Britty1007

Britty1007

28 years old
Female
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3 weeks since I've seen his face or heard his voice. I wish both of us were skilled in the art of telepathy.
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    A friend whose husband was in Federal Prison.

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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 has accepted wonderwoman's friend request.
    5 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 3 weeks since I've seen his face or heard his voice. I wish both of us were skilled in the art of telepathy.
    5 months ago
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    • Tommie
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      Tommie Yes!! and the more you keep yourself busy, the faster the time flies okay.. Love ya hun
      5 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Ikr, been there and dealt with it for 4.5 yrs, I know the feeling you're experiencing right now. Love always, Tommie~```
      5 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 I feel so lost without him right now. I have to find something to preoccupy myself with. I'm just so depressed and can't get motivated. I think he's going to be my project. I think I'm going to start the advocating process for him with the judge and just run with it.
      5 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Yes!! and the more you keep yourself busy, the faster the time flies okay.. Love ya hun
      5 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 Ok, so forgive me if this question is crazy or just downright full of ignorance and lack of intelligence but.....do people ever write to a judge or parole board on behalf of their loved one and explain why they think a more lenient sentence would be beneficial for the incarcerated loved one? Is this a thing? (I'm starting to go crazy and getting desperate)
    5 months ago
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    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 I'm having faith that it'll be a helpful and beneficial thing to do. I've heard a lot of positive things from people about doing this.
      5 months ago
    • Molly
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      Molly Yes! I asked my husband's friends and family as well as my own to write a letter to the DA. It did ge forwarded to the judge as well. The more the merrier. Good luck. Ive been in your shoes. Be creative, think outside the box and remember at the end of the day you did all you could do.
      5 months ago
    • CombatVetBride
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      CombatVetBride Yes!!! Write the judge, the DA, local politicians, journalist - anyone associated with the case that might be able to influence or help. "The Squeaky wheel get the oil" is the mindset you need to adopt especially when he gets to a facility and you end up advocating for your hubby. It's not easy, it can feel overwhelming but try try try again. The judge ultimately decides, so he is who you want to flood with letters. Family, friends, co-workers etc. If you can find other cases within the state that are similar and got a lenient sentence - reference them in your letters as well. Also keep in mind that we are in the trump era and his AG (Keebler Sessions) is asking for longer and harsher sentences. This means odds are stacked against you but DO NOT let that discourage. Just do the best you can with what you’ve got. ((Hug)) -G
      5 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 I'm actually really shocked with the responses. I honestly thought I needed to keep my mouth shut and hope for the best. I dont even know what to say other than I believe my fiance has changed and the difference between now and the past is that he has someone waiting for him. Someone who is putting their life on hold because they love this man and want to start a family. I want to tug on heartstrings but I'm also being very sincere. You guys really think giving it a shot might work?
      5 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 Molly - what do you mean be creative and think outside the box?
      5 months ago
    • Ettenna
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      Ettenna Yes
      5 months ago
    • Cupcake
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      Cupcake I've wondered about this myself. I'm thinking of doing this. My husband is a hardworking man, that just screwed up one night. He's been out of trouble for almost 20 years.
      5 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 I'm having faith that it'll be a helpful and beneficial thing to do. I've heard a lot of positive things from people about doing this.
      5 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 Note to self: no more watching prison documentaries on YouTube as it will only make the anxiety and PTSD 10x's worse and will trigger a panic attack. Omg.
    5 months ago
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    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 That's good. I wish I could say the same thing. It's been one thing after another since he's been away. Right now he's in the hole because of a conflict of interest issue. I haven't heard his voice or seen his face since the 4th. :(
      5 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie I've never them myself or the OITNB (Orange is the New Black), but to each it's own right..
      5 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 Yes....lesson learned
      5 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Gm and yes Britty1007
      5 months ago
    • TagsGirl82
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      TagsGirl82 I made that mistake watching seasons of OZ after my fiance went away...it was NOT a good idea! Lol
      5 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 I thought it'd be a better alternative to the whole "ignorance is bliss" concept, but now I'm not so sure. I think I'll just let him tell me whatever it is he wants to while he's in there and once he gets home.
