Cookie1021

Cookie1021

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Hi Ladies! I need some advice..does anyone have any knowledge of divorce? I'm not be proud but my hubby is still married to his ex. He wants me to get his divorce papers together but its not that easy. He's locked up in VA, she lives in Texas and they go
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    Cookie1021
    Cookie1021 Hi Ladies! I need some advice..does anyone have any knowledge of divorce? I'm not be proud but my hubby is still married to his ex. He wants me to get his divorce papers together but its not that easy. He's locked up in VA, she lives in Texas and they got married in Washington. Where do I start? It would be a uncontested divorce but I don't even know which state I need to get the papers from. We both need this chapter closed and forgotten. This chick is the reason he's licjed up damn we need her GONE! HELP PLEASE!
    1 year ago
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    • Mrs. Cort
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      Mrs. Cort Who ever is filing for divorce needs to file it in the state their in I believe you have to live in that state for 6-12 months before you can file that was the law in Virginia but it's different in every state, good luck
      1 year ago
    • MrsRuff
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      MrsRuff I believe start in Washington. Pretty sure (not 100%) that you have to file in the state that it was in.
      1 year ago
    • Nic
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      Nic I could not begin to tell you, BUT, I'd say this.... do as much Googling as you can for divorce laws for each of the states. Familiarize yourself using the clerk of courts for the counties they are in for which it will be filed. Then cross reference that with what research you've already done. Finally brush up on your knowledge of how an inmate can file, and what avenues need to be taken. After all is said and done, use the "free" 15min sessions/calls typically offered with family court lawyers in your area. By then you will be able to get more answers to the questions that you may still have. With the exception of talking with lawyers, I've done all those things using the internet on behalf of my sweetie.
      1 year ago
    • MISSJLH
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      MISSJLH I am pretty sure Washington is where you start. That's where their marriage was legalized. They will probably have to have a sheriff's department in Texas serve her with the papers. She can sign and return to you. You submit them back to Washington and wait. Like Mrs. Ruff said, I am not 100% but maybe 95%. LOL Good luck to you!
      1 year ago
    • Mrs. Cort
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      Mrs. Cort Who ever is filing for divorce needs to file it in the state their in I believe you have to live in that state for 6-12 months before you can file that was the law in Virginia but it's different in every state, good luck
      1 year ago
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    Cookie1021
    Cookie1021 I haven't been on here in a long time...recently I stared coming back on randomly, when I needed my spirits lifted. Its been a long year and I've been struggling to keep focused. I fell into a deep depression and pushed everyone out of my life except my husband. He didn't completely know but I know he could tell I was going through it. He has been so amazing in taking care of me and doing his best to know I am loved everyday. He has a lot of good things going for him, he's written 3 books to be published. He wants to do it for me and for us. He doesn't want me to struggle financially and feels terrible that I do because of his situation. We are waiting on very important legal response and hopefully he will get a reduced sentence. We have a great case for double jeopardy but the state has been dragging their feet. I know this is a lot and its not even the half of what I've been dealing with. I just needed to vent. I love my husband with everything I've got and my heart and soul miss him so much. I'm going to see him next weekend I can't wait!!!!
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    • Cookie1021
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      Cookie1021 Your a sweetheart! That would be so helpful and of course I'll contribute gas money :-) its about 300$ every time I go, mostly because of the cabs so that would make a world of difference!
      2 years ago
    • Mrs. McCray
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      Mrs. McCray Hello, I know totally what you are going thru with the depression. Ppl dont understand we do time too! Its hard and difficult at times and I have given up several times. But I had to just keep praying about it. And we are not seeing eye to eye right now but we are making the best of it. IDK how much times your hubby has but mine has 8 more years. He took a plea so thats just that he has to do the time. Hope you have a great day and smile. :)
      2 years ago
    • Cookie1021
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      Cookie1021 Aww yes you are absolutely right, we do the time too. As of right now he has 17 years Left. Ughhh I hate to even say that out loud. Like I said we have a good case but you never know. I want to have children with him and its so scary to imagine it may not ever happen. We have our whole lives planned including our kids names. Its just a bad phase I am in. I know I have to be strong for the both of us.
      2 years ago
    • Mrs. McCray
