Bre

Bre

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When you know this person is your soul mate and everyone questions you as to why that is the case. I could explain myself but I don't feel that its necessary. I just know he is the one person that makes me happy no matter what and things just feel comple

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    Bre
    Bre When you know this person is your soul mate and everyone questions you as to why that is the case. I could explain myself but I don't feel that its necessary. I just know he is the one person that makes me happy no matter what and things just feel completely right with him. I know we all have a hard time this time of the year with our loved ones away from us but I find it even more difficult bc its the holidays and your supposed to spend it with your family. The only problem is I feel worse when I am around my family bc they don't know what I am going threw at all with Tyler being gone.
    19 days ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Do you feel worse because you have to pretend to be happy or because you want to talk to them about him but can't?
      18 days ago
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    Amanda has accepted Bre 's friend request.
    3 months ago
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    4 months ago
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    8 months ago
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    Bre
    Bre I am having a hard time right now. I broke the trust with Tyler a little bit ago and we are trying to repair things and move forward. I got a letter from him last night saying a good friend of his is going threw a divorce. Her name is Jaren and he said he knows her husband too. He asked me to get Jaren's address so he can write her and her phone number from his sister. So I texted his sister and told her all this stuff and if you guys don't follow my story his sister and his mother don't like me at all. She gave me her phone number which I wrote Tyler a letter today with Jaren's number in it and his sister said I will have to get the address and I will write my brother a letter with her address. Tyler said she needs support for her and her kids but why on earth is that your job? I have been with Tyler a little over a year and a half and I have known him since 2014 and I never knew this chick existed. He said he wont ever try to get me back for the things I have done but it kind of feels like that's what he is doing. I have no idea what to do.
    9 months ago
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    • Mark's Angel
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      Mark's Angel I love Maya Angelou's quotes. I agree with all the other comments.. I'm a poker player and there's a saying on poker that applies to life situations as well... "You gotta know when to hold them and know when to fold them"
      9 months ago
    • Supawoman
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      Supawoman Hi Bre...I, myself, think that was a very bad idea. Your relationship is still fresh and since you never heard of this chic b4, how do you even know if the divorce is even true. Good luck to you, I hope it gets better before it gets worst.
      9 months ago
    • QueenSuga
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      QueenSuga very poor taste,my husband writes 2 women mostly me and his mother.he wouldnt even propose no bs like that to me.i think its flat out disrespect for him to write and "try"to be there for another woman.he needs to worry about you.i wouldnt have inquired about her number or address your asking for trouble.
      9 months ago
    • Bre
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      Bre I'm not going to stop him if he wants her that's cool but I think it's messed up he is doing this. That letter has me so stressed out. He's going to be her support when I'm the one that needs him. That's what breaks my heart and hurts the most. I just don't even know what to do. I'm never going to not help him so if he wants her address and number I'll give it to him it's just painful. I don't even know what to say when he does write me back. Should I even respond to his letter? Like if she's the one your going to support I clearly don't mean shit to him right?
      9 months ago
    • Supawoman
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      Supawoman I agree. If he loves you and wants to be with you he wouldn't need another woman "just in case". His sister knew what she was doing giving it to you. You're putting yourself through this..you offered to do it so if you're stressed it because you didn't say no. That's my comments. Good luck!
      9 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hey Bre-- It's like this, a man feel or locked up is only gonna do what you allow him to, if he's reaching out to this other woman and not having any regards to your feelings, why are you torturing yourself?? Me, personally, I'd let that go, yeah it's gonna hurt for a while but not for long, and as I said so many times before everyone adjusts and grieves differently women/men so you have to do what's best for you, no one hear has a right to judge, but you'll never have peace and happiness until you let go of what's hurting you. There's a saying of what Dr. Maya Angelou said, "If someone shows you who they are, believe them". So he's showing you who and what kind of man, person he is, so believe that okay, and if someone wants to walk out your life, LET THEM GO!!! so God can prepare the man who's supposed to be in your life, and I'm sure you have other options, so if those options are still there, slowly take advantage of them, but only when you're completely healed and not when you're lonely, it's a huge difference, having male friends are one thing, but boundaries has to be respected at all times and that's one thing this man hasn't shown to you okay. Keep your head up and know we're here for you and to help you stay strong. Love, Tommie~~~.
      9 months ago
    • Mark's Angel
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      Mark's Angel I love Maya Angelou's quotes. I agree with all the other comments.. I'm a poker player and there's a saying on poker that applies to life situations as well... "You gotta know when to hold them and know when to fold them"
      9 months ago
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    9 months ago
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    Bre
    Bre When you get a good letter and a bad one all wrapped up in one... Then he still signs it like he always does with love your future husband. Hope we are still ok and on the same page with each other. Anyone else ever get confusing letters like this? Its like conflicting emotions all in the same letter. And they think we are the complicated ones lol yeah right!
    9 months ago
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    Allison84
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    9 months ago
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    Bre