      5 months ago
    • TagsGirl82
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      TagsGirl82 Britty1007 that's exactly what I decided to do. When I told him I started watching OZ he was like Are You Crazy?!!! Lol. I told him to just let me know whatever he was comfortable telling me. He's had a pretty easy stay so far with the exception of 1 incident when he was threatened in the cafeteria at his old camp for not giving some guy an extra cookie....ughhh so stupid. But other than that it's been smooth sailing thank God.
      5 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 That's good. I wish I could say the same thing. It's been one thing after another since he's been away. Right now he's in the hole because of a conflict of interest issue. I haven't heard his voice or seen his face since the 4th. :(
      5 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 That sickening feeling you get when you open your mailbox and there's nothing from him.....
    5 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Hey Britty1007-- Don't worry love, it could a few factors as to why you didn't get a letter from him, for one maybe they're on lock down, that seems to be for both him not able to call or send any letters out to you, anything, but don't lose hope okay, better days ahead alright. Enjoy your weekend and with all that entails, do something today if you're not working or going to summer school, treat yourself out, that should put a smile on your face and if and when you do hear from him tell him how your weekend went and he'll decide how his went good/bad aight. Hope this helps some. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      5 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 Tommie, I can always count on you to help cheer me up. You're awesome. Thank you for the words of encouragement. ❤
      5 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Yw Britty1007 anytime love
      5 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 Does anyone here have a loved one at SCI Somerset? (Pennsylvania) I haven't heard from my fiance since our visit yesterday afternoon.....about 24 hours. This is not the normal for us and he said he felt like something bad was about to happen. I asked him if he knew something I didn't, but he said no ....he just had a bad feeling. I don't know if there's a lock down or he's in the hole. I can't imagine why he would be there. Anyway.... just freaking out and reaching out.
    6 months ago
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    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 I am having panic attacks every morning. I am literally sick to my stomach. He doesn't know anything. They haven't told him what their plan is. I doubt they'd let the guard go before moving my fiance to another prison altogether. You're right....its not fair at all. I am so confused and nobody in the prison wants to take a minute out of their day and explain anything. They talk to me as if I did something wrong just for being with my fiance and loving him. I told him in a letter I want to get married asap so I'll be allowed to see him. This Sunday will be two weeks since I've seen him or heard his voice. I'm literally scared that I'm going to lose my mind.
      6 months ago
    • kkadam
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      kkadam call the prison they should at least tell you if the unit on lockdown, if he is in lockup
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 He's in the hole for a conflict of interest issue. The new guard is related to the person who testified against him FIFTEEN years ago. So the guard recognized him and now he's in the hole. I dont know if there's more to it than that but when I spoke to his counselor, he said that sounded legit. No calls. No visits because im not immediate family. It's been a week. I'm gonna lose it.
      6 months ago
    • kkadam
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      kkadam ok, so what is the plan for him? is he going to have to stay in the hole for the whole darn time, or are they going to move him to another prison, or move the new guard? it isnt fair to him to have to be in the hole . and maybe he can get you listed as common law spouse, so you can get calls and visits.
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 I am having panic attacks every morning. I am literally sick to my stomach. He doesn't know anything. They haven't told him what their plan is. I doubt they'd let the guard go before moving my fiance to another prison altogether. You're right....its not fair at all. I am so confused and nobody in the prison wants to take a minute out of their day and explain anything. They talk to me as if I did something wrong just for being with my fiance and loving him. I told him in a letter I want to get married asap so I'll be allowed to see him. This Sunday will be two weeks since I've seen him or heard his voice. I'm literally scared that I'm going to lose my mind.
