Em

Em

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I feel bad for feeling this way but it absolutely kills me some days to see other couples together or talk to co workers at work about their S.O. and children. Seeing others move on with their lives and I just feel stuck, lonely and depressed. I want my

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    Em has accepted innkyyy's friend request.
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    Em I feel bad for feeling this way but it absolutely kills me some days to see other couples together or talk to co workers at work about their S.O. and children. Seeing others move on with their lives and I just feel stuck, lonely and depressed. I want my King home! Missing him something fierce today='(
    9 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hey Em, those feelings are normal and natural, so hang in there love okay. I just did 4.5 yrs with my baby, and like you I used to battle those same exact feelings and what helped me, was to keep, and stay busy and b4 I knew it, here comes Nov 28, 2016. So hang in there and trust me, it does get better over time, this is the grieving and adjusting part, okay, everyone handles theirs differently including you, and you'll gonna be okay. We're here to help you stay strong okay. Love ya girl, Tommie~~~~.
      9 months ago
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    Em Everyday is closer to sentencing,9 days and counting...I'm just praying for anything under 5years...he says he doesn't want me to be there but I've been to every court hearing etc since the beginning. I'm praying for a miracle. =(
    9 months ago
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      Em I am going, he knows i am. He just doesn't want to see me upset more then i already am when we hear the outcome. I'm trying hard for one right now.
      9 months ago
    • Admin JoJo Matthews
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      Admin JoJo Matthews Prayers up for sure!!!! Let us know the outcome
      9 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl Oh my goodness! He doesn't want you there:( Are you going anyways? I wouldn't be able to not go! Miracles happen everyday, ask God, believe in him & if it is right for you & his will, it will be!! Prayers
      9 months ago
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      Em I am going, he knows i am. He just doesn't want to see me upset more then i already am when we hear the outcome. I'm trying hard for one right now.
      9 months ago
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    Em I'm just very irritated at my fiancé's friend. I asked him if he wanted to help he could write a character letter to the judge on my fiancé's behalf. He told me he doesn't see what a letter is gonna do to help him get a lighter sentence bc he ranks high on the board and it probably won't help. It's irritating because it wasn't a violent crime and I don't see how a letter wouldn't help?! Just defeats me sometimes. I am a realist but at the same time I feel like any letters would help. Am I right or am I just dreaming for the best?!
    9 months ago
    • Allison84
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      Allison84 I think it's a 50/50 thing with those letters. My boyfriend had about 10 of them and there was no evidence of the crime he was in for and he still ended up with 20 years ... I am still glad we had letters though, I'm sure they help even if it's just a little.
      9 months ago
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    Robin
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    10 months ago
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    Em the waiting game is the hardest thing to do right now. Every day closer to sentencing ((March 15th)) is a day closer to knowing when my baby is going to be home. But every day out my baby belly grows alittle more and that makes it even more difficult! To know our child is growing bigger by the minute and he's missing it other then me telling him how things are changing every day I know it breaks his heart to not be here watching his family grow. To hear a grown man who never cries cry to me on the phone how he's sorry for something he didn't do because he's missing out on this journey that we are suppose to be doing together. I pray to God that all the letters on his behalf and everything else will allow the judge to see thru the BS and not give a horrible amount of time. I lost a lot of faith and I'm trying to find it again slowly...we just need something good to go in our favor!
    10 months ago
    • Mark's Angel
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      Mark's Angel Keep the faith Em. BELIEVE ME I know that's easier said than done. Sometimes it gets the darkest before the light shines through. Hang in there. I was where you are 4 years ago with our youngest child. I'm not going to lie to you... It's no cake walk, but you'll survive this. 😘 I'm here if you ever need to talk.
      10 months ago
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    Em LADIES?!?!?! Does anyone have any word of advice as to friends and family writing letters to the judge before sentencing?! Does it hurt to have a lot of people wanting to write on my fiancés behalf?! I'm grateful for everyone that is willing to write good things for him but I'm scared it would be too much. I have yet to write a letter but every time I write one I end up talking about the trail which I know I shouldn't do and I let my personal thoughts direct the letter. Any advice or comments would surely help ladies!!!!! TIA =) XOXO
    10 months ago
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      Em As of now i have maybe 8 letters from his family my family and a few friends. He is still claiming his innocence and that's the hardest part. I just want to be sure the judge actually reads them and takes them into serious consideration.
      10 months ago
    •  Admin Cate
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      Admin Cate Absolutely not, it shows how much support he has at home. It was like pulling teeth to get any family/friends to write Character letters on behalf of my husband, even then only 2 others did other than me. I would google exampls of letters
      10 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl It think it's a great idea! I do know that it is not about the quantity of letters he has but the quality. The letters should share some personal experiences they've had with your fiancé & that they are aware of his charges & (hopefully they have personal knowledge of this) that they know he is remorseful/regretful (whatever word best suits). Feel free to message me with any specific questions. My personal experience with character letters is that the Court does take them into consideration when making rulings on different aspects of the case. i can say that we were truly blessed with amazing family & friends & of course my husband is truly an amazing person but for this 1 criminal case in all his 42 years of life!! We had a total of 20 amazing letters! Feel free to message w/any questions. Good luck!!
      10 months ago
