Meliann

Meliann

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    Meliann
    Meliann How long does it take for someone to removed you from the visitors list?
    2 years ago
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    • Samie
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      Samie Im not sure if he can do that, he can deny your visit ,,,,,Girl he needs to see you, if yall love each other you will get through to him xoxo
      2 years ago
    • Jen
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      Jen Do you mean to be added to the visitors list? I think it takes a few days or a couple weeks depending on where you are! Good to see you, how have you been?
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann No I really meant removed. Things have been I think the worst at this point idk if it's frustration or what I've been sooooo depressed lately... The next court date is August 24idek what to expect but he's made it clear he no longer wants my support or as he puts it he doesn't need me cause he's in jail.
      2 years ago
    • Jen
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      Jen Awe honey, that's so sad. He must be so scared right now to be pushing you away. How are you handling it?
      2 years ago
    • Samie
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      Samie Im not sure if he can do that, he can deny your visit ,,,,,Girl he needs to see you, if yall love each other you will get through to him xoxo
      2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann Having better day today
    2 years ago
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    Meliann I sound selfish but I'm ready to call it quits! He's constantly contacting his ex girlfriend who he claims is just there for financial purposes only. But the way she makes it seem.... I feel and look stupid. She has no respect for what we have! And he's not trying to regulate it and it's hurting me. Cause I'm here putting my life on hold! The least you can do is try to ensure everyone is happy! I know he needs her and stuff but I wish he could tell her the right words to let her know that he cares a lot and has love for her as a friend. It sucks to post things and know you're both posting about the same person. I've lost so much trust for him during this time and all this stuff is not helping! I've complained he said he will take care of it. Says she refers to me as his girlfriend ect but idky she's comfortable portraying a different thing to the world. Yes it's my ego but who wants to look stupid? Especially when you're giving up so much! Ughhh how do I tell him I'm done and I'll support from a distance ?!
    2 years ago
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    • Taylor Girl
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      Taylor Girl I dont understand, so what does a relationship mean to him then? My bf tells me when bitches write him letters, when his babymomma talks shit about me, when she visits, and he also is honest w me when he geys money, says, could be his mom or his sister. Maybe his baby mom, but i doubt it. Like. I told him, if u want me to be loyal to u, i expect the same in return. Seems legit right. Idk maybe u need to have a serious conversation about what exactly is your role in this relationship, and then you need to fine tune it.
      2 years ago
    • Taylor Girl
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      Taylor Girl Fucks sakes what? Thats crazy! Oh hell no. lol nooo noooo noooo. Sounds like he has to make a choice. If my bf told me, oh babe, i need her, Angela, for financial gain. I'd be like. Oh. Okay. I understand. NOT. Can u trust someone like that? idk man. thats a hard one!
      2 years ago
    • Taylor Girl
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      Taylor Girl When u r in a relationship, u have to have open and honest communication, and u have to be able to trust him. So, if u r his gf or his wife, idk that he should be going to another woman for anything... really i mean thats not right. Idk thas jus me tho.
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann Soooo I thought! Smh I'm gonna tell him in the morning that it's over... I love him unconditionally so I'll still check for him and communicate with his lawyer for him but I'm not feeling a relationship anymore... Even if she's doing things to get under my skin she should never feel comfortable to do so..
      2 years ago
    • Taylor Girl
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      Taylor Girl I dont understand, so what does a relationship mean to him then? My bf tells me when bitches write him letters, when his babymomma talks shit about me, when she visits, and he also is honest w me when he geys money, says, could be his mom or his sister. Maybe his baby mom, but i doubt it. Like. I told him, if u want me to be loyal to u, i expect the same in return. Seems legit right. Idk maybe u need to have a serious conversation about what exactly is your role in this relationship, and then you need to fine tune it.
      2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann Ugh what's next? Do the pleas offers get higher or lower? Is he gonna get another offer
    2 years ago
    • Jen
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      Jen I'd suggest calling his lawyer to get him to explain. The answer to this depends on the evidence and the potential of conviction if the case goes to trial. At this point in time your lawyer is probably speaking back and forth negotiating with the prosecution, the results of those negotiations and patience are what will determine if the pleas go higher or lower. Everyone's story is different on here. The prosecution doesn't want to go to trial as that's costly, the prosecution lawyers are also monitored on their conviction rates. It's really particular towards your man's case. Good luck!!!
      2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann Super rough day!!! He got his first plea offer today
    2 years ago
    • Jesse..Staff Member & Moderator
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      Jesse..Staff Member & Moderator 🙏prayers for strength and hugs for comfort .. Stay strong and I hope all works out just try and always see the bigger picture and know things happen for a reason even if we don't know why ... One day we will understand
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann Thanks Jesse this is greatly appreciated 💜
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann Ugh what's next? Do the pleas offers get higher or lower? Is he gonna get another offer 😢 I'm so lost and confused
      2 years ago
    • Jesse..Staff Member & Moderator
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      Jesse..Staff Member & Moderator Plea offers is a starting point and depending on him and his attorney the will try and get it down unless it's the best offer the attorney feels he will get ... What was his offer ??
