T Marie

T Marie

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It really hurt. It said 60 min than 30 min...he kept talking to dude til the phone hung up. I am trying so hard to not cry, but it hurt so bad. Next time be calls, I'm just not going to answer it and for real, I know it is over between us and I'm just go
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    T Marie
    T Marie It really hurt. It said 60 min than 30 min...he kept talking to dude til the phone hung up. I am trying so hard to not cry, but it hurt so bad. Next time be calls, I'm just not going to answer it and for real, I know it is over between us and I'm just going to put it out there and keep it moving because it is definitely obvious that he doesn't want to be with me. He's really mad at me instead of trying to understand.
    1 year ago
    • AnthonysGirl32
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      AnthonysGirl32 Hey T Marie!!!!!! I'm back and I've missed all your craziness........ How are you doing?
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    T Marie
    T Marie I'm so blown. I haven't talked to Bryan since last week or so because he stopped calling me after I couldn't send him money from my taxes due to our situation. Then to make matters worse, my son told him I am smoking cigarettes again and Bryan doesn't want me to be smoking and usually I barely ever smoke, but I have been under so much stress. He was like contact me when you stop smoking. Then finally he called me right now. Asked the boys how they were and said he needed me to call someone. I was like can I tell you something and he was like, if it isn't going to take long. I said it wasn't and told him our current situation of once again living transition. He acted like he didn't care and when be gets off the line with one person, he is like call this person. He has only called me so I can just be a three way connect for him. I asked him several times if we could talk and he ignored me. I feel like it is over between us and he is now on this FY, but I still need you as my outside connect with my peoples. I'm so blown. I'm writing all this while he is kicking it with his homeboy. SMH. I'm like why did I even answer his call. Ugh, not sure what to do or not do, but I'm not feeling all of this on the real: (
    1 year ago
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    Lo16602
    Lo16602 commented on T Marie's wall:
    Checking on you T, I know you have had a rough few days. Praying you are doing better!
    1 year ago
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    T Marie
    T Marie So he just called. He just wanted me to do three way so he could talk to his people's and asked how I was doing and how the boys were doing. I didn't do much talking because I am depressed. I asked how he was doing and he said I already know and he is tired of being put on the back burner and he's not going to do that anymore. He was like if you have nothing to say, let's get off the phone. I was like I'm always talking so talk to me. He said he had nothing to say so we should get off the phone. I felt so disconnected from him. I just didn't know what to say.
    1 year ago
    • tommie
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      tommie Hey T Marie, sorry you're having a bad day, but the best thing for you to do, is to write or email to him and explain to him how your days and nights been okay, ever since Deryck has been gone, our communication has gotten so much better seeing that he wasn't the one to open up to anyone ever since I've been in his life, and now we can talk for 10 xs a day and I love it, we've laughed and cried and shared our deepest secrets, thoughts everything, most times our convos are always pleasant, arousing, and then times they weren't good, bc thoughts of me wanting to give up. but I haven't had those in a while bc he'll be home this November, so why give up now?? But anyways sounds like you all need to sit down and talk things through, I mean how else are going to get through your partner if no one communicates, if you all are like this now, being separated, what's it going to be like when you all are together, something has to give, don't you think?? So think and pray about it, and most of all good luck and keep us all posted okay, love ya girl.. Tommie
      1 year ago
    • Shygirl4joker13Forever
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      Shygirl4joker13Forever I agree , my man was the same way when he went in but we are so close and our band is amazing. I sure do love my baby and can't wait for the end of june to get here
      1 year ago
    • HisSunshine85
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      HisSunshine85 sounds like u guys need to have a good long talk. can u visit soon?
      1 year ago
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    T Marie
    T Marie It's been really tough these past two weeks. Bryan has been mad at me because I have boys money, brought a car that we desperately needed and paid bills that left me totally broke. He wanted me to send him money when I got my taxes which I did plan to do, but some reason never got around to it. He also wanted the official transcript which I couldn't pay the balance at the time. I haven't heard from him since. I don't know what to think or what to do. He knows we are currently in tranistion between a hotel and not living in shelter until I find housing. So it has been financially challenging not to mention that my Maryland tax return has not been received because I got caught up in the audit. I ended up taking the ring off my finger because I feel like it it over between us. I don't know what to think, feel, or do.Ugh...
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    • Jen
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      Jen My best suggestion, write him a letter and tell him how it is. If he can't accept that you aren't his number one priority, that you have a life that is completely turned upside down with children on the outside. You guys have had your share of ups and downs, be firm and be strong for yourself, xoxo
      1 year ago
    • Cindy68