      6 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 I'd like to start this off by apologizing because every time I get on here, I have something negative to say about my current situation. I see very little positive in it. However, this is my place to vent and if I don't get these things off my chest, I feel like I could burst. Today I went to see my boyfriend. I am emotionally exhausted by the visit. Both my desire to want him home and my resentment towards him for allowing himself to be taken away from me are at odds. I love him but sometimes I hate him at the same time. In fact, I'm not so sure I'm even IN love anymore. We all know there's a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. I could take just about all the verbal dumping he did on me today - he's been frustrated with my attitude and lack of trying in our relationship. I get it. What I couldn't take was being blamed for being why he chose the plea he took on the day of his preliminary hearing in February. I was scared out of my mind that day. Things didn't go as we had expected. His attorney didn't appear to be fighting very hard and both the attorney and my boyfriend's mom said he wouldn't get anything better than his 2 to 4 plea. So, I begged him to take it. I honestly didn't understand what was going on. I was trusting what the attorney was saying, not my boyfriend. If he knew what he wanted to do, why didn't he just do It? If he knew he didn't want the plea which he's now angry about taking, why didn't he just do what he wanted to do? I never would have begged for something that I thought was a bad thing. I feel he should have known by my hysterics that day and the fact that Ive never been in that situation before, maybe my opinion wasnt the best one to rely on. He thinks he deserves better. I don't understand legalities whatsoever. My boyfriend is an 5F re- fail. He had 5 years parole left. And he had violated before so I dont know how nice parole will be this time. That 2 to 4 could be a 7 to 9 if the parole board so chooses. Even though Im not the reason hes in prison, I feel somehow at fault for all of this. And I wont lie, I dont know if I can wait 7 to 9 years if that's the direction this thing goes. It breaks my heart to admit that and I feel like a terrible person. I'm 27. I want marriage. I want a family. I want a stable relationship. 15 minute phone calls a few times a day and five visits a month isn't exactly what I signed up for when I met this man. For the record, when I met him, he told me he had a legal past but nothing current. He promised me he wouldn't go back to jail. Well, we see how far that promise got him. This all is getting to me. Each day it feels harder and more unbearable. I feel weak. I feel like a crybaby. I don't want to abandon him when he needs me the most, but what about what I need? Who do I have for me? Anyway, that's my rant for the day. I'm sorry to be so negative all the time. Love you guys.
    6 months ago
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      kkadam this is what we are here for, a place to vent, ask questions or just talk....my only issue is when someone ask for advice and we give it, and because it isnt what they want to hear, they get upset and think we are being mean rude or negative. I tell the truth how i see it, and can only go by the information only given by you. First please stop letting this man disrespect you, and talk crazy to you, he has been in trouble before so he knew what he was dealing with, most attorneys unless they are getting paid by you the client dont really care or get their cases till the day of trial or whatever, and if he has already violated his parole he should have know to accept the plea becasue if he would have went before the judge or jury he would have gotten more time. You are right to feel the way you feel, sometimes we rush into things and think it is love when it really isnt. and you are right to think about if you really want to live this type of life. it is not for all women. you see how we all are posting about missing our guys, and some of us who like me met my guy mwi have never gotten to be with them we have had one visit and 2 kisses, but our meeting is different, from most his daughter is married to my youngest son, he wrote her, and i read the letter he sounded so sad and lost and in need of someone to tell him it will be okay you still have family, and yes at that time i concidered us family. honestly i really didnt expect for him to write me back, i knew of him but he didnt know of me, but with in days i had a letter and it went from there, for the first 6 months we were friends because i was still married but separated and getting a divorce, but i never shared that information with him till i knew what my and his true feelings were for each other. And over the first year i did second guess myself, and he would ask me was i using him to get back at my ex? i really had to think about that and i could honestly say no, when we split it was a relief. Now i can say 2 and a half years later and some issues later i really do love this man, and i feel he loves me, but i always tell him it is what he does once he is out that will let me know he is for real. So my friend put you and your needs first, because he isnt. all of his needs are being met in prison he has no worries about rent lights water or gas, food. we pay for all of that in taxes. I think you should step back from him, write him a letter tell him how you feel, this way he cannot talk crazy to you, and let him know until he can accept responsibity for his actions you are not going to be his lash out person, nor will you put up with it. and if he cant show and give you better respect you will no longer speak with him. If you feel you can do this, then do it and let him make his choice. Somethimes guys think we have to do this time with them and unless we are married when they go in, i feel we dont. they broke the law we didnt. this is just my opinion. just take time for you for a while. and if you still feel like you can be in a relationship with him and he make the changes you want him to then go for it. but you have to put you first. good luck to you and you can all ways message me.
      6 months ago
    • QueenSuga
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      QueenSuga i agree with kkadam.
