Nik

Nik

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Okay lady's here goes I have to vent and I finally found a web site with other woman who's husbands sons brothers or boyfriends are away as mine is. I'll start at the beginning my fiancee and I met in 6th grade he was my middle school crush we dated on
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    Nik Okay lady's here goes I have to vent and I finally found a web site with other woman who's husbands sons brothers or boyfriends are away as mine is. I'll start at the beginning my fiancee and I met in 6th grade he was my middle school crush we dated on and off up through my middle teens drifted apart like many young couples do well we reconnected when I was 17 had a little fling once again then drifted apart due to his drug use and bad boy ways persay. Unfortunately when we were 19 he found himself so wrapped up in the drug game and "bad boy" ways he landed himself in prison for a very long time. At 19 my middle school/high school crush the boy I loved was gone locked away for 20 years. We have kept in contact through out his time and have decided we want to have a future together and have set many goals for ourselves. After 20 long years and being locked up his whole young adult life he has no concept of having a real adult relationship and treats me at times as if we were still in middle school. As the clock ticks down to the last 70 days of his 20year sentence I find he is getting very irritable with EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. He picks fights with me and has started being very rude every time we talk. I reassure him every day and night how much I love him and want to spend my life with him. God has put us back together again for a reason and I believe with everybit of my soul he is my soul mate. I just don't know what else to do I feel like we are once again drifting apart due to his actions. At one point I never had a doubt we would spend our lives together and now I question everything! I feel nothing I say or do is good enough anymore! Sad and venting to anyone one that may be able to help me get through these last 2months
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    • Nik
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      Nik All he keeps telling me is things will be different he is just the way he is now because he can't see anything. Space after 20 years I feel would be the last thing that would be good.
      1 year ago
    • Sarah Jane
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      Sarah Jane Just keep loving him and stay strong - you've made it this far! Maybe he's just scared/nervous/insecure about finally being back out in the world after spending his adult life locked up.
      1 year ago
    • Nik
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      Nik Thank you and I know he is scared even though he puts on his "hard front" I so nervous for him so much has changed the past 20 years out the outside. Does anyone have any tips on where to start when he is released as far as getting back into the realization of being free? Are there programs I should look into maybe to help him cope he was 19 when he was locked up he is being released soon after his 37 birthday!
      1 year ago
    • Bee_ran_D
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      Bee_ran_D I wish I could say it'll be easier when he gets out. My man has been out a month now and I don't even know if he's my man anymore. He's pulled away and I've gone crazy now we're giving each other space. The best advice I can give is try to be patient and give him space. I didn't do that.
      1 year ago
    • Nik
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      Nik All he keeps telling me is things will be different he is just the way he is now because he can't see anything. Space after 20 years I feel would be the last thing that would be good.
      1 year ago
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    • Ashley
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      Ashley Welcome Hun!
      1 year ago
    • Nik
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      Nik Thank you
      1 year ago

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