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann okay... right now off is 14 with 82 mons ( about 6 years) and i believe he said something about being able to go to a half way house in three.. ughh thats sooo long!
      2 years ago
    • Jesse..Staff Member & Moderator
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      Jesse..Staff Member & Moderator At what percent?? Oh I know mine got 5@ 35% and still feel like it's way to long but he could have got worse
      2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann Wondering if I just tell him we should just be friends
    2 years ago
    • AmarettoCream
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      AmarettoCream I am in the same situation and it sucks
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann I just don't know anymore
      2 years ago
    • AmarettoCream
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      AmarettoCream He actually decided to just be friends today...
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann Aww how are you feeling about that? I doubt mine will make that decision.. I will have to be the one.
      2 years ago
    • AmarettoCream
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      AmarettoCream lol girl I am pissed.... but it is what it is.... im not going to fight for someone who wont fight fo rme
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann Girl! I know what you mean! He's probably going thru some emotions
      2 years ago
    • AmarettoCream
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      AmarettoCream Lol its a rough decision... we are still dealing with it
      2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann Shoula be sleeping but the emotional side is making it impossible
    2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann Another depressing night
    2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann Feelings super depressed out of nowhere!!!! I swear I miss him more than words can ever explain
    2 years ago
    • Spacecadet
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      Spacecadet I feel you girl. Im counting the days down...even though I dont even have a defenative date at this point as to when he will be home. :/
      2 years ago
    • Taylor Girl
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      Taylor Girl I am totally w u there girlie, cuz we are having a bad time r.n w no money on the phone. And my anxiety is super bad. I miss my boy so so so much. I totally feel u!
      2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann I love when he sneaks phone calls lol
    2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann commented on livvyd's picture.
    That is soo beautiful!
    2 years ago
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    Meliann
    "Meliann" commented on MrsContes's Blog "Well... here s his first "no money"".
    Definitly not wrong or saying no! You have to make sure your home ouside is in tact ! and I Jo took all the words out of my mouth. I refused to put money on my guys books for the longest!! I told him I refuse to pay for him to write love letters to ...
    2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann Waiting for my pookie to call :)
    2 years ago
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    • Taylor Girl
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      Taylor Girl lol. I call him my baby boy, someone said to me is he younger than u? I said yes, and dhe said. Oh explains why u call him that. lol he loves it, even tho he says, i'm your MAN baby, i said yes baby. i know. lol
      2 years ago
    • Taylor Girl
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      Taylor Girl lol u have a pookie. Thats cute. I call my bf booboo. lol
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann LOL! thankies... I couldn't call him that, thats my daughters nickname I slipped up one time and they both answered lol..
      2 years ago
    • Taylor Girl
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      Taylor Girl lol. I call him my baby boy, someone said to me is he younger than u? I said yes, and dhe said. Oh explains why u call him that. lol he loves it, even tho he says, i'm your MAN baby, i said yes baby. i know. lol
      2 years ago
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    Taylor Girl
    Taylor Girl has accepted Meliann's friend request.
    2 years ago
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    Meliann
    Meliann I missss him sooo much :(
    2 years ago
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    • Meliann
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      Meliann Lol so clearly that did not save and send. But I know right! My mom alwasy told me that if I kept crying when I was younger I would run out of tears. I'm learning that , that was a lie! lol.. This situation can really drive you kinda crazy..Who doesn't want to be with the person they love! Ugh yea the distance is a killer it strains the relationship! I'm moving back in June though so Iam excited about that! How long as he been in there? how much time does he have left?
      2 years ago
    • Jen
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      Jen I've been having one of those days too. I wonder how it's even possible to miss someone so much when they truly are not that far away, we speak every day, and visit twice a week. Still feel heartbroken anyways. Hope your day gets better!
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann I know I always think this way to! I honestly would do anything to have that kinda time! I live states away right now so we write and talk on the phone, I wish I could see him! UGH!! Everyday I feel heartbroken and the distance is really taking a toll :( I hope things get bettter for you as well hunni
      2 years ago
    • Jen
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      Jen Thank you Meliann!! I hope it gets better for me soon as I'm not sure how much more of this my brain can deal with, lol, don't tear ducts dry up eventually, lol. I'm so sorry to hear you're so far apart, that's got to be rough.
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann
      2 years ago
    • Meliann
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      Meliann Lol so clearly that did not save and send. But I know right! My mom alwasy told me that if I kept crying when I was younger I would run out of tears. I'm learning that , that was a lie! lol.. This situation can really drive you kinda crazy..Who doesn't want to be with the person they love! Ugh yea the distance is a killer it strains the relationship! I'm moving back in June though so Iam excited about that! How long as he been in there? how much time does he have left?
      2 years ago

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