      6 months ago
    • Hilarya93
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      Hilarya93 I also agree with kkadam. Your feelings are absolutely valid and understandable, it's not being negative, it's being real. I like kkadam met my love while he was incarcerated and it has crossed my mind why did I do this, but I love him enough that I'm going to make it work as long as I can handle, hopefully I don't give up before he comes home, but he also doesn't disrespect me in any way. So, like kkadam, my advice is to take a breather and figure things out for yourself. If you aren't in love with him anymore, you are wasting your time. You are still young, even if he does get 4 years, you would still be young enough to get married and have children, BUT if you aren't in love, then don't waste your life away in misery. But we are all here for you, so vent away honey!
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 As long as there's breath in my body, I feel the desire and stubbornness to fight for us. I do love him. Our fights just cloud me sometimes. I know we fight because we are both scared and frustrated.
      6 months ago
    • kkadam
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      kkadam And there you have made your decision
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 Yes
      6 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 I'd like to start this off by apologizing because every time I get on here, I have something negative to say about my current situation. I see very little positive in it. However, this is my place to vent and if I don't get these things off my chest, I feel like I could burst. Today I went to see my boyfriend. I am emotionally exhausted by the visit. Both my desire to want him home and my resentment towards him for allowing himself to be taken away from me are at odds. I love him but sometimes I hate him at the same time. In fact, I'm not so sure I'm even IN love anymore. We all know there's a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. I could take just about all the verbal dumping he did on me today - he's been frustrated with my attitude and lack of trying in our relationship. I get it. What I couldn't take was being blamed for being why he chose the plea he took on the day of his preliminary hearing in February. I was scared out of my mind that day. Things didn't go as we had expected. His attorney didn't appear to be fighting very hard and both the attorney and my boyfriend's mom said he wouldn't get anything better than his 2 to 4 plea. So, I begged him to take it. He's angry he took it. He thinks he deserves better. I don't understand legalities whatsoever. My boyfriend is an 5F re- fail. He had 5 years parole left. And he had violated before so I dont know how nice parole will be this time. That 2 to 4 could be a 7 to 9 if the parole board so chooses. I wont lie, I dont know if I can wait that long. It breaks my heart to admit that and I feel like a terrible person. I'm 27. I want marriage. I want a family. I want a stable relationship. 15 minute phone calls a few times a day and five visits a month isn't exactly what I signed up for when I met this man. For the record, when I met him, he told me he had a legal past but nothing current. He promised me he wouldn't go back to jail. Well, we see how far that promise got him. This all is getting to me. Each day it feels harder and more unbearable. I feel weak. I feel like a crybaby. I don't want to abandon him when he needs me the most, but what about what I need? Who do I have for me? Anyway, that's my rant for the day. I'm sorry to be so negative all the time. Love you guys.
    6 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 I'd like to start this off by apologizing because every time I get I'm here, I have something negative to say about my current situation. I see very little positive in it. However, this is my place to vent and if I don't get these things off my chest, I feel like I could burst. Today I went to see my boyfriend. I am emotionally exhausted by the visit. Both my desire to want him home and my resentment towards him for allowing himself to be taken away from me are at odds. I love him but sometimes I hate him at the same time. In fact, I'm not so sure I'm even IN love anymore. We all know there's a difference between loving someone and being in love with him. I could take just about all the verbal dumping he did on me today - he's been frustrated with my attitude and lack of trying in our relationship. What I couldn't take was being blamed for being why he chose the plea he took on the day of his preliminary hearing in February. I was scared out of my mind that day. Things didn't go as we had expected. His attorney didn't appear to be fighting very hard and both the attorney and my boyfriend's mom said he wouldn't get anything better than his 2 to 4 plea. So, I begged him to take it. He's angry he took it. He thinks he deserves better. I don't understand legalities whatsoever. My boyfriend is an 5F re- fail. He had 5 years parole left. And he had violated before so I dont know how nice parole will be this time. That 2 to 4 could be a 7 to 9 if the parole board so chooses. I wont lie, I dont know if I can wait that long. It breaks my heart to admit that and I feel like a terrible person. I'm 27. I want marriage. I want a family. I want a stable relationship. 15 minute phone calls a few times a day and five visits a week isn't exactly what I signed up for when I met this man. For the record, when I met him, he told me he had a legal past but nothing current. He promised me he wouldn't go back to jail. Well, we see how far that promise got him. This all is getting to me. Each day it feels harder and more unbearable. I feel weak. I feel like a crybaby. I don't want to abandon him when he needs me the most, but what about what I need? Who do I have for me? Anyway, that's my rant for the day. I'm sorry to be so negative all the time. Love you guys.