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      Cindy68 They forget sometimes that we are doing our own kind of time out here honey. I've toldy hubby that while his basic needs are taken care of, I'm out here floundering trying to hang on to what we have. I think sometimes they need a reality check. That's just my opinion hun. I will pray he comes around. Hugs.
      1 year ago
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      Arron's girl i can sympathize with you, not the same situation but its like he expects me to only care for his needs only. like i don't spend every waking moment thinking about him and the situation we are in. he asks me to call his lawyer and get an answer, so i'm calling at least three or four times in a day and when i get no answer back my boyfriend is so upset like as if i didn't do anything for him. not to mention i'm going to school and working full time and living life on life terms. he has all day to sit and think and obsess over certain things so i see why he could get mad but cindy is right he needs to realize that you are out here living life and doing the best you can. i wouldn't feel so hard on myself about it, give him some time hopefully he'll just realize he was over reacting.
      1 year ago
    • Jen
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      Jen My best suggestion, write him a letter and tell him how it is. If he can't accept that you aren't his number one priority, that you have a life that is completely turned upside down with children on the outside. You guys have had your share of ups and downs, be firm and be strong for yourself, xoxo
      1 year ago
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    T Marie
    T Marie The place where I'm getting my car is close to him. I told him that I would visit him, but now it depends on how my oldest son is feeling because he stayed home from school because he is sick. And I know how I am. I maybe skip the visit and take my son right to the doctor's.
    1 year ago
    • Jo
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      Jo Sometimes as much as it sucks, we have to take care of our "responsibilities" before we get our "fun". Hope your son is feeling better soon!
      1 year ago
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    T Marie
    T Marie I talked to my man tonight and he feels like I am putting him last in regards to sending him some of my tax money. I broke some off to my boys immediately after I cashed my check. I've been extremely busy with our living situation (transition) and getting a vehicle because we really need one. The pharmacy giving my wrong dosage and ended up in the ER. So daily living has been very challenging. Not to mention in and out of therapy appointment for my boys. Plus all boys in basketball (practices and games) football practice started this weekend with my oldest son. I told him that I already planned to send him money, but I would do so when things calmed down because its been rough. He feels like I'm putting him last. Not putting him into the equation of our family. I don't want him think that or feel that way because it's not like that. He keeps asking me how much am I going to send him and I'm like I don't know yet, but I will send some money to him. I'm not used to him pressing me for money. Quite frankly, never asks me for money. Am I wrong? I feel bad cause I should have just sent some money to him ad soon as I cashed my check, but life got the best of me and he doesn't understand that. I just don't like this feeling. I literally got my check like 4 days ago. I'm just blown on how he is acting and feeling. I don't want him to feel like he is not here with us when he is. Did anyone else have a similar situation?
    1 year ago
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    • JoJo Matthews
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      JoJo Matthews For one you have done the right thing, two I would explain he is in prison and while it sucks his basic needs are taken care of. It may suck but he has a roof over his head and is given meals. YOU and your children come first. I don't wanna speak out of lack of knowledge of your situation but I'm sure he put himself where he is by making poor decisions. Never ever feel guilty for taking care of yourself and children. If he can't understand that then I would step back for awhile and let him think about his behavior.
      1 year ago
    • Ro ❤ CoFounder/President
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      Ro ❤ CoFounder/President you are absolutely not wrong. In fact, you're very RIGHT for handling the situation the way you did. Your NEVER wrong for putting your needs and the needs of your kids first. I'm extremely proud of you for handling it the way that you did. Your husband can handle himself in there until you can get some extra cash to send in. Don't feel guilty or beat yourself up for your decision.
      1 year ago
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      T Marie Thank you so much Ro! I shouldn't feel guilty for not putting him first. It's like his actions were so childish and selfish which is normally the opposite of him. My kids have to come first as well as my health because if I'm not well, I can't be there for anyone. I feel better now. Thanks again!
      1 year ago
    • Jen
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      Jen I completely agree T, I'm struggling myself to make sure everything on the outside is taken care of. I try to budget some for him, but if I can't, I can't. You are not wrong, we need to take care of ourselves first. xoxo
      1 year ago
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      T Marie Thanks Jen. That is exactly what I was saying. I tried to explain that to him. I was like after I get the vehicle and our billd paid, as well as having enough money for a hotel while we are in home transition. Then I will see what I can send him. He was like you didn't do that for the boys and you, but not me. i was like because they were right there when I cashed the check. i promised that I would give boys their own money to teach them about money as I said I would so Jon got 60 because he is 6 (for example) He was like so I'm not there. I was like no you are here with us, but I got to make sure all is straight on our end. He wasn't understanding that. Last year he got mad at me cause I sent him some money, but he thought I was going to send him $300 like I did before and he just expects that every year as he feels he deserves that for being in my boys life. I'm like he really doesn't need that much and I'll send what I can when I can. xoxo
