Stine

Stine

30 years old
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I'm loving a lifer , met while incarcerated, and he expects a full blown relationship...his demands and needs from me I think are out of line for his sentence and him asking me....im confused and alone.
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    Ms.LWOP
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    twinkle
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    Stine
    Stine I'm loving a lifer , met while incarcerated, and he expects a full blown relationship...his demands and needs from me I think are out of line for his sentence and him asking me....im confused and alone.
    4 months ago
    • Mandee
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      Mandee What do you mean he expects a full blown relationship? Are y'all not in a relationship?
      4 months ago
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    Stine
    Stine I'm loving a lifer , met while incarcerated, and he expects a full blown relationship...his demands and needs from me I think are out of line for his sentence and him asking me....im confused and alone.
    4 months ago
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    • Hilarya93
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      Hilarya93 I understand its frustrating!!!! My heart is absolutely 110% with my baby, but Im not old or dead! I guess you will have to decide if you can have sex with someone else with no emotional attachment? It doesn't mean you don't love your man, its just a natural need and desire for human beings. If you decide you can do it, just don't tell him. Not that I think lying is ok, but he's asking you to do something that you obviously aren't cool with.
      4 months ago
    • twinkle
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      twinkle Hi Stine. I'm MWI as well. But not to a lifer. I don't think he should ask you things that you are uncomfortable about. If you want to private message me to talk about please do xx
      4 months ago
    • KNB
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      KNB Hi Stine I think I can understand the mix of emotions you are feeling, being MWI and with a lifer is going to be difficult at the best of times and only more so if he is demanding things you are uncomfortable with. I'm with twinkle if you need to talk or vent feel free to message or perhaps get some of the other ladies opinions in the MWI or lifers group they may be able to help give you some clarity and at least hopefully let you know you are definitly not alone in this. Take care
      4 months ago
    • kruppwife2014
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      kruppwife2014 I don't think if ur love one is in for life or a few years they still should ask us to do impossible things or things that make us feel uncomfortable
      4 months ago
    • Stine
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      Stine thank u all. but i met in while incarcerated and hes been down for 14 years. but he wants a relationship with me and i love him to death but im sorry there is not a NORMAL HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP when one is in jail. specially for life right now. he expects me not to ever talk to any males or male friends. he makes comments when i talk to his male cousins, and also he doesnt want me to ever sleep with anyone else. or form any type of relationship with someone on the outside. i feel that is soooo unfair for him to even thik or ask. i have a life out here just bc his stopped i dont think its fair to try to control me..and i get he is in prison and that mentality but i told him since day 1 relationships between 2 parties one in and one out dont always go that way and if u want me in his life then he got to STOP BEING LIKE THIS..i dunno shit is geting annoying bc we have the same arugement over and over again..been 4 years and its still a topic he doesnt get...
      4 months ago
    • Ms.LWOP
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      Ms.LWOP Ugh, I'm sorry you're dealing with this. I'm MWI with a LWOP and he's been down for 18 yrs. I don't know if anyone really has a 'normal, healthy relationship' but we do the best we can. And I think 'normal' is what we make it. That being said, relationships are filled with compromises and negotiations. If he's not willing to do that, maybe you need to be having a different conversation with him. My bf tells me he doesn't want me with another man but he also says he would understand if I left him. I think it's really about what each person can handle and no one knows that except you two. But for the record, I think it's unfair of him to expect you to cut off all contact with any men.... they are half the population!!!! xoxo
      4 months ago
    • Hilarya93
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      Hilarya93 I agree with Ms.LWOP, I'm an MWI, but mine has 9 more years to serve. He is very understanding where of he course he doesn't want me with other men, but he understands I'm not old and dead, so he doesn't expect me to "wait" the whole 9 years out. It's an unspoken thing between us; he doesn't ask and I don't tell. The only thing he asked was that I don't give my heart away, which I promised him I wouldn't. I told him he has my heart, so I don't even have it to give away. I honestly feel for someone to expect you to turn your life "off" is selfish and unfair, in prison or on the streets, relationships don't work out or they become one big lie.
      4 months ago
    • Stine
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      Stine right to both of you..he doesnt want me to sleep with other people but he hints where he would be unhappy with me and stop talking to me if i did? but i think thats unfair to ask me period.and in some way he does want me to stop my love life..but im 30 years old and i dont feel like i have to wait around for him if he even has the chance to come home..my heart is with him it truely is but he doesnt get the point that im tellling him. i dunno..i wish it was a unspoken thing with us but i know he wants only me and me not to give it to anyone else. but just saying that puts alot of pressure and thoughts into my head and makes this relationship more complicated then what it should be...urghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...
      4 months ago
    • Hilarya93
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      Hilarya93 I understand its frustrating!!!! My heart is absolutely 110% with my baby, but Im not old or dead! I guess you will have to decide if you can have sex with someone else with no emotional attachment? It doesn't mean you don't love your man, its just a natural need and desire for human beings. If you decide you can do it, just don't tell him. Not that I think lying is ok, but he's asking you to do something that you obviously aren't cool with.
      4 months ago
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    Mark's Angel
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    Stine
    Stine there has to be someone out there with their loved ones falling under this new juvenile lifer ruling in the state of PA?
    10 months ago
    • Admin Cat AKA MrsB1948
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      Admin Cat AKA MrsB1948 Morning! The following link will bring you to the PA Forum. http://www.strongprisonwives.com/forum/top/157
      10 months ago
    • Stine
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      Stine i posted in that group
      9 months ago
    • Admin Cat AKA MrsB1948
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      Admin Cat AKA MrsB1948 Did you get any response?
      9 months ago
    • Stine
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      Stine nobody yet... : (
      9 months ago
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    Stine
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    Stine
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    Stine
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    Crystal
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    Stine
    Stine anyones loved one fall under the juvenile lifers ruling?
    10 months ago
    • Admin.LexxC
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      Admin.LexxC Oh my goodness no 😢
      10 months ago
    • Admin LaSann
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      Admin LaSann Post under lifer beauties... There might be someone there that can help...
      10 months ago

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  • Stine
    by Stine 10 months ago
    I love a lifer.