Candace

Candace

30 years old
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I hate it when you go out of your way to help family or friends out and when you need repayment they don't come thru... I let a friends borrow four hundred and he promised to pay me back by the 1st then tells me his money was already spoken for and he ca

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    Candace
    Candace I hate it when you go out of your way to help family or friends out and when you need repayment they don't come thru... I let a friends borrow four hundred and he promised to pay me back by the 1st then tells me his money was already spoken for and he can't pay me back right now... Ugh I'm annoyed and pissed off!
    10 months ago
    • Forever Mrs. E.
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      Forever Mrs. E. Yeah and those are the ones who also are quick to judge you as soon as something doesn't go their way. I'm sorry you have to go through that. Been there. Not everyone has the same heart we do. You just know for future reference to never do that again. I keep my circle small for those I actually trust.
      10 months ago
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    Candace
    Candace has accepted Mark's Angel's friend request.
    10 months ago
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    Candace
    Candace So my husband is getting transferred from Stafford creek corrections to Monroe TRU and I just sent off some mail and I ordered a couple books on Amazon... Does that mail follow him or will it be returned??? Dreading the transfer only cause it takes forever before he can call me and let me know how things are...
    10 months ago
    • Admin LaSann
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      Admin LaSann Mail will... I am not sure about packages
      10 months ago
    • CarCar
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      CarCar In my experience packages and mail do not follow him.
      10 months ago
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    Candace
    Candace Missing my husband and really wishing he was home at this moment.... Grrr!
    10 months ago
    • Admin.LexxC
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      Admin.LexxC Me too Candace!! 😍😢
      10 months ago
    • kkadam
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      kkadam Time will fly by its when you get to the last few months when it seems to drag.
      10 months ago
    • Forever Mrs. E.
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      Forever Mrs. E. I miss him every second of every day! :(
      10 months ago
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    Candace
    Candace Just ordered two more Story books for my husband so he and out daughter can continue to read to each other in the evenings, I love how hard he tries to be a part of our lives in every way possible, we have a video visit tomorrow for his 31St Birthday, I went to court today and my speeding ticket was dismissed since the officer was a no show, so far my day is going good! Hope all you ladies have a great day and an awesome weekend!! Stay strong!
    10 months ago
    • KNB
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      KNB Reading stories together that is so damn beautiful! definitly an Awww moment for me reading that :) Glad you have had a great day, we need and deserve more of them!
      10 months ago
    • Nancie
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      Nancie That is so neat!
      10 months ago
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    Candace
    Candace I do as much as I can for my husband but over the course of two years I've started to slack on writing letters to him, I make sure we have phone time and he wants for nothing, I understand that the letters are important but when you talk everyday like four to five times a day it gets kinda hard to write a letter when you've already talked about everything, he's annoyed and I feel bad that he feels like I don't try as hard as I use to but do any of you ladies get to the point where you don't know what to say anymore? Do you still continue to do everything you were doing in the very beginning? Don't get me wrong I love him with all my heart but geesh I feel like what I do isn't enough...
    10 months ago
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    • Valerie
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      Valerie I agree with Mamacita. My fiance loves getting pics. He feels closer to us and feels like he's out here with us.
      10 months ago
    • KNB
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      KNB I am the same well probably worse because we don't usually talk numerous times a day. Every now and then one of us will point out to the other that we don't write nearly as often anymore and we will try and write more but it just winds up droping off again. It's hard to keep it fresh all the time they don't do much differently and often we are so busy with home, work, kids etc we don't do much different worth writing about, and that we haven't talked about on the phone already, luckily he is really understanding of my infrequent letters and emails have made it easier for us, I can't do the 5 page letters anymore so sending a couple of paragraphs or even a few lines in an email make life a whole lot easier he still gets 'mail' and I can usually come up with even something little to be able to send. There are questionaires to do together to maybe help open up new lines of discussion that sort of thing of course I guess. I don't know what else I could suggest you try as I said I am in the same boat, once you've been doing this a bit you run out of new options. I just posted earlier that one of our recent calls was mostly about the plumbing at home lol so yeah I feel you :))
      10 months ago
    • Kelly
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      Kelly I bought a couple of inexpensive books on Amazon about relationship questions. Every letter I ask about 10 questions. He loves the questions and then hearing my answers in the next letter. Some answers are answered with a sentence and other open up whole paragraphs of conversation.
      10 months ago
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      Stine @kelly. that is a good idea!.. i started that with my mans and we always go off topic and never answered the questions..haha..and it does get old writing and having nothing to say. u dont have to write 5 pages everytime you write him though. sometimes i write my man a paragraph and mail it. sometimes i write him a few inspirational sentences and email or mail it. i googled inmate mail ideas and there was a few ideas on there to send ..he got them this week and said he felt so loved..just keeping them in your thoughts and let them you know ur thinking of them no matter how you show it,send it, email, or mail it doesnt matter...
      10 months ago
    • Candace
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      Candace Thank you Ladies!!!
      10 months ago
    • Kelly
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      Kelly I also write several letters at one time with a theme to each one. Maybe why I am proud of him or what I miss about him. Then I put a little note on the outside of the envelope that he can only read it on (insert date). He pins them to his bulletin board and has that date to look forward to. He really likes it. Sometimes it is just a few lines. Sometimes it is a full page. I don't stress about writing 5 pages or anything because I would rather write more often. I think anything to mix things up a bit is fun. Maybe start a story and then have him add to it. Keep going back and forth like that.
      10 months ago
    • KNB
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      KNB haha, god yes the 5 page letters were years ago when I actually felt like i had something interesting to say and definitly not all the time :) That was more my obviously poor way of expressing how things have changed over time. @ Candace also send cards rather than letters all the time, you don't need to find so much to write and they still feel they are getting a reasonable amount of mail :) Take care
      10 months ago
    • Valerie
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      Valerie After a few years, we all write less, he even says he can't think of much to write about, especially when we do get to talk daily. There is only so many ways and words to say I love you, I miss you, I need you, and this is not FAIR!!! So don't feel guilty, it's not easy coming up with things to write about. How about writing a sexy letter? Go to hoochymail.com. He'll love it.
      10 months ago
    • Mamacita
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      Mamacita Instead of writing letters buy a I'm thinking of you card, and include some photos of you and your children if you have any.
      10 months ago
    • Valerie
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      Valerie I agree with Mamacita. My fiance loves getting pics. He feels closer to us and feels like he's out here with us.
      10 months ago
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    Kitty
    Kitty commented on Candace's picture.
    Lovely. So sweettt
    10 months ago
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    Elsa
    Elsa commented on Candace's picture.
    that's beautiful! I also have a penpal who does beadwork !! I love this!
    10 months ago
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    Candace has accepted Mrs.Daniel Vieth24's friend request.
    10 months ago
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    Candace has accepted Lili 's friend request.
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    Eanderson
    Eanderson has accepted Candace's friend request.
    10 months ago
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    Tommie
    Tommie has accepted Candace's friend request.
    10 months ago
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    Candace
    Candace commented on Candace's picture.
    This is what my handsome husband made me for Christmas, I love it!!!
    10 months ago
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    Candace
    Candace Haven't been on here in quite some time, my husband and I have 22 months to go and everything is going good, I'll be seeing him in March again and I'm super excited about it, being 1200 miles away from him sucks but we make it thru with our video visits and phone calls, I can't wait for the day when he is home with us, his family, but for now I'm just trying to keep my head up and stay strong, I plan on getting on here more often, love ya ladies and thank you for your words of encouragement and stories, I can resonate with you all.. have a great night and a wonderful Weekend!!
    10 months ago
    • Admin.LexxC
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      Admin.LexxC Glad you're back!! Hope to see you stick around!! ☺️ March is around the corner and by the time you know it it will be time for him to come home!! GN! ☺️
      10 months ago
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    Candace
    Candace Haven't been on here in quite some time, my husband and I have 22 months to go and everything is going good, I'll be seeing him in March again and I'm super excited about it, being 1200 miles away from him sucks but we make it thru with our video visits and phone calls, I can't wait for the day when he is home with us, how family, but for now I'm just trying to keep my head up and stay strong, I plan on getting on here more often, love ya ladies and thank you for your encouragement, stories and kind words, I can resonate with you all.. have a great night and a wonderful Weekend!!
    10 months ago