    6 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 I am utterly losing my mind right now. This very moment I should be at the prison for visit. My fiance is waiting for me. He has no idea that when I went to fill my car up with gas last night, I noticed smoke pouring out from under my hood and found out my fans aren't working. I feel so sick that I can't call him and tell him. He probably thinks I'm in the parking lot right now ready to walk in. This has been the worst year of ny life. The transmission in my other car (love of my life other than my fiance) blew. My fiance is in prison. My dad died on the 11th of this month. Things keep getting worse and worse. It's 8:30 here in PA. I need Scott to call me!!
    6 months ago
    • Elaine
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      Elaine Im sorry to hear that. I hope things turn around for you and gets better.
      6 months ago
    • kkadam
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      kkadam i have had some days like that, especially with my car, and l love my car. sometimes you are scared to say what can happen next, because you just may find out! i lost both my dads years ago, they were my heart. and my mom a year ago. this month is the anniversay of the loss of my older sister 27 years she has been gone, still feel like yesterday. i say this to let you know you will make it, it does get better everything you are going through will make you a stronger and wiser woman. I hope you get your car fixed and maybe can see your man next week, when he finds out he will understand, i know he will rather have you safe at home than broke down on the street. have a wonderful week
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 Thank you both . I appreciate it.
      6 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 I am utterly losing my mind right now. This very moment I should be at the prison for visit. My fiance is waiting for me. He has no idea that when I went to fill my car up with has last night, I noticed smoke pouring out from under my hood and found out my fans aren't working. I feel so sick that I can't call him and tell him. He probably thinks I'm in the parking lot right now ready to walk in. This has been the worst year of ny life. The transmission in my other car (love of my life other than my fiance) blew. My fiance is in prison. My dad died on the 11th of this month. Things keep getting worse and worse. It's 8:30 here in PA. I need Scott to call me!!
    6 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 Could someone help me understand why someone would want money put on another person's books (which is frowned upon) versus their own....?
    6 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Some inmates may not be as lucky as others ya know, and I can't say nothing bc I've done it before a few times ya know and the favor to my now husband was returned back from some, and then too, you gotta look at it from this angle, some inmates might've burnt bridges with individuals too ya know, so you never know, just be careful who you trust and take care of you and your household b4 you do anything else for someone else aight. Love ya girl, Tommie~~~~~.
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 I'm just confused how this helps him more than me putting money on his own books.
      6 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie He may have a job Britty, and wants you to save money on your end for a rainy day, most men do, okay, so when they come out, they'll have a substantial amount of money okay. Make sense, and hopefully my response gives you hope aight. Love ya girl, Tommie~``.
      6 months ago
    • QueenSuga
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      QueenSuga he may owe the guy,do he do drugs?he could owe for a number of reasons,do he gamble?ask him.
      6 months ago
    • Fish
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      Fish Gamble or exchange favors
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 He's been having issues with gambling. I know for a fact he doesn't have a job. I just feel disrespected because I told him after the last time I saved his ass from a $300 gambling debt that I would never send money anywhere again except on his own books. I told him if he gambled again, I was gone. So I guess we will see if he disappears for a while because of getting sent to the hole for a fight over money. It's expensive enough to be a prison girlfriend/fiance/wife. I'm done getting him out of trouble.
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 And unfortunately, he couldn't save money to save his life.
      6 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Gm Britty, then if that's the issue, then I'd say take a break okay or leave if you choose, and sometimes leaving makes them wake up and realize we're stronger than they think bc we can survive with or without them and unfortunately he let his weakness get the best of him and he's putting his pleasure before anything and that's so sad, so it's up to you on what you decide from this point on.. Love you
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 Love you too Tommie. Thank you.
      6 months ago
    • Sam
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      Sam I put money on my bfs friends books because my bf owes restitution so he only gets 45% of what i send. His friend doesn't owe so he can use all of it.
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 That makes sense...
