be on the phone all day every sunday, you're lucky to have so much free time!!
      1 year ago
    • Mrs Many Furs
      ×
      Mrs Many Furs Yes I'm blessed. And I too love bedtime calls. Gives me good dreams
      1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs happy weekend everyone. Remember to be kind to yourself.
    1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs has uploaded 1 new photos.
    1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs has accepted Carma's friend request.
    1 year ago
  • ×
    Ms.Jayne
    Ms.Jayne commented on Mrs Many Furs's picture.
    Beautiful & so true!
    1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs Share something with Strong Prison Wives & Families
    1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs Wishing you all a beautiful day.
    1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs Earlier today I was going through it. When my husband called I was balling my eyes out. He is native American and when I get all wacky like today, he sings me sings in native American. Our whole 15 minute call was him singing. I don't know why his singing cheers me up but it does.
    1 year ago
    • View all 3 Comments
    • Mrs Many Furs
      ×
      Mrs Many Furs My husband is from the Piaute nation. Missjlh..... Amazing how native American music sooths the soul isn't it? That's good medicine sister!
      1 year ago
    • Lo16602
      ×
      Lo16602 That is so beautiful! Hope you find peace soon!
      1 year ago
    • MISSJLH
      ×
      MISSJLH That's so sweet! What language does he speak? When I am anxious and stressed out, I turn on my Native American radio on Pandora! It's like a lullaby to a baby. It soothes and calms my soul every time.
      1 year ago
    • Mrs Many Furs
      ×
      Mrs Many Furs My husband is from the Piaute nation. Missjlh..... Amazing how native American music sooths the soul isn't it? That's good medicine sister!
      1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs Having one of those missing my favorite person days. It's weird how some days are easier then others and other days just kick your emotional ass
    1 year ago
  • ×
    Mrs Many Furs
    Mrs Many Furs Just had 2 phone calls in a row from my baby. Love when he can double clutch the phone!
    1 year ago

About

My name is Cheryl. My husband was sentenced 27 to life. We are working on his Habeas for Ineffective Assistance of Counsel. I know nothing about the court system. I a Real Estate Broker and owner of my own company. I am strong and believe in the power of prayer. I miss my husband every moment of the day

Latest Blog Posts

1 Blogs...

Feed

Friends

9 Friends

  • DaShawn
  • Valerie
  • Almo
  • Mrs Garcia
  • MrsBennett
  • Karimah
  • Carma
  • Jen
  • Tracy1986
  • DownersLady

The Wall

2 Wall Posts

Please login or sign up to post on this network.
Click here to sign up now.
  • Almo
    by Almo 2 years ago
    Hi Cheryl :)
  • Mrs Many Furs
    by Mrs Many Furs 2 years ago
    Some days I'm strong and other days I have melt downs.