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      Em As of now i have maybe 8 letters from his family my family and a few friends. He is still claiming his innocence and that's the hardest part. I just want to be sure the judge actually reads them and takes them into serious consideration.
      10 months ago
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    "Em" commented on Admin JoJo Matthews's Blog "Hello February!! ".
    This worries me in the same sense that my fiancé and I are waiting for him to go up state from county but he's worried about going back to his home jail due to the "gangs" and the loyalty that lies with them. He doesn't want to fall into his old ...
    10 months ago
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    Em why for the life of me can't I try and be happy?!?! I know he is safe and okay where he is at so why can't the tears stop?! Maybe it's the pregnancy but it sucks to know the man you love is sitting behind bars because of your own family and something he didn't do ((even tho I know a lot of people probably say that)) I would never wish this pain on anyone.
    10 months ago
    • Kitty
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      Kitty Is hard to deal with. Stay strong. Sending prayers your way. Congrats on your baby
      10 months ago
    • Admin LaSann
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      Admin LaSann How long has he been gone? And when are you due?
      10 months ago
    • Em
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      Em I'm due in Aug. We have to wait for sentence which isn't until March it's only been 3weeks. We went thru 11months of him being in bc of the same case but was finally out for the past 6months bc we got his bail approved. I'm grateful we got that plus our baby he's thinking worse case is 5years"/
      10 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl As I am sure you know, there are good days & there are bad days. Being pregnant I am sure adds to the bad days. Keep the faith & remind yourself that this is only temporary. XO
      10 months ago
    • Admin LaSann
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      Admin LaSann I'm sure your body is overstressed right now. Take care of yourself and your baby! This is a stressful journey... But we are here to help you. 💙
      10 months ago
    • Em
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      Em I appriciate hearing that ladies thank you XOXO!!! I thought i would be use to doing this again but it's just harder this time. And i know me being stressed out doesn't help him feel any better.
      10 months ago
    • Island Girl
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      Island Girl You got this EM:) Prayers for you
      10 months ago
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    Em I just want to get off my chest how frustrating it has been the past two days for me. Not only am I pregnant with our first child but I just paid for new lawyer to help with an appeal and now our 4 legged fur baby has to get surgery tomorrow!!! I just want to cry because I'm doing this all on my own and I just don't know how much more weight I can take! I hate asking for any kind of help from anyone but at the same time I sometimes wish people would offer. Being strong for my family everyday! I'm legit scrapping by now. Just waiting for my phone call later tonight just so I can hear his voice!
    10 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hey Em-- I used to struggle those same exact feelings as you are now, how was I going to make it w/o my love, and guess what?? I did with 4 kids, going off to school part-time and doing things in and outside the home, bills paid, grocery, clothes and shoe shopping and taking care of him for 4.5 yrs and even though he's been home and we're still in a bit of a crisis bc my love can't get an ID in this commonwealth state of VA and they want to give him the run around whether he has all the documents or not, and that's one of the things holding him back from going to school, and if it wasn't for my children receiving monthly income and me going to school part-time, we'd be fucked right now ya know. So yeah you're gonna cry and feel lonely at times, I can't tell you how many times I used to feel that way, used to cry myself to sleep and have a rollercoaster of emotions of feelings while he was away and I know it used to bother him bc one minute we're soaring the clouds together and the next minute I'm ready to call it quits, so you're not alone in this okay. Here is where you'll find comfort, lots of love, respect and encouragement and you'll realize you're stronger than you think and we'll help you get there okay.. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      10 months ago
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K and I met in 2014. The first night we met he told me I was going to be his ((still makes me smile)) I never wanted kids or to get married until after 3months of being with K I knew I wanted a family with this man. He is the most honest caring manly man I have ever met and I am in awe that a man like him wanted to start a new life with someone like me.
July 2015 my younger brother committed a burglary and after he gave two different statements he ended up throwing my fiancé's name out in the mix. Sept 2015 they came and arrested him since he was still on state parole((with 6months left may I add)) He sat in jail until Aug 2016 when we could finally bail him out, longest 11months of my life!!!!!!!!! The court system put us thru legit hell everything to constantly continuing trail to restricting contact between him and I. They thought about dropping the charges against my fiancé due to being "lack" of evidence against him and in my opinion there was no evidence but hearsay from my brother, who was just angry at us for other reasons. I had proof of me being his alibi that he was with me the night of the crime which I testified to. We finally went to trail at the beginning of January where jury unfortunately found him guilty, which was a huge shock to us both. They took him right away=( We are currently waiting sentencing which happens in March but we are now in the process of appealing as well.
I am currently pregnant expecting our first child in Aug. 2017 This was not the road we planned for our future and sadly I've lost a lot of family over this. I have a few good friends and some awesome family members from both sides that are still supportive.
I love this man with all my heart and I still couldn't be happier to be having his child and knowing that he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Love isn't easy but if it was everyone who have it!! I have a man who thinks the world of me. I pray for nothing more then 4 years but we are preparing for the worse which is 5years. My heart hurts knowing that we will be raising our child very differently then we want but will be loved no less! The bond and love he and I share I wish others could feel and know. We are both scared for what the future holds but together we know we can conquer it!!
He is my King and I am his Queen and just like a game of a Chess the Queen protects his King!

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