      6 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 Thank you
      6 months ago
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    Britty1007
    Britty1007 Would anyone have any advice or guidance as to how to go about filing/writing a complaint against a prison? I'd like my voice to be heard regarding an issue I encountered today.
    6 months ago
    • Ms.LWOP
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      Ms.LWOP I guess it depends on the state your in. In CA, the CDCR website explains the process of filling out a form and who to submit it to. I think the forms are available on-line. Hope that helps and sorry to hear you had problems :(
      6 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Or like Ms.LWOP said try the state bar in your state, okay, I think all states has a state bar and I think too you could file online and make your concerns known, hope this helps, good luck to you and so sorry you had a bad day today. Love always, Tommie~~~.
      6 months ago
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    7 months ago
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    Britty1007 My fiance is going to be the death of me, I swear. The man has an obvious gambling problem. He can't stay away from the poker tables. He lost $300 he didn't have to begin with and just assumed I'd be able to help him. At first I said I would. However, I'm not going to enable his behavior. I haven't been able to get ahead financially because of his irresponsible behaviors. I have bills and things that need taken care of at home. He's only making it harder on me. On top of all that, he's in cell confinement for 10 days because he didn't wake up in time for count. I saw him on Monday. He promised he'd write me everyday since he isn't allowed to call during his confinement. It's Thursday and I would have gotten something from him by now. I'm worried that he's pissed I backed out of helping him and is refusing to write me. Maybe he won't want to talk to me again. Sometimes I just feel used and manipulated. My brain and heart are really at odds with one another. Not to mention my instincts....
    7 months ago
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    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh you're so welcome Britty1007 and I messaged you a lil while ago and hope to hear more from you soon, okay love tc and have a great weekend alright..
      7 months ago
    • cheryl
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      cheryl Hello Please continue to pay your bills, and most Importantly STOP SENDING HIM MONEY
      7 months ago
    • Juke
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      Juke hold your ground
      7 months ago
    • cheryl
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      cheryl If he TRULY LOVES YOU, He would write you and admit his faults, but try and help him through this. .. If he gets upset when you cant do for him.then yes hes using YOU
      7 months ago
    • BellaHeart1013
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      BellaHeart1013 Trust your instincts, a woman's intuition is everything.
      7 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie You right Britty1007 you need to take care of you first okay, I'll add more when I get back alright love
      7 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 Thank you for the support guys. I've been feeling so guilty for not helping him...
      7 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Okay back to you Britty1007- First of all, sorry for the short post, didn't have time what I really wanted to say, but, you need to handle your business at home FIRST b4 you're able to take care of him, okay, money be tight these days and the unthinkable can happen like say you lost your job, what then? And he needs to understand that, and I can't remember if you said you had kids or not, they too need you for everything, so thing is this, don't lose yourself while you're doing time with him, yes he needs and wants you, but at the end of day, who's helping you? Nobody, but you, so if he can seem to understand that, then that's on him, okay, no one here should judge, or criticize your decision of being with him. I just did 4.5 yrs with my love with help at all okay, and now that my love is home to us, the weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Doing time and maintaining a relationship with someone isn't always gonna be easy, and thank God you found us, bc there's women here who's in the same or similar situations as yours so don't feel bad when you can't accommodate his financial needs, he needs to understand that alright, and if he truly loves you like he says he does, he would show it, not just by his words, but through his actions, food for thought and hope this helps some. Love ya girl, Tommie~~~.
      7 months ago
    • Admin LaSann
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      Admin LaSann Britt... Your sisters are on point! Take care of you!100% when he comes home if your living under a bridge off the expressway then you can't help either of you...keep your bills and your sanity (this journey makes us all a little bonkers) 1st. I've told mine this is your budget and that's that's! He sounds like he's having fun with his time and not learning from it. Put your foot down and take a stand. He may be angry.... But true love will RESPECT you. Hugs sis!
      7 months ago
    • Britty1007
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      Britty1007 Omg I love you guys so much. Thank you. I sincerely mean it.
      7 months ago
    • Tommie
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      Tommie Oh you're so welcome Britty1007 and I messaged you a lil while ago and hope to hear more from you soon, okay love tc and have a great weekend alright..
      7 months ago

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