Tommie

Tommie

42 years old
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Hey ladies, how's everyone tonight?? We're good here, and it's been a beautiful day, today and yesterday as well and loving my days off, lol.. Just checking on you all and hoping you all are okay, we're not cooking anything tonight, so it's ordered food,

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    Tommie Hey ladies, how's everyone tonight?? We're good here, and it's been a beautiful day, today and yesterday as well and loving my days off, lol.. Just checking on you all and hoping you all are okay, we're not cooking anything tonight, so it's ordered food, pizza (for the kids) and chinese food (for us) and me?? I'm relaxing, my hubby should be doing the same thing but he always find something to do, whether it be shopping, cooking, doing laundry, and cleaning, so we're chillaxin for now, ya know, and earlier I had a an appointment and came home, had a bite to eat, and hubby and I took a nap till the kids got home from school, so we're enjoying our Wednesday evening and the house too, so everything is falling into place at the right time, but ladies sorry for short post, but gonna get off of here and spend time with the hubby and enjoy the remaining of our evening together, Love ya ladies, Love always, Tommie~~~.
    20 days ago
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    BEAUTIFUL!!!!! pic..
    21 days ago
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    Tommie Hey ladies how's everyone doing today??? Good, I hope. Well it's cloudy and 59 degrees here in Roanoke, VA ikr, smh, and last week, exact it was cold and snowing and now today cloudy and feels like springtime. And it's my off today, and tomorrow and looking to get some things done, before Wednesday-Friday, and off this coming Saturday and Sunday and work next wk Monday and off again Tuesday and Wednesday. Anyways, it'll be my love and 6 yr anniversary the day we met and we've been married for nearly two yrs November 29, 2016 the morning of his release which was November 28, 2016, our marriage isn't always easy to deal with at times, but deep down I wouldn't trade it for the world, and I'm happy and content and I must say I'm in a much better position from where the kids and I came from and that was Hell to say the least. I am sorry for the short post and all, but, I wanted to dropped by and say, "hey' and hope you all enjoy the rest of your day today, Love always, Tommie~~~.
    29 days ago
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    Tommie Hey ladies, how's everyone doing today?? We're good, off today and tomorrow and just now made us all brunch, and now settling down and gonna take a nap and possibly cook dinner for us tonight. In the meantime, wanna update you all on a few things, my husband's trip to Charleston, WVA was a success, but, still may have to go to Norfolk, VA for one last time to get some more paperwork done so he can obtain his state ID and find work, and me?? I'm just being patient and helping him along the way, ya know, it isn't always easy to deal with at times, and sometimes past lives, on both of parts and poor choices, led to bad decisions ya know and through God he has been helping us to see it through. In in the next 3 wks or so, it'll be 6 yrs of us knowing each other and we've been through every storm possible and someway somehow we've managed to enjoy seeing a rainbow. Okay enough with the parody of our story, lol, you ladies have a good day, kids didn't have school bc of the weather and all and 50/50 chance of them having it tomorrow, it's so cloudy and dreary here like someone died ya know, to me, this my cuddling up, sleeping day, okay.. Well I thought I'd dropped by and say "hey' to each and everyone of you and hope you all have a great day okay. Love always, Tommie~~~.
    1 month ago
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      Kitty Good to hear from you Tommie. Wishing you and your family all the best
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      Linda Hey hey how are y'all, sending my love. Hope your well
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    Tommie Hey ladies, and Merry Xmas to you all, brrr, it's cold here in Roanoke, VA, no, no snow as of yet, thank God, had went in to work and my handsome hubby is fast asleep right now and it's not 10 pm yet, and thank God I'm off tomorrow, body is sore from head to toe and he's completely worn out, he's made the Xmas dinner which was good but we still missed a few items, (rolls, gravy, and dressing) but it's okay and no tree, and presents, bc financially we couldn't afford it and we're having a late one later on in the coming yr, and today marks my mother in law's bday, yep she would've been 77 yrs old and she passed on December 15, 2012 exactly 10 days b4 her bday on Xmas so he was feeling sad about it, which I don't blame him bc, I lost my mom too 16 yrs ago one wk after my 26th bday September 18, 2001 and my bday is September 11th, ikr smh. But anyways, ladies, I didn't get the job I applied and interviewed for, it was giving to someone with more experience, so I look at it as a sign God may have bigger plans for me, ya know. But, still waiting on my test results, and hopefully those will be in the mail tomorrow, if not Monday, and I tell ya, this yr has flown right on by and I hope you all have a great yr as well. Does it get better waiting on your loved ones? Yes, it does, bc this is test of your love, and loyalty to him, to prove if you really, truly love him like you say you do. Now, if he decides to act brand new and forgets who has his back, when no one else does, that, decision, is on you, no one else, and no one else here or on the outside has a right to voice their opinions as to what you should, or shouldn't do, it's your choice, decision and happiness, go on and live it, and give it the best you got, bc at the end of the end of the day, if it's taken for granted, at least you can stand back in the mirror and say, "Well, at least I tried," and who are we to say, judge or get mad if you did or didn't, or should we be or act any different ?? No, so live your life and not base it on what other ppl have to say, bc the thing is this, are they gonna be there when you're down and out, are they gonna make sure you and household is straight?? Hell to the nawl, lol, so go on live your life, pray and let God handle the rest. Many of times, b4 Deryck came home I wanted to leave him bc I stressed out and felt I could do so much better, but despite our differences and our disagreements, he's been the best father, husband anyone could ask for and my problem is this , I have to stop being scared and trying to live in the past and hold animosity towards him for not telling me about his past, I still do that from time to time, ya know, bc at times I get so scared that he's gonna do me like my ex did me and my kids and I can't or let that happen to us again with someone else, ya know. I really, really, really love my husband with all of my heart and we do get on each other's nerves, but to be honest, he's my best friend and I thank God everyday for him, it's a reason why he brought us together and stayed together this long ya know. Anyways, ladies, sorry for the long post, but I just thought I'd dropped by seeing I haven't talked to you all in so long, bc I've been so busy with work, sleep, and of course my other fav, being on my laptop,watching TV and eating lol.. So ladies, you all snuggle up, dress warm, have a gn rest, tc, ttys and love each and every one of you okay.. Love always, Tommie~~~.