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My name is Candace I'm 28 and live in New Mexico my husband is Ryan he was sentenced 5 years to life but his sentence was reduced to 3 years with good time and time already served, I'm hoping that when he gets in front of the board when three years is up he can come home, his ERD is October 19, 2018... This has been hard we've known each other since we were 12 and reconnected December 2013, at the time he had a drug addiction, we would spend hours on the phone talking and he went MIA for awhile that's when I found out he was an addict and when he finally called me four months later I decided to get him a bus ticket and he came back to Nm from Wa, he was on the run, but I convinced him that in order to start our lives together he had to turn himself in so he did, he did close to 6 months in county then the judge released him on probation but he had to do a drug treatment program, he spent three months in treatment and started his probation, he was doing good then he got a probation violation and was sent in front of the judge and at that point sent to prison to serve out the rest of his time, it has been hard and has taken alot of patience and understanding and alot of communication to keep this going, we were married on June 5, 2015 and I never imagined the life we have right now but this is only temporary and I know that we'll make it through this, I love this man he has been clean since he went back to Wa in April 2014 and I'm very proud of him, I'm grateful to have found this site.. for a while there I thought I would lose my mind cause no one else around me understands, I have a 7 year old daughter and she's my world, I can't wait til the day my husband is home and we can build an amazing future together as a family, thank you ladies for all your support and kind words!!!

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