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      Mrs. McCray Yes be strong I know you can do it.. Whether it is 17 days or 17 years we all know the feeling. I pray his case goes well for yall! Yes we wanted to have a baby too and I had looked into invitro but We stay in Virginia the dumb commonwealth state they are not approving anything!! Sucks an our age differnce is 13 yrs! LOL! Yes I am the older one. Lke you said this is just a phase a test from GOD once you passed it the storm is over and the sun will shine again soon! Keep smiling girly!
      2 years ago
    • Cookie1021
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      Cookie1021 Thank you, I so appreciate your uplifting words! Means so much. I understand your frustration with VA that's where my husband is. What part of VA? Mine is in Lawrenceville aka middle of no where!
      2 years ago
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      Mrs. McCray Mine is in Wallens ridge state prison . In noo mans land ! But I have Sumone in Lawrenceville too that I just went to see n yes it's n the middle of nowhere ! Lol. Wallens ridges is 8 hrs from me too ! Ugggg n I use to go every 2 weeks to see him.
      2 years ago
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      Cookie1021 Yeah its hard for me too...I travel from NY on a bus and then have to take cabs back and forth to the prison. I only get to ho every 2-3 months BC the cabs are expensive. I stay in a hotel in south hill. Maybe we could hook up next time you go to Lawrenceville.
      2 years ago
    • Mrs. McCray
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      Mrs. McCray Sure sounds like a plan to me.. Anything to help out. It's only 2 hrs from me to get there
      2 years ago
    • Cookie1021
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      Cookie1021 Your a sweetheart! That would be so helpful and of course I'll contribute gas money :-) its about 300$ every time I go, mostly because of the cabs so that would make a world of difference!
      2 years ago
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    Cookie1021 Just finished getting all my things together, sipping some wine to ease my anxiety & in 3 1/2 hours I will be on the bus to my babez!!!! Soooo excited! Cant wait to be in his arms tomorrow morning :-)
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      steviesgirl Yay! Have a great visit!
      2 years ago
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      NoviosQueeny How was the visit? Did the nerves die down? I haven't had a visit yet. Working on one for March. I'm nervous.. We met online so, real nervous.
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    Cookie1021
    Cookie1021 Been in my feelings the last two days...packing to go see him is so exciting yet I have nerves & I haven't even told him. Even though he asked if I was :/ Im not even sure what those nerves are or what they mean. I feel like part of it is because this is going to make the whole situation so real. I haven't ever visited anyone in prison, except with work to speak with clients. When I say real, its just I already hate the operator on the phone telling me 5x this call is from prison before I even hear my babez voice! Ugh why do I feel in such a funk when Ive waited so so long for this to come?? I just want his weekend to come so I can stop thinking about it so much and just let it happen.
    2 years ago
    • Agirl
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      Agirl I feel the same way you do even though I have visited my uncle in prison before. I am praying that you have a amazing visit in all your nerves go out the door when she see him and get to hold him
      2 years ago
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      Cookie1021 Thanks hun!!!!!! Less then 24 hours!
      2 years ago
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    Cookie1021 1 week till I finally get to visit my Babez!!! Everything is booked and set, Friday cannot come soon enough, traveling through the night to be the first one there! The emotions I am feeling are indescribable and my hubby is so excited! I wont lie I am a bit anxious, but ore so for the process prior to getting to him. He asked me tonight if I was nervous, I said no I could be more excited :-) He told me right now is the happiest he has ever been, incredible!!! I Love me some HIM
    2 years ago
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      Agirl I am so excited for you because I know you have been waiting for a while to get your visit enjoy yourself sis . I am praying that your visit is going to be awesome
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      Carma Woohoo!! That certainly is something to look forward to! Safe travels to you as well.
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      Samie Have a safe wonderful trip.....A few butterflys always travel in our Hearts♡
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      Cookie1021 Thank you so much ladies!!!! I cant wait 5 days & a wake up till I am in his arms :-)
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My fiancé is incarcerated in Virginia, I live in NY. I have loved this man for 11 years of my life. We have been through our ups and downs but there is no one else I rather have by my side. We have reconnected since he has been down and I am doing my best to hold him down. At the current moment he has a 20 year sentence. We have just submitted paperwork to fight for a reduced sentence. The worst part is not knowing how long I have to wait to have the life I have dreamed of for us since I was a teenager....I joined just for some extra support and talk to women going through my same feelings.

Also, if anyone has a loved one incarcerated in Virginia, I have some questions on their processes. Thanks!

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