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      Tommie Aw you welcome ladies and happy belated bday Queen Suga, and merry Xmas hope you had a good one too..
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      QueenSuga Merry Christmas Tommie!its also my birthday today.
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      mrs.soon to be arias Appreciate the encouragement! xoxo its cold too over here in California not as bad as the East coast! I'm so happy for you both!Merry Christmas! take care God bless!
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      Tommie Aw you welcome ladies and happy belated bday Queen Suga, and merry Xmas hope you had a good one too..
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    Tommie Hello ladies, and HAPPY HOLIDAYS, MERRY XMAS AND UPCOMING NEW YRS TO EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU. Well I finally made it to my destination (Wytheville, VA) for my state board medical certification exam, slept some b4 it was time for me to leave, and left my family behind in Roanoke, VA which is like an hour and half away from where I am right now, so wish me luck tomorrow and hope and pray I pass. Still waiting on the verdict to see if I gotten the job for medical coder/administrative assistant within the company where I current work which is part-time PRN Dietary Aide, so yes, I put in my transfer last wk before it was time for me to come here for my state board exam and haven't heard anything as of yet, but, Monday should be the day, the day after I return from Wytheville, VA. You know something?? Yrs ago when I was with my ex, who is also my abuser, he would never let do anything like this, ya know and I married the man who not only loves, support, and respect me and the kids, but someone who's all about being positive, and even though my husband has yet to find work to support our growing family, bc of his ID situation, I don't love or look at him any less, ya know. Is it or does it becomes challenging at times?? Yes!!! Bc a yr ago we were wondering where we would be as far as the move, everything and 8 mos ago we finally found a home we really like and that's suitable for our needs. The few ppl that's been there, loves it, and loves it dearly, I never thought in a million yrs we've came this far and God has truly blessed us in more ways than one, and I have Him, my family, husband closest friends, other relatives, and of course you all for the undying support you've shown me, dealing with the separation of my husband and I and for the new ones, yes, you can do this. Five yrs ago, I was just like you all, should I stay or should I go? But I stayed for one or two reasons, bc I love him and I want to give it a chance and see what happens. Yes ppl will come and go out of your life, whether it be friends, families, neighbors, co-workers, etc.. they'll fade away, but bc they do, that shouldn't stop you from doing what you have to do for you and your loved ones, okay. The road is long, rough, hard, and there is light at the end of the tunnel okay. Hang in there, bc there are better days ahead okay.I love you all, and I hope to hear from you really soon, tc and enjoy the rest of your weekend okay. B4, I go, it'll be close to xmas b4 I get my tests results and my certification in the mail to show I passed my state board exam. And if the job thing doesn't work, yes I'll be hurt about it, but at least I'll be state board certified and can always find a job that fits my educational credentials. Wish me luck ladies and have a good night, okay. Love always, Tommie~~~.
    2 months ago
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    Tommie Hey ladies, how's everyone doing tonight? Me tired, but worked today and work again tomorrow, off this Sunday and drum roll please, two things or more, one, I submitted my online resume through Indeed.com for a job opening within the facility where I currently work at, as a part-time PRN Dietary Aide and put in a transfer TODAY for Medical Coder/Administrative Assistant right in the same place where I work and I go for my new interview this Monday @ 10 am, and next weekend I will be going for my state board medical exam courtesy of my sister in law in Brooklyn, NYC yeah my husband's sister, so you see since Deryck and I have been together through the storms, we've weathered them together, through the ups and downs, we've managed to work together as a team,right, wrong and indifferent. we've maintained the love we have for each other is so amazing sometimes even though we both get on each other's nerves, lol, but I wouldn't have it any other way ya know. I hate to cut this post so short, but I had to share my good news to you all and I will feel you all in with the rest of the details later okay, tc, and ttys alright. Love you all so very much and as always, Love, Tommie~~~.