      1 year ago
    • JoJo Matthews
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      JoJo Matthews For one you have done the right thing, two I would explain he is in prison and while it sucks his basic needs are taken care of. It may suck but he has a roof over his head and is given meals. YOU and your children come first. I don't wanna speak out of lack of knowledge of your situation but I'm sure he put himself where he is by making poor decisions. Never ever feel guilty for taking care of yourself and children. If he can't understand that then I would step back for awhile and let him think about his behavior.
      1 year ago
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    T Marie His babes is handling business! I called the health department where my love's prison is located and put in my complaints about the facility not running their kitchen for the year and the water is no longer clean. It's like sewage water. She informed me that she felt that something was going on at that facility and she gave me the contact person over that facility who knows what is going on there. In her records it states that their was flooding...some issues with their plumbing. She is forwarding my complaint to his secretaries as well as passing my contact info to him because he will be in the office tomorrow. This is a start to hopefully correcting the problems.
    1 year ago
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    • T Marie
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      T Marie Thanks Samie. That is so true! Thank you Ro! @Gtifeliz Yes in deed. The kitchen was the same as your man's facility. I spoke to one who does the inspections and he said that it definitely shouldn't take the rest of the year to finish up like they told all the inmates. I hope he checked further into everything. We'll see....
      1 year ago
    • Samie
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      Samie This is a Great move Sis......My Husband always say's "Closed Mouth don't get Fed" we Must speek up in a Respectful way
      1 year ago
    • Ro ❤ CoFounder/President
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      Ro ❤ CoFounder/President Good for you for taking a stand for what is right.
      1 year ago
    • Grifeliz
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      Grifeliz I should do that for where my baby is but they have health inspections that they usually fail but no one shuts em down. I dont understand why unless it is some kind of inside job. The kitchen there is full of roaches and mice.
      1 year ago
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      T Marie Thanks Samie. That is so true! Thank you Ro! @Gtifeliz Yes in deed. The kitchen was the same as your man's facility. I spoke to one who does the inspections and he said that it definitely shouldn't take the rest of the year to finish up like they told all the inmates. I hope he checked further into everything. We'll see....
      1 year ago
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    T Marie
    T Marie I'm beyond happy!!! I just called the Public Defender's office and they have taken my baby's case for the Appellate Court. They already filed for a brief extension for June 2016. He will be assigned an attorney by May 2016. The argument will be held in September 2016 and they already sent him an acceptance letter on 2/12/16. I can't wait for my honey to call so I can give him all the good news. He is going to be soo happy!!!!
    1 year ago
    • Samie
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      Samie This is Great Sis, wow that's going to be a Sweet call xoxo
      1 year ago
    • T Marie
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      T Marie Thank you! Yes, we will be so free from stress. Whew!
      1 year ago
    • Squeek
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      Squeek Yay! That's fantastic!
      1 year ago
    • HisSunshine85
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      HisSunshine85 yay!!!
      1 year ago
    • Jen
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      Jen Great news!
      1 year ago
    • T Marie
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      T Marie Thanks guys!!!
      1 year ago
    • Ro ❤ CoFounder/President
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      Ro ❤ CoFounder/President Nice. Congratulations hon
      1 year ago
    • Caity
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      Caity This is great news!!
      1 year ago
    • T Marie
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      T Marie Thank you;)
      1 year ago
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    T Marie
    T Marie I can't wait for him to call tomorrow. I can't wait to tell him how proud of him that Jordan found a very nice Kindle yesterday that didn't have a password to it. My love told him to figure out a way to get it back to whoever it belongs to. Jordan went on the facebook on the kindle and wrote a post. Immediately the owner contacted us and we went to his Job and brought it back to a teenage boy. I'm so proud of Jordan! I know Pooh will be too:)
    1 year ago
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    T Marie
    T Marie I'm so blown! My love called tonight and Jeremiah was reading his book from school and he accidentally touched my cell screen and the phone hung up. He can't call back till tomorrow:( I can't wait for him to call tomorrow. I already miss him so much!
    1 year ago
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    T Marie
    T Marie commented on T Marie's picture.
    Awe, thank you;)
    1 year ago
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    MISSJLH
    MISSJLH commented on T Marie's picture.
    How SWEET!
    1 year ago

