suddenly*his*queen

suddenly*his*queen

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Hi.. I was on here little over two years ago while my soon to be ex husband was I and after he came home he refused to change his life style hes now on the run and I've been raising our three kids alone. About six months ago I reconnected with a friend f
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    suddenly*his*queen
    suddenly*his*queen Hi.. I was on here little over two years ago while my soon to be ex husband was I and after he came home he refused to change his life style hes now on the run and I've been raising our three kids alone. About six months ago I reconnected with a friend from school and a month ago we officially got together last week he was arrests on a probation violation. And this time I REALLY have no or to talk to my family has quickly passed judgement on this situation and im just looking for support
    1 year ago
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    • kelly h
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      kelly h no judgment here.... we are all going through the same thing! my parents are both emotionally unstable (to say the least) and I too feel so alone! Just knowing there is someone else that can relate is comforting
      1 year ago
    • Caity
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      Caity Hello and Welcome!! You've come to right place to get support and encouragement!!
      1 year ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hi Suddenly*his*queen- So glad you found us okay, we're all here for each other okay, looking to hear more from you okay.. Tc and ttys love aight..Love ya girl, Tommie~~.
      1 year ago
    • kelly h
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      kelly h no judgment here.... we are all going through the same thing! my parents are both emotionally unstable (to say the least) and I too feel so alone! Just knowing there is someone else that can relate is comforting
      1 year ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap i recived and email from lily wolfgang and now shes been banned should i be concerned?
    2 years ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap Wow. My prayers answered! Monday of last week I was told he would be released that Thursday then Tuesday he called to tell me he wouldn't be released then Wednesday a call from his grandmother then his po saying I needed to be at the jail (9+ hours away) by 730 Thursday morning for his release and then had to worry about his transfer of probation! I made it there by 8 am he was out by 9 to po by 10 and his transfer was declined but he was granted an indefinite travel permit allowing him to come home its been an adjustment but were falling into a routine and he's been couping well so far
    2 years ago
    • Bellus_One052816
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      Bellus_One052816 Great news!! Congrats!!!!
      2 years ago
    • Squeek
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      Squeek That's fantastic! Thanks for checking in! Enjoy having him home :D
      2 years ago
    • LovingHimUntil4ever
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      LovingHimUntil4ever I'm so happy for you!! Congrats!! Enjoy, Enjoy, Enjoy every moment back with your love!!
      2 years ago
    • KrisnRandy
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      KrisnRandy Yay! How exciting!!! xo
      2 years ago
    • nelly
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      nelly awesome!!
      2 years ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap Just off the phone with his NH ppo and he informed me that his transfer to NY was denied..do to an error in filing paper work. So maybe this was a blessing in disguise while they sort through the problem.. Still trying to find the silver lining. God give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change I guess. Happy hump day ladies.
    2 years ago
    • Jen
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      Jen I'm so sorry to read this, take care of yourself sweetie!
      2 years ago
    • KrisnRandy
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      KrisnRandy Im so sorry! Where is he now? And where is he looking to get transfered to in NY? I'm from NY so just curious! I hope it all ends up working out for you! xo
      2 years ago
    • mrs.dunlap
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      mrs.dunlap Kris I'm just out side of buffalo now. and thank you we wound up with a miricle and he was released and even though his transfer was denied he was granted an indefinite travel permit
      2 years ago
    • KrisnRandy
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      KrisnRandy I live on the Island! And thats amazing that he was released! So happy for you!!! Enjoy it! Xoxo
      2 years ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap Just off the phone with his NH ppo and he informed me that his transfer to NY was denied..do to an error in filing paper work. So maybe this was a blessing in disguise while they sort through the problem.. Still trying to find the silver lining. God give me the strength to accept the things I cannot change I guess. Happy hump day ladies.
    2 years ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap Tonight is no different than any other night I've had since this started kids went to sleep now I'm in bed and home alone... But the bed feels even bigger than usually knowing that tomorrow was supposed to be my last night alone tonight my last with out him in our bed and knowing that he wont be here for who knows how long.... I don't even know how I'm feeling... I can't snap out of it... I'm beyond broken hearted...
    2 years ago
    • nelly
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      nelly Im sorry girl..
      2 years ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap Really wish I could feel anything but anger and disappointment right now
    2 years ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap Well I guess I don't need to worry about how he's getting here.. They aren't releasing him and bringing him in front of the board for something no idea what will happen or when he will be home now.. I am already packed to leave..
    2 years ago
    • Carma
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      Carma Oh no! Sending prayers your way.
      2 years ago
    • Squeek
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      Squeek So disappointing! Stay strong, and please keep us updated!
      2 years ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap Half an hour until the last phone call! And I still don't know how I'm getting him home
    2 years ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap Sever anxiety tonight.. Finding out more and more negative situations that can potentially come up in the next four days.. Reality that someone needs to be on there way in less than 48 hours and we still have no money and no plan along with Braxton hicks contractions have stolen any hope I have for sleep tonight... I will be beyond heart broken if I am not standing at that door on Thursday..
    2 years ago
    • KrisnRandy