    2 months ago
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      BabyTorres Congrats & best wishes
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      Tommie Ty BabyTorres
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      Linda Awesome 😀
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    Tommie Hey ladies, how's everyone doing tonight? Well my family and I had a great Thanksgiving holiday and looking forward to Xmas and NYE spent in our new home together in our new big beautiful home, and next month also (b4 I forget) I go for my state board exam next month (courtesy of my sister in law) December 9 and looking to work from home and go back to school also in January. Hard to believe tomorrow and Wednesday marks one yr since my love been home and that we've been married one yr also, time surely flies right on by. Ladies, I'd love to stay and post more, but got dinner on the stove and I love you all so very much, tc and ttys okay. Love always, Tommie~~~.
    2 months ago
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    Tommie Gm ladies and happy pre Thanksgiving to you all, yes, I work half a day today (4:00-8:30 pm) and off tomorrow and Friday, kids last day of school was yesterday and our one yr anniversary of him coming home and our one yr wedding anniversary is all next week, November 28, 29. I'm off on the 27, and 28 but have to work on our anniversary and off Thursday November 30. The other good news is this, I will go for my state board exam next month (courtesy of my sister in law) so I'm more than excited and since December and January are such long months, something is telling me to not drop my classes for the spring classes starting January 8, 2018, bc I could work from home as a remote coder and still be able to go to school too. I'm leaving it in God's hands but I'm gonna or should I say I have to try somewhere, somehow. But my hubby is asleep, came home last night from work with the mellow smell of Grey Flannel cologne and a fresh hair cut, my, my, my, hmmmm lol...In fact just like does in the pic we took together.. This time last yr I was so excited of him coming home and it's hard to believe it's been a yr already and he still has to go back to Norfolk to file his paperwork to prove his legalized citizenship ugh, another 9.5 hours ya know, commonwealth sucks sometimes. At times I often wonder how life would be once we move to Charlotte, NC ya know and not deal with the commonwealth and their rules, which are ridiculous. I'd stay here if it wasn't a commonwealth state, but, it is and makes it hard for law abiding citizens to achieve anything good in life and the only support they may have are their "strong" wives. I love you all so very much, keep me posted on everything, we're having our first Thanksgiving dinner and looking forward to the Xmas holiday too, New Yrs and our anniversary of the day we met January 23, 2012. Take care each and every one of you, love always, Tommie~~~~.
    3 months ago
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      Bre Oh my gosh... it has already been a year since your husband came home. For some reason it seems like it was just yesterday to me. I am so glad you guys are doing well and get to spend Thanksgiving together this year. I hope you guys have a happy holiday together and a wonderful anniversary!!
      3 months ago
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      Tommie Ty Bre, our first Thanksgiving together under the same roof, this time last yr, Deryck was packing up (on this day exactly) and that meant I had 5 days left, for the kids as a 4.5 yr surprise Wednesday November 30th lol, yeah I kept that from them ya know..
      2 months ago

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    by kkadam 8 months ago
    Good afternoon Ms. Tommie, hope you all are enjoying your holiday weekend, I had grandbabies since Friday, so today is my day to relax, it is also the anniversary date of the day my older sister passed away over 30 yrs. ago, still feels like yesterday. but that isn't why I am posting to you, my Adam is due to get out soon like 30-35 days, we both are having our nervous issues, good and bad his concern is being able to take care of us financially, getting a job he feels no one will want to hire him, although I have told him there are places that will hire folks out of prison. he is stubborn he has experience to do jobs where he can make good money. he worked in prison till his life was threaten and he had to go into pc, My question did your husband have problems finding a job once he was home, did he get a lot of doors closed or was he fairly lucky? I keep trying to get Adam to be positive, about it he don't want to let me down, or have to depend on me. He has money set aside, but he is a planner and with my health issues, he don't really want me working, but I cannot work, it is not in me to not work.
  • Nancie
    by Nancie 11 months ago
    I just want to say that i admire ur strength and ur words of encouragement! I have read a few of the advices u have given other women here. Which i took into my own situations. So thank u so very much! God bless!
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    by billie1980 1 year ago
    Congratulations your bless
  • Jaegirlbae
    by Jaegirlbae 1 year ago
    Tommie!! I dont know what i'd do if you and everyone else was not here to support me. Thank you for your word girl. I am hanging in there. I know what me and G has is real no other love like ours and it is strong. Like you mentioned, love can conquer anything. I guess im juggling a lot right now and just need to learn how to deal with him not being here. Ill find it hopefully soon. Thanks again girl!!