DownersLady

DownersLady

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It's been a while since I been on here and I am really missing my husband tonight... We've grown so much together and overcome so much I love & miss him so much more and more each day.. Time is going by so fast and I can't catch up I'm still stuck in t
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    Aj
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    DownersLady commented on DownersLady's picture.
    Had my personalized visit bag mad by true blue stationary she does custom cards envelopes calendars sationary and much more! I love how my bag came out...
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    It's the little things he does like draw cards like these ones and sends them to our boys so they can give them to me ... It means everything
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    DownersLady It's been a while since I been on here and I am really missing my husband tonight... We've grown so much together and overcome so much I love & miss him so much more and more each day.. Time is going by so fast and I can't catch up I'm still stuck in the moment he left me... It will be 3 years in 9days (Sept 11, 2013) We've always been inseparable each year we've made progress as individuals, but most importantly, as a couple. He is the reason for my happy days & the comfort in my sad ones... He cheers my successes and encourages me in my failures.. Knowing we have each other in the good but most of all in the bad is what has made our love stronger. Not to brag but I think we are really cute together hahaha!! Love him forever....
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      Juke thats awesome, im glad to hear that your are doing good. :)
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      DownersLady Thank you Juke
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      Princess DownersLady how can I get sum personalized items that sounds so cool
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      DownersLady If you have an Instagram you can find her under true blue stationary or on Facebook. There are a lot of sites to order from but hers are so worth the price good quality items
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    DownersLady Not sure how to feel he tells me he wouldn't be mad at me if I managed to move on.. That hurts my heart!! All I have ever wanted was him with me he makes me complete. He tells me I deserve better but really? Is this a test ? Or does he love me that much to set me free?? But I don't want to be free I want him ! Is that crazy of me or is this term taking a beating on my heart..
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    • Squeek
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      Squeek We've gone through that at times. It's really hard on both sides of the fence, and prison can really do a number on a man's ego. Just be strong, and he'll see that you're here to stay and he'll get through this phase.
      1 year ago
    • Nicole
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      Nicole I'm sure there's a good explanation the other ladies can give, perhaps they've faced a similar thing. Just wanted to say that I'm sorry you are having to deal with this.
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    • JoJo Matthews
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      JoJo Matthews It's a phase they can go through, he's probably feeling guilty for being where he is and leaving you alone. Mine tried it in the very beginning it took some time but I have him convinced finally that I'm not going anywhere. Just keep doing all that you do for ion. Reassure him you aren't going anywhere and over time he will realize it. Personally when they do this I feel like they understand a little more how hard this is for us and they don't want us to go through hard times especially caused by them.
      1 year ago
    • AnthonysGirl32
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      AnthonysGirl32 Definitely a phase, I've dealt with the same thing. They get aggregated, upset at the situation and feel like they're holding us back. Assure him you love him, you're in this and loving him will stop no matter where he is. He will soon see he didn't Wang you to move on and appreciate that you didn't move on.
      1 year ago
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      Squeek We've gone through that at times. It's really hard on both sides of the fence, and prison can really do a number on a man's ego. Just be strong, and he'll see that you're here to stay and he'll get through this phase.
      1 year ago
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    DownersLady Bummed I had a visit planned for tomorrow and now I find out I have to work this Saturday
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      Jo Man! What a bummer! Can you go on your next day off?
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    • DownersLady
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      DownersLady I get one Saturday off a month. I can only visit Saturday or Thursday . .. This will make me call off call out sick I hate when my boss messes with my schedule and I have to miss my visit
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      DownersLady It's always the last Sat too. So now I have to wait until end of march
      1 year ago
    • Shygirl4joker13Forever
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      Shygirl4joker13Forever so sorry girl, that's a total bummer
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    DownersLady
    DownersLady Got my new car!!!! And can't wait to drive it to our visit next Saturday.... Just got my daily phone call, told my husband and my babe was super proud and excited for me and our boys!!! It's times like this that make feel so gooooood!!!! I am doing this alone me and our 3 boys and the words that my man tells me when he hears all that I am doing and all by myself.. He tells me he is beyond proud of me! And that he couldnt ask for a better mother for his sons!!!!! Let me tell you ladies That mess tears me up! and means everything....
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    • T Marie
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      T Marie Congrats on the car. I told myself that when my taxes come, the first thing I'm going to do is buy a vehicle. I am a single mother with three boys so I definitely feel you on everything. Stay strong as you already are:)
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      T Marie Without having a vehicle, it is so hard for me to see my love. We go months without seeing each other, but when I get my whip, I plan to see him every visit. It will definitely be refreshing.
      1 year ago

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Hello, I am new to this site but have been following on FB & instagram for some time now.. it's comforting to know that this is a place where I can always go & find tremendous support from fellow prisons wives... I am here to share my journey & give support as well!! Thanks!
I married my soulmate, I was blessed to have found my greatest love , together we have 3 boys. Family is everything and together we stay tough , he is my ROCk! Because of him i remain strong.. We live in Cali but i am willing to make the move if need be while my husbands gets ready to do his fed time...so we can be near my beloved. We always keeping love in our hearts I continue to wait for the day my king comes home... This journey aint easy definitely not for the weak at heart... The system won't win. They can break down our walls but not our foundation..We got this! Ride or die till the wheels fall off that's how strong my love is....never gonna give you up!

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  • Ro ❤ CoFounder/President
    Thank you so much for your sweet post and kind words on my wall. Totally made me smile. I can't tell you how much it warms my heart knowing that I can support beautiful ladies like you through this journey. YOU'RE the one that is strong, I'm just here to remind you. ;-)
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    by DownersLady 1 year ago
    Just wanted to share.... So thankful for this site... It's going to be along journey for us even so I know I can get through and all you ladies will definitely make this ride that more easier.... Thank you to you all..
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    by DownersLady 1 year ago
    Missing him like crazy
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    by Samie 1 year ago
    Love your Story,My Husband and I Live by that quote "The System Wont Win "