    Bre Just wondering if anyone on here is from St. Louis? I live about 45 mins away from STL and thought it might help to have a support group of people close to me.
    9 months ago
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    Bre
    Bre Having a hard time right now. Tyler is in the hole and I haven't gotten a letter from him in a week. I'm losing my mind. Not hearing from him stresses me out so badly.
    9 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie It's okay, it's gonna be days like these, not being able to hear from him, I used to go through that, and two find something to keep yourself occupied, you may not think so, but staying and keeping yourself busy, makes the time go by so much faster. And lastly don't dwell on it, I know it's not easy, and hard to deal with at times, but you can do it, okay. Trust me, I've had to deal with it for 4.5 yrs and it wasn't and hasn't been an easy thing to deal with, so when I came across this website, this has been the best support group thus far. Don't forget there's women on here who's going and has been in your shoes and know the feeling, so hang in there love and you'll be okay as time goes by. Love ya girl, Tommie~~~.
      9 months ago
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    Supawoman
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    10 months ago
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    Bre
    Bre Tyler finally received his date from the parole board. He is coming home October 2017!!! I am so happy but I honestly still don't believe it until it happens.
    10 months ago
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    • Bre
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      Bre Thank you guys for all the support. I have been waiting for years for him to come home. I know we all wait a long time for our men to come home.
      10 months ago
    •  Admin Cate
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      Admin Cate Congratulations, how exciting!!
      10 months ago
    • Carma
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      Carma Yay!! Fantastic news!!
      10 months ago
    • Shelley
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      Shelley Awesome
      10 months ago
    • TagsGirl82
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      TagsGirl82 Congratulations!!!! So happy for you both!
      10 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Oh my goodness!!! SO EXCITING!!! Congrats!! Time to start planning for a welcoming home
      10 months ago
    • Mark's Angel
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      Mark's Angel AWESOME NEWS!!!! So Happy for you two!!! Congrats!
      10 months ago
    • kkadam
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      kkadam THAT IS WONDERFUL NEW!!!!! I KNOW YOU BOTH IS EXCITED AS EVER
      10 months ago
    • Bre
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      Bre Thank you guys for all the support. I have been waiting for years for him to come home. I know we all wait a long time for our men to come home.
      10 months ago
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    Bre
    Bre Anyone know a round about way at trying to get a parole board decision back? Tyler is in the hole so I cant get the answer from him. I'm not sure if the decision has been made by the parole board people yet. When I call the prison they say they cant tell me anything because I am not his family member. They also wont tell me anything that is going on with Tyler at all because he is why I left my job there. I forgot to mention I am in Missouri. I didn't know if there is a website I don't know about to check on it.
    10 months ago
    • Admin LaSann
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      Admin LaSann When will I get the results of a parole hearing? It normally takes the Board 8-12 weeks to make a decision. If you are registered with MOVANS you will be notified as soon as the decision is entered in the computer.
      10 months ago
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    10 months ago
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    Bre
    Bre I haven't heard from Tyler since Monday and not getting his phone calls freaks me out. He is very good at calling me every single day when he is out of the hole that is. I just feel like something is wrong like he is back in the hole or something else happened. I worry and think the worst when I don't get a phone call like is he mad? But then I think our last conversation went really well he shouldn't have anything to be mad about. I just want to know he is ok. I wrote him a letter but our letters take ten days for them to reach the other person. I am not allowed to visit him so phone calls are the fastest most effective way for us to communicate with each other. I feel like once the calls stop part of me falls apart until I hear his voice again. Any one else feel the same was as I do?
    11 months ago
    • Forever Mrs. E.
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      Forever Mrs. E. Yes I feel the same way too but at the same time sometimes if they get in trouble for using the phone to much they get their phone privileges taken away for some time also. Depends on who's running the floor. My fiancé was put in medical isolation for six days and I had no idea. They thought he caught MIRSA and you're not allowed to use the phone. I totally freaked out. I thought something awful happened but then he called after he got out. I try to not worry so much. Just try to stay busy and occupied. He'll call. Hang in there. Xx
      11 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie And also Bre, they may be on lock down, for instance, another inmate may have gotten into a fight with another inmate, so he may not be him, it may be whoever is working on that floor, and/or other inmates may have done something to fix it where he couldn't call you. Trust me on this, bc I've seen this happened to my baby b4 he got released and I put up with that for 4.5 yrs, Ikr it's a pain in the ass, but in the meantime, don't overwhelm yourself, when you least expect it, he'll call you okay. Hang in there, aight. Love, Tommie.
      11 months ago

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I was a CO in a prison when I discovered the love of my life was also there. I was a CO and he was one of the Offenders I was with everyday. He was in my housing unit which was ad-seg (the hole). I worked at the prison for about two years and I left my dream job to be with him. I wouldn't change my decision for anything. I loved my job but I love him way more. He is my entire world. I am not allowed visits with him because I am a former employee and the prison system says I am a threat to the institution. The next time I will be able to see him is when he comes home. He is serving a 10 year sentence. I get phone calls and letters from him but it is just not the same as seeing his face and being able to be there with him physically. The last time I seen him was December 20, 2015. It has almost been a year since I have seen his face and witnessed him smile. I just pray the love of my life comes home soon.

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