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Loving a man in prison is not new to me whatsoever. I met my fiance, Bryan right after he went into prison through a good friend of ours back when I was a teen. We were involved for a few years. I never met him in person. We only communicated by phone and letters. He was my best friend, love, soul mate, everything to me. My love is serving a life sentence with parole on a wrongful conviction and already has done 20 years of it.

Somehow we lost contact as I got older and time moved on. We were apart for 15 years. In 2012, I saw a card he sent me back when I was a teen. I started looking for him and found him incarcerated at a prison that was 45 minutes to 1 hour from me. I wrote him and we rebuilt our friendship for 2 years and on 2/12/2014 we made a commitment to be in a relationship.

On his birthday that same year, I met him for the first time in-person and he got on his knees during photos and asked me to marry him. I said yes. We were engaged for one year.

After our 8 month break up, I'm excited to say that we started our new year, January 1,2016 by renewing our engagement.

He is my one and only best friend. I love him with all my heart, body, and soul.

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  • Lo16602
    by Lo16602 1 year ago
    Checking on you T, I know you have had a rough few days. Praying you are doing better!
  • HisSunshine85
    by HisSunshine85 1 year ago
    Im doing ok. Just hoping this lockdown ends soon so trying to stay busy.
  • HisSunshine85
    by HisSunshine85 1 year ago
    Hey girl! Hope all is well!
  • HisSunshine85
    by HisSunshine85 1 year ago
    Ours was good. Just hung out at home. Babe said this is our year lol
  • HisSunshine85
    by HisSunshine85 1 year ago
    Hey girl! Hope things are going good and u guys had a nice new years!
  • Misty
    by Misty 2 years ago
    Hi Marie! I know there's a little glitch with the photos. I always download them onto my computer and use a program (picmonkey works well) to make sure they're vertical then upload them to the site. There might be an easier way but I haven't figured it out yet :)