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      KrisnRandy Stay strong...I hope it all works out for you...ur in my thoughts!!! Xo
      2 years ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap So I'm in dire need of some kind of distraction for the next 36-48 hours... Days are dragging on and I just want Thursday to be here already!!! My house is clean my kids are occupied and i have NO company.. Could this go any slower?
    2 years ago
    • MISSJLH
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      MISSJLH LOL! I feel you! I have a visit planned for Thursday too. I hope I get to see him though. They are on lock down and I don't know when they will be off so...
      2 years ago
    • mrs.dunlap
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      mrs.dunlap good luck!!! i hope you hear good news soon! my hubby is supposed to be released some time thursday and i havent seen him since the beggining of june. hes 600miles away and they wint give me a time so i have to drive all wednesday night to hurry up and wait! 😞😵
      2 years ago
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    mrs.dunlap Got the call this morning the writeups didn't effect his dates at all. So relieved. Now to figure out who's picking him up and how we will get there.. Gotta leave in 3 days
    2 years ago
    • nelly
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      nelly Thats really good news!!
      2 years ago
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    mrs.dunlap I was talking to my little brothers fiance and I realized that I wont have to bring the trash out again because he will be home by the next trash day... She told me I sounded ridiculous and maybe I do but that's exciting to me. In four days ill be on my was back to my home state one last time to pick him up and get him outta that hell hole! Fingers crossed it all goes smoothly!
    2 years ago
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    • AD103
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      AD103 the little things are the big things! i have a to-do list already for my husband...even though we've got a couple years to go :)
      2 years ago
    • Jen
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      Jen Wow, see to me that doesn't sound ridiculous at all! I can't wait until the day I don't have to do both halves of the chores! Garbage day will return to the men! Enjoy your day!
      2 years ago
    • 1%er
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      1%er Oh no not ridculous! I bring up taking the trash out or having to carry in the groceries all the time! He can't wait to have those chores again!You are a lucky women to only have to do it one more time!
      2 years ago
    • Squeek
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      Squeek It's the little things you miss the most sometimes :)
      2 years ago
    • Isla82
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      Isla82 Oh my gosh I know the excitement in that! :) I literally cried in sadness every trash day for the first couple weeks because that was his thing or we did it as a team...Cheers to no more lonely trash days for you!! It really is the small things
      2 years ago
    • mrs.dunlap
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      mrs.dunlap thanks ladies inwas starting to think i was really losing it!! and it really isnthe small things he calls them small pootatoes
      2 years ago
    • AD103
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      AD103 the little things are the big things! i have a to-do list already for my husband...even though we've got a couple years to go :)
      2 years ago
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    suddenly*his*queen
    mrs.dunlap So surprise to me! He called tonight and talked to his mom for 15minutes and when I got the phone he wasn't completely miserable! That's a first!! She told me that she would like to go pick him up alone next week and it was all I had bot to stomp my feet and throw a fit right there... I really want to be there when he walks out the doors.. But I do understand why she wants to talk yo him alone... I feel like that's just setting him up to be angry when he finally gets home.... 8 hours of mom nagging will do that to you!
    2 years ago
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    mrs.dunlap Finally got a call from him today. A week short of release he's telling me that he's gotten two write ups...vi have been making plans to make the 10 hour drive a week from today to pick him up and now idk what to expect...
    2 years ago
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    • mrs.dunlap
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      mrs.dunlap he was offered transfer tona lower security block three weeks ago and he didnt take it because he was worried about getting into trouble then a new co came on and hes been having trouble with her. i told him today that he needs to figure out how to deal with her and figure it out. he hasnt been told that its going to change his date any but his po is going to keep tabs on it for me im going to try to call the facility on monday and try to get a date from them directly because im coming from q different state and i have to make weekly doctor visits thanks for the positive thoughts ladies!!
      2 years ago
    • Jen
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      Jen Positive thoughts sent your way!
      2 years ago
    • Squeek
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      Squeek The stress of getting out must be getting to him. Will the write ups affect the date?
      2 years ago
    • Jen
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      Jen Stay positive. Hopefully these write ups won't effect his release date!
      2 years ago
    • KrisnRandy
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      KrisnRandy Tell him to be a good boy!!! hes only got a little time left... hope he doesn't screw it up! Keep positivie and hopefully they don't effect him! xo
      2 years ago
    • mrs.dunlap
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      mrs.dunlap he was offered transfer tona lower security block three weeks ago and he didnt take it because he was worried about getting into trouble then a new co came on and hes been having trouble with her. i told him today that he needs to figure out how to deal with her and figure it out. he hasnt been told that its going to change his date any but his po is going to keep tabs on it for me im going to try to call the facility on monday and try to get a date from them directly because im coming from q different state and i have to make weekly doctor visits thanks for the positive thoughts ladies!!
      2 years ago

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I was on here a little over two years ago while my soon to be ex husband was I and after he came home he refused to change his life style hes now on the run and I've been raising our three kids alone. About six months ago I reconnected with a friend from school and a month ago we officially got together last week he was arrests on a probation violation. And this time I REALLY have no or to talk to my family has quickly passed judgement on this situation and im just looking for support.

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